Sex is important in relationship. But, we don't talk about it, we don' teach either............... because it is not a subject to be taught ?
How modern are we ? How independent are we ?
How modern are we ? How independent are we ?
Thursday 31 May 2012
IT'S A T I R E D WORLD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The life style has changed a lot. It is very difficult to see many people with the real positive energy.
People neglect the necessities that makes them healthy and energetic. The result is ' a tired world.'
People neglect the necessities that makes them healthy and energetic. The result is ' a tired world.'
WE HAVE TO BE OURSELVES !!!
If we have to feel comfortable and in control , we need to be ourselves.
This is not about arrogance. We should use all information from whatever sources, people and the final call should be of ours.
But, for this, one need to self educate on a regular basis.
This is not about arrogance. We should use all information from whatever sources, people and the final call should be of ours.
But, for this, one need to self educate on a regular basis.
PRODUCTS OF INFLUENCE !!!!!
We are being influenced by many. It is unfortunate that we surrender ourselves to external things.
We, very rarely, use our thinking power for ourselves. This is one main reason for all uncomfortable feeling that we carry through out our lives !
We, very rarely, use our thinking power for ourselves. This is one main reason for all uncomfortable feeling that we carry through out our lives !
FREE OF OBLIGATIONS !!!!!
We are slaves to so many things. We are so uncomfortable to take help from others even when we need it. This is due to the fear of obligations.
If we can raise our self esteem , we won't feel uncomfortable.
If we can raise our self esteem , we won't feel uncomfortable.
CHANGE & EXPOSURE ............ MIS-MATCH !!!!!
Today we are being exposed to many things at an alarming fast rate.
But, we are not able to match our changes to the exposure.
Primarily , we , the human beings are slow to change . But , the gap between exposure and change create miseries in our lives !
But, we are not able to match our changes to the exposure.
Primarily , we , the human beings are slow to change . But , the gap between exposure and change create miseries in our lives !
WHEN WE DON'T !!!
If we want to make an impression on others, we should not try !
When we don't try , we make an impression !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
When we don't try , we make an impression !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OUR PEOPLE ARE OUR MOST VALUABLE ASSETS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Our people are the best and most valuable assets that we can have in our life time.
We may achieve any thing, but not having our people on our side, we may feel vacuum in our life.
Parents, children, girlfriend, boyfriend whoever may be !
We may achieve any thing, but not having our people on our side, we may feel vacuum in our life.
Parents, children, girlfriend, boyfriend whoever may be !
TAKING INTO CONFIDENCE !
We need to take people into confidence, if we want to have the required result.
People like to be respected and by taking them into confidence , we are re-assuring them for what/who they are.
People like to be respected and by taking them into confidence , we are re-assuring them for what/who they are.
CONVINCING BY FORCE !
We try to convince others, very often by force. For good results , all that we have to do is to keep the flow going in a positive, natural way.
It's not necessary to convince, trying too hard may turn out to be ineffective.
People should be given the time to realise things for themselves........... positive approach !
It's not necessary to convince, trying too hard may turn out to be ineffective.
People should be given the time to realise things for themselves........... positive approach !
DON'T HIGHLIGHT "WEAK POINTS"
While communicating , we should not highlight the weak points of the other person. It's a put-off.
On the other hand , negative people try to rub on the weak points of others. This way they try to irritate and provoke.
They get pleasure from doing so. But, it's a not at all good for a healthy relationship !
On the other hand , negative people try to rub on the weak points of others. This way they try to irritate and provoke.
They get pleasure from doing so. But, it's a not at all good for a healthy relationship !
SARCASM............ BIG PUT-OFF !
We all develop a pattern in any thing we do. Some people are too sarcastic in their approach. Sarcasm is the flavour of their communication.
Sarcasm is a big put-off in any relationship.
Communication , being the nerve centre of relationship, we should be careful to see that it doesn't turn out to be put-off.
Sarcasm is a big put-off in any relationship.
Communication , being the nerve centre of relationship, we should be careful to see that it doesn't turn out to be put-off.
Wednesday 30 May 2012
BETTER PERSON !!!
The purpose to be a better person helps us to be in control of our life.
This purpose help us to focus on learning and improving constantly and positively.
If focus on the right things , we become better human beings and that help us to be happy !
This purpose help us to focus on learning and improving constantly and positively.
If focus on the right things , we become better human beings and that help us to be happy !
NEVER FEEL , BEING HURT !
We feel 'hurt' too often in life.
It's just a feeling that we develop without a proper base even.
If we have high self esteem , we would never feel hurt !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ,
we will learn from situations like that and move on fresh and better
equipped
It's just a feeling that we develop without a proper base even.
If we have high self esteem , we would never feel hurt !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ,
we will learn from situations like that and move on fresh and better
equipped
SHARING IN THE RIGHT SENSE !!
Sharing should be based on equality and for mutual benefits.
Imposing on another is not sharing.
Real sharing is a show of respect too, and respect in relationship is very , very important.
There is no relationship possible without respect !!!
Imposing on another is not sharing.
Real sharing is a show of respect too, and respect in relationship is very , very important.
There is no relationship possible without respect !!!
MIRACLE OF SHARING !!!!!!!
Human beings are ' social animals.'
If we are social, we have to be sociable too.
Therefore we are bound to share things.
Sharing of any thing - information, experience, jokes and life itself lead to
miracles !
If we are social, we have to be sociable too.
Therefore we are bound to share things.
Sharing of any thing - information, experience, jokes and life itself lead to
miracles !
CLARITY IN THOUGHT PROCESS !!!
We must train ourselves to bring clarity in to our thought process.This way we can handle many things and tackle difficult situations too.
First step is to take one thought at a time...... by practise we will be able to separate the thoughts into single units.
Once we achieve the above process, we can handle every thing !
First step is to take one thought at a time...... by practise we will be able to separate the thoughts into single units.
Once we achieve the above process, we can handle every thing !
WANT TO TALK BUT, DON'T WANT TO LISTEN !
In any relationship, listening is more important than talking.
We all want to talk and share things , but what lacks in us is the willingness to listen to the other party.
We should give time for the other person to talk, so that we are showing respect too .
We all want to talk and share things , but what lacks in us is the willingness to listen to the other party.
We should give time for the other person to talk, so that we are showing respect too .
IT'S NOT QUANTITY BUT, QUALITY THAT MATTERS !
It's always the quality that matters in life. Yes, a reasonable quantity of any thing is important.
We do not have the quality time for our children, girl friend, boy friend, parents etc.
But, we need to make sure that we are getting enough time for this.
There are people, who have lots of time but, they do not bring in the
importance of quality factor often!
We do not have the quality time for our children, girl friend, boy friend, parents etc.
But, we need to make sure that we are getting enough time for this.
There are people, who have lots of time but, they do not bring in the
importance of quality factor often!
PHYSICAL MEMORY !!!!
It's not our brain only has the ability to remember things.
Our muscles, nerves and cells too can remember things.
Therefore we need to maintain them in good condition.
All our actions have a direct effect on us because of the ability that our body has !
Our muscles, nerves and cells too can remember things.
Therefore we need to maintain them in good condition.
All our actions have a direct effect on us because of the ability that our body has !
DEFAME OTHERS !
Negative people create scenes to defame others. This way, they think, they can have a cover for themselves. They try to repeat this in order to prevent an imaginary attack coming to them.
They feel threatened constantly ......... just a misplaced self imagination only.
This happens due to lack of self esteem !
They feel threatened constantly ......... just a misplaced self imagination only.
This happens due to lack of self esteem !
ATTACK IS THE BEST DEFENCE !
Negative people know it and use well. Whenever they feel uncomfortable , they use this as a weapon to hide themselves. Whenever they feel guilty of their own mistake, they attack others for no reason and without any occasion to do so.
Tuesday 29 May 2012
ATTITUDE IS " THE THING "
Our attitude shapes our lives.
We may have any talents and may be gifted with every thing.
Without massive positive attitude, life becomes miserable.
Need to work , always on our attitude .
We may have any talents and may be gifted with every thing.
Without massive positive attitude, life becomes miserable.
Need to work , always on our attitude .
WHY ARE WE SHYING AWAY FROM ?
We shy away from so many important aspects of our life.
We claim to be very modern in 21st century, still, we are not confident enough to take our lives to our liking !
We have created many restrictions and taboos in our lives !
We claim to be very modern in 21st century, still, we are not confident enough to take our lives to our liking !
We have created many restrictions and taboos in our lives !
NEED TO WORK ON, ONE AT A TIME !
If we want to bring positive change in our life, we need to start on one point.
We cannot work on many points simultaneously.
One point may take at least about a month , provided we persist with it positively , daily !
We cannot work on many points simultaneously.
One point may take at least about a month , provided we persist with it positively , daily !
RESOURCEFUL LIFE !
We are not good organisers of time. We are not good self motivators.
The above two factors do not help us to lead a resourceful life .
We are leading a passive life, or stressful life.
This is the reason for unhappiness for many people .
The above two factors do not help us to lead a resourceful life .
We are leading a passive life, or stressful life.
This is the reason for unhappiness for many people .
EQALITY IS A ' THREAT '.
The thought of equality is a threat for many people . They are not comfortable with the term 'equality'.
People with low self esteem feels that they lose the control when equality is brought in partnership.
The struggle for gaining control spoils the beauty of equality !
People with low self esteem feels that they lose the control when equality is brought in partnership.
The struggle for gaining control spoils the beauty of equality !
EQUALITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
In real partnership, equality exists. If a party is dominant , then , it is not a real partnership.
Though, we talk about equality , it has not happened in real sense all over.
Hence , the unhappiness !
Though, we talk about equality , it has not happened in real sense all over.
Hence , the unhappiness !
IMPORTANCE OF PARTNERSHIP...................
A good partnership is always advisable for the well-being.
This helps to balance the male-female qualities. This partnership help to regulate our lives in a very efficient way.
Positive partnership, rather than materialistic will work wonders !
Our life is all about balancing of our acts and thoughts !
This helps to balance the male-female qualities. This partnership help to regulate our lives in a very efficient way.
Positive partnership, rather than materialistic will work wonders !
Our life is all about balancing of our acts and thoughts !
MASTERY OF EMOTIONS ....
If we can achieve the mastery of emotions , we will be able to do away with a lot of common medicines.
Emotional imbalance creates health problems. This can be avoided if we manage our emotions.
We can do a lot of things without the help of stimulants like.......
Emotional imbalance creates health problems. This can be avoided if we manage our emotions.
We can do a lot of things without the help of stimulants like.......
WE CAN MANAGE OUR EMOTIONS !!!
With patience and regular practice we can manage our emotions.
We can direct our emotions to where ever we want. We can withdraw our negative emotions without side-effects........ not suppressing ! Suppressed emotions will erupt with force , unknowingly !
We can direct our emotions to where ever we want. We can withdraw our negative emotions without side-effects........ not suppressing ! Suppressed emotions will erupt with force , unknowingly !
EMOTIONAL BALANCE !!
We are born with all emotions. They help us to feel and express ourselves without effort.
With passing of years, we tend to distort our emotions.We try to manipulate our emotions to get what we want.
This leads misuse of a natural gift. Our continuous manipulation of emotions lead us to emotional bankruptcy !
With passing of years, we tend to distort our emotions.We try to manipulate our emotions to get what we want.
This leads misuse of a natural gift. Our continuous manipulation of emotions lead us to emotional bankruptcy !
NEVER RETALIATE !!!!!
Even if we are hurt by some one , we should not retaliate. Retaliation makes things even worse.
Our bad ego force us to retaliate. Retaliation creates chain reactions.
We feel hurt , when our self esteem is low.
Therefore , we need to work on our self esteem !
Our bad ego force us to retaliate. Retaliation creates chain reactions.
We feel hurt , when our self esteem is low.
Therefore , we need to work on our self esteem !
LET'S NOT MAKE A LONG LIST !!!
People have long list of items when it comes to finding the right person.
It may turn out to be too harsh on ourselves,some times.
We should take the help of all experiences to make things realistic.
End of the day, it is not the long list that matters. It's how we embrace
things that matters.
It may turn out to be too harsh on ourselves,some times.
We should take the help of all experiences to make things realistic.
End of the day, it is not the long list that matters. It's how we embrace
things that matters.
FANTASY V/S CONCENTRATION
Concentration works any time better than using fantasy .
Fantasy Will help temporarily but, concentration works constantly !
Fantasy Will help temporarily but, concentration works constantly !
IMPORTANCE OF CONCENTRATION IN RELATIONSHIP !
We need to know that , concentration is very important in any walks/aspects of life.
If we are not on own our own, our actions and reactions won't be appropriate.
When we are not concentrating, we lose touch with ourselves !
If we are not on own our own, our actions and reactions won't be appropriate.
When we are not concentrating, we lose touch with ourselves !
SUPPRESSION WON'T HELP !!!!
We try to suppress our feelings very often, for many different reasons.
The suppression will lead to eruption one day or the other day.
Therefore it is always better to sit and analyse things, always positively.
Addressing the matters will help us to get rid off our negative feelings.
Mind you, there are always positives in every thing, if we sincerely look for
it !!!
The suppression will lead to eruption one day or the other day.
Therefore it is always better to sit and analyse things, always positively.
Addressing the matters will help us to get rid off our negative feelings.
Mind you, there are always positives in every thing, if we sincerely look for
it !!!
WE ARE BLESSED WITH THE RESOURCES !!!!!!!
We must feel happy that we are blessed with all resources,needed to make a happy living.
A small example, is the facility to learn from any one from any corner of the world in no time ............... we should appreciate sites like GOOGLE.COM , for their dedicated innovations which make our life better !!
To-day, we can have every information on our finger tips !
A small example, is the facility to learn from any one from any corner of the world in no time ............... we should appreciate sites like GOOGLE.COM , for their dedicated innovations which make our life better !!
To-day, we can have every information on our finger tips !
LIFE IS A FLOW !!!!
Life is a flow, we should let it flow and move with the flow !
We can't get stuck negatively in our life. Ups and downs are part of life.
What is constant is the experience through out , we gain ,even from the so-called 'down'
We should make it a point to get up from any situation, learning new things, and walk ahead !
We can't get stuck negatively in our life. Ups and downs are part of life.
What is constant is the experience through out , we gain ,even from the so-called 'down'
We should make it a point to get up from any situation, learning new things, and walk ahead !
UPDATE AND NEW PURPOSES !!!
Purpose in life is the most important motivating factor .
Without purpose, life becomes boring and meaningless.
We need to chart out new purposes for happy and active living.
Passive living leads to health hazards !
Without purpose, life becomes boring and meaningless.
We need to chart out new purposes for happy and active living.
Passive living leads to health hazards !
FLOW OF COMMUNICATION !!!
'We need to work hard to keep a relationship going', that's what we hear often.
People forget the importance of healthy, positive, sincere communication in a relationship.
Without proper communication , nothing works in relationship.
People forget the importance of healthy, positive, sincere communication in a relationship.
Without proper communication , nothing works in relationship.
APPRECIATE , APPROPRIATELY !!
Appreciation is a good tonic for the brain. But, it should be timed appropriately.
We should not miss any opportunity to appreciate others , whenever they deserve it.
But, this should be done naturally and appropriately !
We should not miss any opportunity to appreciate others , whenever they deserve it.
But, this should be done naturally and appropriately !
DON'T PRAISE !!!
Praise is some thing which has no base. We praise people to flatter them.
Praise will take a negative turn and will not work.
Parents , often mistake praise with appreciation. Children get carried away by the praise and will fall into fake world of dreams.
With the passage of time, these children develop nervousness. because of the inability to live up to the expectations generated by the parental praise.
Praise will take a negative turn and will not work.
Parents , often mistake praise with appreciation. Children get carried away by the praise and will fall into fake world of dreams.
With the passage of time, these children develop nervousness. because of the inability to live up to the expectations generated by the parental praise.
MENTAL ORIENTATION !!!!
Mind the primary organ which directs and controls every activity.
Therefore we need to give importance to mental orientation.
Mind travels ahead of every thing but, still we do not master our mind.
Therefore we need to give importance to mental orientation.
Mind travels ahead of every thing but, still we do not master our mind.
THE STRUGGLE 'WITHIN
We all have internal struggle ! We are constantly struggling within us about many matters.
This 'struggled' state takes away the beauty of our life. It makes us weak, lethargic and confused.
Therefore, we need to give ourselves some quality time daily to organise within.
We should learn the art of guiding our mind to appropriate direction, one at a time !
This 'struggled' state takes away the beauty of our life. It makes us weak, lethargic and confused.
Therefore, we need to give ourselves some quality time daily to organise within.
We should learn the art of guiding our mind to appropriate direction, one at a time !
Monday 28 May 2012
ADDICTED TO ' ARGUEMENTS' !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
People with low self esteem are addicted to arguments. They don't debate !
They expect to score points by arguing. This expectation about scoring points is like the gamblers' expectations of winning jack pot !
Perhaps , these people are more motivated than the gamblers ! Scoring points bring a lot of pleasure even if it is at the cost of a friendship.
Gamblers know that they may lose big.
They expect to score points by arguing. This expectation about scoring points is like the gamblers' expectations of winning jack pot !
Perhaps , these people are more motivated than the gamblers ! Scoring points bring a lot of pleasure even if it is at the cost of a friendship.
Gamblers know that they may lose big.
NEED TO FEEL THE ' POWER '
People stray in relationship, some time to prove some thing to themselves. They want to feel the ' power ', which they may not be feeling in the existing one.
This uncomfortable situation persuades a person to look outward.
Usually , the victim feels low in such situations. This is due to our inherent habit of playing 'victim', which brings the attention of others .
Should know that we are in control of our own self esteem !
This uncomfortable situation persuades a person to look outward.
Usually , the victim feels low in such situations. This is due to our inherent habit of playing 'victim', which brings the attention of others .
Should know that we are in control of our own self esteem !
WHEN WE ARE LET DOWN !!!
When our partner let us down by having extra affair, we should not judge ourselves being not worthy more .
People think , ' they are no more good looking and attractive.'
They think ' the other person is more attractive '
People try to satisfy themselves by unorthodox methods, when their self confidence is very low !
The very stupid deeds of such a person has nothing to do with other person's looks or attraction !
People think , ' they are no more good looking and attractive.'
They think ' the other person is more attractive '
People try to satisfy themselves by unorthodox methods, when their self confidence is very low !
The very stupid deeds of such a person has nothing to do with other person's looks or attraction !
REJECTION IN 'RELATIONSHIP' !!!
We are vulnerable , when our self esteem is at a low state.
The one with low self esteem may try to boost it by different ways, very often , without thinking about the consequences.
The only motivation for commiting silly mistake may be to boost the ego.
But, the real effect is on the other person !!!........... feel rejected by the one who is at fault and uncomfortable within.
When such situation arises, we need to know that we are not rejected, the other person has rejected himself/herself .
Should not let our self esteem go down, because of other person.
The one with low self esteem may try to boost it by different ways, very often , without thinking about the consequences.
The only motivation for commiting silly mistake may be to boost the ego.
But, the real effect is on the other person !!!........... feel rejected by the one who is at fault and uncomfortable within.
When such situation arises, we need to know that we are not rejected, the other person has rejected himself/herself .
Should not let our self esteem go down, because of other person.
WHEN WE ARE " REJECTED "
When we are not selected for a job after an interview, we take it as being rejected !
Fine, even if that is true, why don't we give ourselves a chance by thinking that the person interviewed us is not competent.
Why should we think negatively and blame ourselves for a possible mistake by others. The other person is also a normal human being who can commit mistakes.
Fine, even if that is true, why don't we give ourselves a chance by thinking that the person interviewed us is not competent.
Why should we think negatively and blame ourselves for a possible mistake by others. The other person is also a normal human being who can commit mistakes.
CONCENTRATION , THE KEY FACTOR !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Without concentration, nothing can be achieved.
We tend to forget about the basic factors required for any thing that we do in life.
Need to sharpen our concentration ! Our efficiency increases many fold without extra efforts !
We tend to forget about the basic factors required for any thing that we do in life.
Need to sharpen our concentration ! Our efficiency increases many fold without extra efforts !
Sunday 27 May 2012
FEELING OF REJECTION !!!!!!!!!
There won't be any human being , who has not gone through this horrible feeling.
When relationships break up, every one feels that he/she is rejected by the other person.......... we always take it on ourselves without analysing the real reasons behind it.
When people have low self esteem, they sabotage their own life. But, this will have a terrible effect on the innocent person who is the other party.
Innocence leads to blaming self and feeling rejected !
When some one feels undeserving of a beautiful relationship, he/she sabotage it causing damage to the other person ! Should learn to get and walk again......... must work on self esteem !
When relationships break up, every one feels that he/she is rejected by the other person.......... we always take it on ourselves without analysing the real reasons behind it.
When people have low self esteem, they sabotage their own life. But, this will have a terrible effect on the innocent person who is the other party.
Innocence leads to blaming self and feeling rejected !
When some one feels undeserving of a beautiful relationship, he/she sabotage it causing damage to the other person ! Should learn to get and walk again......... must work on self esteem !
CAUGHT BETWEEN 'HOPE' &'SELF DOUBT'
We all may come into a situation where we are between our hope & self doubt.
Self doubt is just a feeling without any solid base.
All the we need to do is to take a simple step, 'action'.
If take a simple step, our doubts will start melting away.
Self doubt will be a part of us as long as we hesitate to take actions !
Self doubt is just a feeling without any solid base.
All the we need to do is to take a simple step, 'action'.
If take a simple step, our doubts will start melting away.
Self doubt will be a part of us as long as we hesitate to take actions !
WHY SHOULD WE FEEL FRUSTRATED ?
We feel frustrated, when we don't get what we expect.
Expectations are valuable emotions in our life. But, if we place all our happiness on our expectations, we are bound to be frustrated.
Since we are in control of our emotions, we can escape feeling frustrated !
Expectations are valuable emotions in our life. But, if we place all our happiness on our expectations, we are bound to be frustrated.
Since we are in control of our emotions, we can escape feeling frustrated !
FATIGUE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We all experience ' fatigue ' , at some time in our life.This happens due to stress.Stress is caused by trying too hard.
When we try too hard , a foggy situation happens in our mind.
Therefore , we need to make sure that we are adding interest factor in whatever we are doing.
If we do things with interst , we will never feel fatigued !
When we try too hard , a foggy situation happens in our mind.
Therefore , we need to make sure that we are adding interest factor in whatever we are doing.
If we do things with interst , we will never feel fatigued !
TIME FACTOR IN LIFE !!!!!!!
We may meet many good people by luck.
Our heart may be wanting to keep some people with us.
But, it is the time that decides , who we are going to stay with.
Quality time is the most important thing in life.......... imagine a world where time is the currency !
Our heart may be wanting to keep some people with us.
But, it is the time that decides , who we are going to stay with.
Quality time is the most important thing in life.......... imagine a world where time is the currency !
DISTANCE BETWEEN PROBLEMS AND SOLUTIONS !!!!
When we try to run away from our problems, we are increasing the distance between problems and solutions !
It is always better to face the situation in a friendly, neutral way so that the solution will appear in the due course of time .
It is always better to face the situation in a friendly, neutral way so that the solution will appear in the due course of time .
KNOW YOURSELF !!!
It is vey important to know as to what is happening in our body..... we should know our body, so that we know when to rest, what to eat etc.
So too, we should know what is happening inside our mind. This will help us to rest our mind before it is too late.
Only with self awareness,we can do positive corrections at the correct time.
So too, we should know what is happening inside our mind. This will help us to rest our mind before it is too late.
Only with self awareness,we can do positive corrections at the correct time.
NEUTRAL MIND !
We need to start a day with neutral mind. Should not allow any clouds to enter in our mind. Clouds in the mind distorts whatever we see or hear.
In order to think in a normal way , we have to avoid biased feelings and fill our mind with positive thinking.
In order to think in a normal way , we have to avoid biased feelings and fill our mind with positive thinking.
DIFFERNT STYLES IN EXPRESSING FEELINGS !
We all have our own style when it comes to expressing our feelings towards others.
When we do not recognise this difference, we may mistake others .
Children may feel that they are not loved enough by their parents.
Wife may feel that her husband does not love her enough.
Husband may feel that his wife does not have enough love for him etc.
Therefore it is every ones' responsibility to clear the doubts if any, instead of making wrong judgements and spoiling the relationship.
When we do not recognise this difference, we may mistake others .
Children may feel that they are not loved enough by their parents.
Wife may feel that her husband does not love her enough.
Husband may feel that his wife does not have enough love for him etc.
Therefore it is every ones' responsibility to clear the doubts if any, instead of making wrong judgements and spoiling the relationship.
ALWAYS GIVE ANOTHER CHANCE !!!!!!!
Cultural difference, different communication styles etc., make it difficult to understand others.
Therefore it is always advisable to give another chance, when differences happen between people with neutral mind.
Therefore it is always advisable to give another chance, when differences happen between people with neutral mind.
DIFFERENCE IN COMMUNICATION STYLES !!!!
We all have our own unique communication styles. The difference in style makes things complicated. This is one main reason for misunderstandings between people . We need to pay a lot of attention to this particular aspect to avoid confusions !
THERE IS NOTHING CALLED ' FAILURE ' !
We all are scared of failure. In fact , there is nothing called failure. It is a relative term. When our performance is not up to our expectations, we name it failure.
Thomas Edison famously said, ' I did not fail 999 times, I tried 999 different ways to make a bulb' !
All 999 times he gained in experience and knowledge which helped him to narrow down the path of his goal and he made it for the world.
If he had taken all previous efforts as failure, he would not have made it for us!
Thomas Edison famously said, ' I did not fail 999 times, I tried 999 different ways to make a bulb' !
All 999 times he gained in experience and knowledge which helped him to narrow down the path of his goal and he made it for the world.
If he had taken all previous efforts as failure, he would not have made it for us!
Saturday 26 May 2012
WHY DO WE FIGHT ?
Every day every one is involved in a fight, may be a minor one.
But, have we ever thought, 'why do we fight ?'
We allow conflicts to come between people. This happens due to low self esteem.
If we can avoid daily conflicts, we can have a lighter and brighter mind and that alone will help us to live healthily much longer !
But, have we ever thought, 'why do we fight ?'
We allow conflicts to come between people. This happens due to low self esteem.
If we can avoid daily conflicts, we can have a lighter and brighter mind and that alone will help us to live healthily much longer !
BRINGING NORMALCY IN OUR MIND !
A state of mind ' where we can see/feel every thing normal ', takes us to new heights !
To take our mind to that level needs a lot of positive training.
At this level of mind any one can experience peak performance !
To take our mind to that level needs a lot of positive training.
At this level of mind any one can experience peak performance !
INDIFFERENT ATTITUDE !
We at times, are very indifferent and insensitive.
People do not respond to calls and messages.This indifferent attitude is a put-off and throw the relationship off balance !
Awareness and giving attention to matters of importance are prerequisites for any constructive partnership .
People do not respond to calls and messages.This indifferent attitude is a put-off and throw the relationship off balance !
Awareness and giving attention to matters of importance are prerequisites for any constructive partnership .
TOO SENSITIVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
We, the human beings are, by nature, very sensitive.
We are unknowingly , influenced by many factors.
Media brain washes and influences us to a great extent.
Any innocent suggestion about weight is being considered as rude and offencive......... even men think so !
We can't accept any thing less than the perfect world !
High self esteem help us to accept the realities without being hurt.
We are unknowingly , influenced by many factors.
Media brain washes and influences us to a great extent.
Any innocent suggestion about weight is being considered as rude and offencive......... even men think so !
We can't accept any thing less than the perfect world !
High self esteem help us to accept the realities without being hurt.
SHOPPING THERAPY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Many go for shopping , when they feel a bit low. This helps people to shift the focus from how they feel.
If the feeling is for some unknown reasons or due to some thing like grey weather or so, shopping may help to change the mood .
But, if there is a specific reason for feeling low, shifting of focus by shopping will not work.
The problem is to be addressed mentally once and for all.
If the feeling is for some unknown reasons or due to some thing like grey weather or so, shopping may help to change the mood .
But, if there is a specific reason for feeling low, shifting of focus by shopping will not work.
The problem is to be addressed mentally once and for all.
Friday 25 May 2012
NOT THE END OF LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
When things do not happen the way we want, we curse every thing and every one around us and finally ourselves.
We over-react to many silly things in such a way that this is the end of the world !
Should learn to calm down and move on with even more energy !
We over-react to many silly things in such a way that this is the end of the world !
Should learn to calm down and move on with even more energy !
NEED OF PERSONAL AND LIFE COACHES !!!!
It's becoming more and more essential to have some professional life coaching people to guide people.
This is because , the normal life is becoming too complicated and people don't have time to think for themselves.
But, life coaching is not a fancy stuff, one should be very very good at it , or else it will create even more confusion !
This is because , the normal life is becoming too complicated and people don't have time to think for themselves.
But, life coaching is not a fancy stuff, one should be very very good at it , or else it will create even more confusion !
LABELS DEFINE OUR PERSONALITY !!
We live by the labels given to us by others. Negative labels play havoc with our personality when we lack in self esteem.
So too , we fix certain labels for ourselves for some convenient reasons.
These labels create a lot of confusions in our lives.
Labels are artificial and so they are in conflict with our natural self !
So too , we fix certain labels for ourselves for some convenient reasons.
These labels create a lot of confusions in our lives.
Labels are artificial and so they are in conflict with our natural self !
BEING GOOD IS NOT ENOUGH, MUST BE SHREWD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I was given a valuable piece of advice by some one who is a well-wisher '' you are good , but that is not enough, must be shrewd to be successful ''
Shrewdness backfires , one day or the other day. It is always better to be honest and good because, when you are at peace of mind , all that we do turn out to be successful !
Shrewdness backfires , one day or the other day. It is always better to be honest and good because, when you are at peace of mind , all that we do turn out to be successful !
WHAT ARE WE SCARED OF ?
What are we scared of ?
We are scared of ''what we do !'',may be due to social pressure.
But, as long as we are doing the right things, there is no need to be worried about. One needs to develop the confidence within oneself !
We are scared of ''what we do !'',may be due to social pressure.
But, as long as we are doing the right things, there is no need to be worried about. One needs to develop the confidence within oneself !
WHO ARE WE SCARED OF ?
Fear is instilled in every one. It is by nature.
But , who are we the most scared of ?
" Ourselves ''
This is due to low self esteem. We are scared because we are not confident within ourselves. This again, may be we have some thing to hide about ourselves from others !!!!!!!!!!!
But , who are we the most scared of ?
" Ourselves ''
This is due to low self esteem. We are scared because we are not confident within ourselves. This again, may be we have some thing to hide about ourselves from others !!!!!!!!!!!
Thursday 24 May 2012
FIRST, HEAL THYSELF !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We keep getting injured mentally every day, unless we are so lucky !
The first step to get out of this mess is by self-healing !
We inflict injuries to ourselves due to impatience and lack of self esteem.
Therefore, we need to accept ourselves as people who can make mistakes.
It is normal to make mistakes and so we should forgives ourselves .
This will lead to the next step ' accepting others too as normal human being who too can commit mistakes !'
The first step to get out of this mess is by self-healing !
We inflict injuries to ourselves due to impatience and lack of self esteem.
Therefore, we need to accept ourselves as people who can make mistakes.
It is normal to make mistakes and so we should forgives ourselves .
This will lead to the next step ' accepting others too as normal human being who too can commit mistakes !'
THE WHOLE WORLD STANDS AGAINST US !!!!!!!!!
At times, we feel that the whole world is against us. All are fighting against us.
When our self esteem is low , we process all information with a negative taste.
Opinions about us, by others are blown out of proportions by us in such a situation.
This becomes a routine for us and as a result, we accumulate our anger over the years !
We suffocate ourselves with the anger inside us and, we view every one in the world as our enemies !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WE BOIL OURSELVES FOR NO PARTICULAR REASON , BUT STILL ARE UNAWARE OF WHAT IS HAPPENING TO US...........'' Oh god, why me and why all are against us ?
Easy to get out of this horrible situation, if only we know how to forgive ourselves by accepting our mistakes and in the process making peace with others in our own mind !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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When our self esteem is low , we process all information with a negative taste.
Opinions about us, by others are blown out of proportions by us in such a situation.
This becomes a routine for us and as a result, we accumulate our anger over the years !
We suffocate ourselves with the anger inside us and, we view every one in the world as our enemies !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WE BOIL OURSELVES FOR NO PARTICULAR REASON , BUT STILL ARE UNAWARE OF WHAT IS HAPPENING TO US...........'' Oh god, why me and why all are against us ?
Easy to get out of this horrible situation, if only we know how to forgive ourselves by accepting our mistakes and in the process making peace with others in our own mind !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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SRESS FREE LIFE !!!
Stress is some thing that is created in the mind like any other feelings.
A lot of colour is added to this by self talk '' i am stressed ''.
If we shift our focus to solutions , we are de-stressing ourselves....... it will immediately boost our confidence to a great extent !
A lot of colour is added to this by self talk '' i am stressed ''.
If we shift our focus to solutions , we are de-stressing ourselves....... it will immediately boost our confidence to a great extent !
LET'S TRY TO UNDERSTAND AND NOT JUDGE !
It would be advisable to try and understand the other person by his/her situation rather than making judgement about the person.
We are the products of our situations and so we should give a lot of importance to the situation, some one is in !
If we want to save a relation !
We are the products of our situations and so we should give a lot of importance to the situation, some one is in !
If we want to save a relation !
OWNERSHIP IN FRIENDSHIP !!!!
Some people try to control others in friendship. This is a big problem.
People with low self esteem cannot live without being loved by others.
Such people try to control their friends........ they want to know each and every thing that is happening in others life as matter of compulsion ! This leads to uneasy friendship and collapse of friendship !
People with low self esteem cannot live without being loved by others.
Such people try to control their friends........ they want to know each and every thing that is happening in others life as matter of compulsion ! This leads to uneasy friendship and collapse of friendship !
TAKEN FOR GRANTED !!
Some times we get the feeling that our friends take us for granted.
This depends on our perception. This sort of misconceptions lead to bad taste in relationship.
Well , we should not take any one for granted for that matter if, we need to maintain a healthy relationship. We need to respect and acknowledge the importance of the other person's feelings !
This depends on our perception. This sort of misconceptions lead to bad taste in relationship.
Well , we should not take any one for granted for that matter if, we need to maintain a healthy relationship. We need to respect and acknowledge the importance of the other person's feelings !
BEING OVER-POSSESSIVE !!!
Some people are very much over-possessive in relationship. This is a major put-off.
Relationship break up due to this since, this suffocates the partner !
Relationship break up due to this since, this suffocates the partner !
IT'S ALL IN THE MIND !!
All that we do / don't do depends on our mindset...... it's all in the mind.
Pure and positive mindset can take us to any place , well the appropriate actions should also follow the positive thoughts !
Pure and positive mindset can take us to any place , well the appropriate actions should also follow the positive thoughts !
HOW SUPERSTITIONS WORK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
'Was travelling by a cab. The cab driver stopped the cab for no reason known to me. When asked , he said " a black cat crossed the road and he was waiting for some other person to drive through so that the bad luck is shifted on to the other."
Had a bit of argument with the driver and in the process , he was distracted that caused a minor accident.This got him a point to prove that he was right.
This is how the superstitions work..... When we carry negative thoughts, it affects our concentration and more chances are that some thing bad will happen !
Had a bit of argument with the driver and in the process , he was distracted that caused a minor accident.This got him a point to prove that he was right.
This is how the superstitions work..... When we carry negative thoughts, it affects our concentration and more chances are that some thing bad will happen !
BRANDED DYSLEXIAS & DIS CAL !
Many students go for dyslexia & dis cal tests. Many parents too think that it would be convenient for their children to get through exams.
Experience with many such students reveal the fact that 'such labels create mental blocks', more than any disability.
The mental blocks in turn initiate the disability because their thought process are distorted !!! They create a belief system that they are some what disabled !
Experience with many such students reveal the fact that 'such labels create mental blocks', more than any disability.
The mental blocks in turn initiate the disability because their thought process are distorted !!! They create a belief system that they are some what disabled !
ALL ARE EQUALLLY INTELLIGENT, STUDENTS PLEASE NOTE !
Very frequently, it is heard that some is brilliant whereas some one else a bit dump (at least not so)!
It is sad to hear such untrue things, especially when the irresponsible comments are originated from teachers.
No body is born more intelligent than any other. Intelligence is created/developed by hard/smart, regular work with interest !
It is sad to hear such untrue things, especially when the irresponsible comments are originated from teachers.
No body is born more intelligent than any other. Intelligence is created/developed by hard/smart, regular work with interest !
Wednesday 23 May 2012
WHY ?
Every thing that we do is based on reasons.
Without reasons we don't do or avoid any thing.
Even when we say an excuse, we substantiate it with reason.
Therefore, it would be ideal if we ask 'why' whenever we decide some thing.
If our actions match the right reasons , the actions will bring the desired result .
Without reasons we don't do or avoid any thing.
Even when we say an excuse, we substantiate it with reason.
Therefore, it would be ideal if we ask 'why' whenever we decide some thing.
If our actions match the right reasons , the actions will bring the desired result .
CONFUSIONS IN RELATIONSHIPS !
We are so exposed to every thing much more than many years ago. We are unable to handle the huge information going into our mind.
We like , some times the naturalness, some times the perfection and some times risk taking.
So when we are drawn in to a relationship, we may not be sure of the real motivation that has driven into it.This causes a lot of confusion in relationships!
We like , some times the naturalness, some times the perfection and some times risk taking.
So when we are drawn in to a relationship, we may not be sure of the real motivation that has driven into it.This causes a lot of confusion in relationships!
USING TIME !!!
We waste a lot of time by being slaves to our ordinary thoughts.
In a world of recession and inflation, we need to channelise our mind to some useful lines to which will increase our earning.
Self improvement and awareness of what has to be done is important for survival.
In a world of recession and inflation, we need to channelise our mind to some useful lines to which will increase our earning.
Self improvement and awareness of what has to be done is important for survival.
INSTINCT V/S SOPHISTICATION !
Practising sophistication is against our instincts !
Therefore , it is very essential how we integrate our instincts with sophistication.
If we do not integrate them in smooth way, there will always be conflict in our working .
Therefore , it is very essential how we integrate our instincts with sophistication.
If we do not integrate them in smooth way, there will always be conflict in our working .
WISH v/s PURPOSE !
We all have our own certain ' wishes '.
They are good motivational factors.
But, purposes in life are even more motivating than the wishes.
Purposes in life help us move towards it and accomplish them.These keep us move on a continuous basis !
They are good motivational factors.
But, purposes in life are even more motivating than the wishes.
Purposes in life help us move towards it and accomplish them.These keep us move on a continuous basis !
IMPRESSIONS ARE CREATED UNKNOWINGLY !
Our mind create impressions about what we see and hear.
These impressions , mostly are not created by conscious mind.
Therefore , we need to analyse all that is happening in a calm way to process these impressions !
These impressions , mostly are not created by conscious mind.
Therefore , we need to analyse all that is happening in a calm way to process these impressions !
IN RELATIONSHIP FOR " SELF ESTEEM "
Many people get into relationship to boost their self esteem.
This happens more often with teens and those who feel less worth.
But, just for boosting self esteem, one shouldn't get into relationship.
This happens more often with teens and those who feel less worth.
But, just for boosting self esteem, one shouldn't get into relationship.
PHYSICAL HEALTH CAN RESIST STRESS !!
When we are physically fit, it helps to deflect stress to a great extend !
Muscles, cells and nerves have the ability to deflect stress !
Muscles, cells and nerves have the ability to deflect stress !
FIRST IS FIRST !!!
First impressions last long. First love last long......... If we do not know how to neutralise these effects , we will find it difficult to cross over and move ahead.
First impressions are sub-conscious. Neutralising them is the job of conscious mind. We need to master it .
First impressions are sub-conscious. Neutralising them is the job of conscious mind. We need to master it .
Tuesday 22 May 2012
MAGIC OF FAITH !!!
Faith works but, it has to be placed at the right place.
Faith should be place on us ( the right place ) and not on others !!!!!
Faith should be place on us ( the right place ) and not on others !!!!!
SEEING THROUGH !
Our mind has the ability to see through our life.
But, for this we need to be completely positive and need to lead a peaceful life.
For attaining peace of mind, we need to lead a life of integrity !
But, for this we need to be completely positive and need to lead a peaceful life.
For attaining peace of mind, we need to lead a life of integrity !
HUMAN MIND - THE FACTORY !!
Human mind is the factory which produces every thing in the world.
All manufacturing / production activities take place in our mind first.
Therefore , we need to maintain it by leading a peaceful life !
All manufacturing / production activities take place in our mind first.
Therefore , we need to maintain it by leading a peaceful life !
AT PEACE !
Peace of mind is the most important requirement for any thing we want to achieve.
When we are at peace , we can multiply our ability without any extra effort !
When we are at peace , we can multiply our ability without any extra effort !
WE BRING BAD LUCK TO OURSELVES !
Most of the times we only bring bad luck to us . Bad luck is nothing but the result of our obstinate behaviours and irrational decisions. Since , we are defencive in our approach, we shift the blame on other things.
In reality , we are responsible for our own so-called bad luck !
In reality , we are responsible for our own so-called bad luck !
ADDICTIONS !
Many have some or the other sort of addictions.
It may be like a simple thing...... addiction to coffee.
Addiction is the result of the emotional benefit attached to a particular thing............ this is in reality an artificially created thing !
Many youngsters start smotking as a fad. Thereafter they become addicted to it though smoking doesn't give any particular benefit to them.......... feed back from thousands !
It may be like a simple thing...... addiction to coffee.
Addiction is the result of the emotional benefit attached to a particular thing............ this is in reality an artificially created thing !
Many youngsters start smotking as a fad. Thereafter they become addicted to it though smoking doesn't give any particular benefit to them.......... feed back from thousands !
FEED-BACK STRATEGY FOR SELF MOTIVATION !
Self motivation is one of the hardest thing for majority of people.
We can take the help of our good friends for this purpose, eg. if you are not motivated to do exercise all that you have to do is to ask your friends, about the progress you make, on a regular basis.
it works wonders !
We can take the help of our good friends for this purpose, eg. if you are not motivated to do exercise all that you have to do is to ask your friends, about the progress you make, on a regular basis.
it works wonders !
BE SELFISH A BIT !
When it comes to alloting time , we are never very selfish.
We need to be a lot selfish to allot enough quality time for ourselves to put our daily life into the real path.
We spend too much time on others, gossiping etc....... real waste !
We need to be a lot selfish to allot enough quality time for ourselves to put our daily life into the real path.
We spend too much time on others, gossiping etc....... real waste !
NEED OF STRATEGY !
If we have to achieve any thing , we need to have a positive strategy. Without strategy, the road to our destination is unknown.
We may have great ideas but, without strategy we won't be able to put those into proper use !
We may have great ideas but, without strategy we won't be able to put those into proper use !
ENLIGHTENED MIND !
First step is to catch our mind. We need to clean the negatives completely.We need to fill all positives for ever.
Need to lead a life with integrity always , if we have to achieve this state......... No techniques , meditation etc. will work without integrity !
Need to lead a life with integrity always , if we have to achieve this state......... No techniques , meditation etc. will work without integrity !
SERIAL OFFENDERS !!!
We all have a tendency to repeat our mistakes.
Very often , we do not know how it happens.
The reason is the emotional response that we create within us when a particular circumstance happens.
If we are aware of this trigger , we can control them and be free of the offence !
Very often , we do not know how it happens.
The reason is the emotional response that we create within us when a particular circumstance happens.
If we are aware of this trigger , we can control them and be free of the offence !
Monday 21 May 2012
OVERVIEW MOTIVATING FACTORS !!
To be on the move, one need to motivate self.
There are so many motivating factors , if we look around.
The motivational factors are different from person to person.
All that one has to do is to look around mentally, a small brain-storming, to find out what motivates you !
There are so many motivating factors , if we look around.
The motivational factors are different from person to person.
All that one has to do is to look around mentally, a small brain-storming, to find out what motivates you !
SELF HONESTY !!
We need to be honest to ourselves first.
Honest in what we want to do and what we say.
Honest in the intentions, which directly affect our well-being !
Honest in what we want to do and what we say.
Honest in the intentions, which directly affect our well-being !
BEWARE OF ' LAID-BACK ' ATTITUDE !
'Laid-back' attitude is a big put-off ! It can lead to break-up in relationship !
IT'S NOT ''THE WILL'' , BU THE 'WILLINGNESS ' !!
What matters the most or what makes the huge difference to our life is the willingness and not the will power !
BRAIN-STORMING ........
We need to give some food for our brain too. We need to exercise our mind too.
Reading, analysing and thinking have to be made a daily routine so as to sharpen our thinking faculty.
Reading, analysing and thinking have to be made a daily routine so as to sharpen our thinking faculty.
PURITY OF MIND !!!
Pollution kills us. Polluted mind kills our thinking ability and ideas !
Pure mind help us to learn things quickly and it will unknowingly give us some unbelievable insight into many things.
These insight may be any thing, telepathy or premonitions or whatever !
Pure mind help us to learn things quickly and it will unknowingly give us some unbelievable insight into many things.
These insight may be any thing, telepathy or premonitions or whatever !
DIFFICULT TO BE PERFECT !!!
It may be difficult to be perfect, but we can always make a try and the try itself will add a lot to us . This add on to our personality will help in many ways and they will work as a chain......
FOCUS ON PROCES AND NOT ON END RESULT !
After setting the goal(end result) one has to come back to the starting point of action. There after the focus should be on the process .
If our mind stays with the end result, we won't be able to effectively work on the series of actions to be taken to reach the end.
If our mind stays with the end result, we won't be able to effectively work on the series of actions to be taken to reach the end.
COLLECTIVE EFFORT / TAPING POTENTIAL
To tap the potential in a person, there has to be a collective effort from the family as a whole.
Each and every one in the family has to work as a well-knit unit to tap the potential of all the members.
A corporate that works on the above lines can bring out miraculous results !
Each and every one in the family has to work as a well-knit unit to tap the potential of all the members.
A corporate that works on the above lines can bring out miraculous results !
BEING NATURAL WORKS WONDERS !!!
We try using many techniques and methods when it come to daily life.
Knowledge is important. But the same should be moulded into our system in a natural way to be effective.
We cannot achieve any thing by carrying two different personalities in one body !
Knowledge is important. But the same should be moulded into our system in a natural way to be effective.
We cannot achieve any thing by carrying two different personalities in one body !
SELF UP-DATE !!!!
It's very fast changing world. If we close our eyes too long , we may be left out of this world.
Not talking about competition, it's about the awareness of what is happening around so that one can be in the same pond....... we need to swim along !
Self update become all the more necessary now !
Not talking about competition, it's about the awareness of what is happening around so that one can be in the same pond....... we need to swim along !
Self update become all the more necessary now !
ADVICE WON'T WORK , WHY ?
When we advise a person, to do or not to do , we are unknowingly rubbing on the ego other person.
This leads to a bit of clash of ideas and so , more often advices won't work wonders.
This leads to a bit of clash of ideas and so , more often advices won't work wonders.
PARENTING IN MODERN ERA !!!!!
Parents may prefer to bring their children on a discussion table on any matter , rather than lecturing and giving advice to their children.
Children are lot more exposed to many aspects of life than a normal parent can imagine.
Every effort may be made to start discussions , right from baby-days !
Children are lot more exposed to many aspects of life than a normal parent can imagine.
Every effort may be made to start discussions , right from baby-days !
Sunday 20 May 2012
SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE ARE SELF-EDUCATED !!!
Majority of the successful people are self-educated. Education is anon-going process.
We should not stop educating ourselves:
This way, we remain motivated and active...never be bored
This is the only way , we can achieve success in life!
We should not stop educating ourselves:
This way, we remain motivated and active...never be bored
This is the only way , we can achieve success in life!
CAN AND SHOULD DO AS MUCH FOR SELF !
We all can do a lot to be perfect.
We should whatever possible to be perfect.
We may learn from any source....... but, end of the day , it is we, who have to do a lot for ourselves !
We should whatever possible to be perfect.
We may learn from any source....... but, end of the day , it is we, who have to do a lot for ourselves !
TRAIN TO BE PERFECT !!!!
We may attend any number of seminars, may read any number of self help books but, end of the day what matters is ' how we embrace and integrate what we learnt, in us in the natural way .'
Artificiality will not work in real life !
Artificiality will not work in real life !
SLAVE TO CHILDISHNESS !!!
We play different roles............
child....There is a child in every one,
adult....We play the role of an adult.
parent... Even a child plays a parent to other children on occasions.... a child takes care of another.
The problem is.' how to balance the roles?'
When one role dominates , imbalance happens and this result in confusions !
child....There is a child in every one,
adult....We play the role of an adult.
parent... Even a child plays a parent to other children on occasions.... a child takes care of another.
The problem is.' how to balance the roles?'
When one role dominates , imbalance happens and this result in confusions !
SLAVES TO DESIRES !!!
We become slaves to our desires, too often. Desires are essential and are vital part of human life.
But, when we become slaves to them our logical brain stops functioning properly. We need to strike a balance between desires and the logic.
But, when we become slaves to them our logical brain stops functioning properly. We need to strike a balance between desires and the logic.
FEELING EMBARASSED .......
After a show down with some one , we feel embarrassed to re-open the relationship.
This is due to lack of self esteem and false prestige or bad ego.
One should forget about whatever happened in a matured and balanced way and should be able to continue the relationship.
Whether it is between friends, parent- children or couple , the principle remains the same. Need to resist the bad ego spoiling things forever !
This is due to lack of self esteem and false prestige or bad ego.
One should forget about whatever happened in a matured and balanced way and should be able to continue the relationship.
Whether it is between friends, parent- children or couple , the principle remains the same. Need to resist the bad ego spoiling things forever !
Saturday 19 May 2012
IMPROVING SENSES !!!
We can improve our efficiency many fold if we improve our senses.
Improving senses need practice but it is possible with a lot of patience.
Improving senses need practice but it is possible with a lot of patience.
NARROW MINDED !!!
Though we talk about modern world, good percentage of people are narrow minded.
If we have to make progress in life , we need to open up and leave the narrow minded attitude.
These all have to be for ever and the growth has to be consistant.
If we have to make progress in life , we need to open up and leave the narrow minded attitude.
These all have to be for ever and the growth has to be consistant.
ARROGANCE v/s CONFIDENCE !!!
Taking any rash decision is not because of confidence , but because of arrogance.
In young age , we tend to get get carried away easily.
Confident person takes decisions logically.
In young age , we tend to get get carried away easily.
Confident person takes decisions logically.
STUBBORN ATTITUDE BRINGS BAD LUCK !
In old age, many become too stubborn. They are not willing to accept their weakness and cause damage by falling etc.
Lot of people lead a miserable life after fracture which could have been avoided if they were flexible in their attitude.
Stubborn attitude may bring bad luck to us.
Lot of people lead a miserable life after fracture which could have been avoided if they were flexible in their attitude.
Stubborn attitude may bring bad luck to us.
LOT MORE WE NEED TO KNOW ABOUT OUR BODY !!!
Our body has enormous capability to work wonders..... we need to observe and find out them.
If we maintain our body to the fittest possible, we can do any thing, any time without any hesitation!
If we maintain our body to the fittest possible, we can do any thing, any time without any hesitation!
IF ONLY WE WANT !!!!!!!!!!!
If we really , sincerely wish to have a happy life, we can!
It may sound rediculous..... who doesn't want happy life, may think.
But , we all have a self doubt which is blocking the real flow of energy in us........... many think "it is impossible to be happy always"
It may sound rediculous..... who doesn't want happy life, may think.
But , we all have a self doubt which is blocking the real flow of energy in us........... many think "it is impossible to be happy always"
RELATIONSHIPS ARE THE FUEL OF LIFE !!!!!!!!!
We need beautiful relationship......... who doesn't need it.
Beautiful relationship is like the fuel to any machine!
But, the polution *ego* plays the spoil sport in relationships!
We need to fill in pure fuel into our relationships.'
Beautiful relationship is like the fuel to any machine!
But, the polution *ego* plays the spoil sport in relationships!
We need to fill in pure fuel into our relationships.'
WINNING ALWAYS !!!!!!!
If we keep our bad ego away, we will be able to see our winning.
Winning has to be given the right meaning.
If we do not have a defeatist mentality , we will be able to see the experience we gain from any try........... experience we gain is winning, means we are winning always!
Winning has to be given the right meaning.
If we do not have a defeatist mentality , we will be able to see the experience we gain from any try........... experience we gain is winning, means we are winning always!
WHY DO WE SURRENDER ?
Millions surrender themselves to others, who they think have divine powers !
We belittle ourselves.......... first step to demotivation.
Millions live by the preachings of ordinary people. sad!
Yes, we can listen to any one in the world, discuss with any one and accept whatever is good, but why surrender?,
because , they are lazy to think for themselves !
We belittle ourselves.......... first step to demotivation.
Millions live by the preachings of ordinary people. sad!
Yes, we can listen to any one in the world, discuss with any one and accept whatever is good, but why surrender?,
because , they are lazy to think for themselves !
Friday 18 May 2012
WE CAN DO !
If we have a heart to do things , we have the ability to do any thing, positive!
Yes, we can........ we can do ........... need to think positively all the way through!
Yes, we can........ we can do ........... need to think positively all the way through!
BREAKING INTO THE BIG WORLD !!!
We belong to one world, we are different by colour, belief systems etc.
But , we all have the same systems and brains and so too we have the same feeling systems within us.
So , we need to break all the barriers , which are silly, to fit into our world , where we are equal and together !
But , we all have the same systems and brains and so too we have the same feeling systems within us.
So , we need to break all the barriers , which are silly, to fit into our world , where we are equal and together !
SUPERSTITIONS !!!!!!!!!!!
Lazy mind is the manufacturing unit of superstitions.
How can any one believe that a hug by any one will cure leprosy ?
People want to believe to console themselves and live in hallucination....... lazy to go for treatment.
How can any one believe that a hug by any one will cure leprosy ?
People want to believe to console themselves and live in hallucination....... lazy to go for treatment.
WASTING OF TIME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We waste more time than we use in our life.
We are so lazy and so we look for easy way out for every thing/
Here is where superstitions set in our mind.
We want to believe in them , because , if it works we don't have to work......... lazy mind leads us to superstitions.
Some one may say, a parrot flying into a house will bring good luck,..........
good luck to them!!!!!!
We are so lazy and so we look for easy way out for every thing/
Here is where superstitions set in our mind.
We want to believe in them , because , if it works we don't have to work......... lazy mind leads us to superstitions.
Some one may say, a parrot flying into a house will bring good luck,..........
good luck to them!!!!!!
WHEN WE LOOK FOR ANSWERS.............
Met many people who are in search of answers to many questions...... self doubt leads us to such path !
After wasting lot of life time , these people end up with more questions.........naturally, they need more questons as an excuse to waste more of their life time!
After wasting lot of life time , these people end up with more questions.........naturally, they need more questons as an excuse to waste more of their life time!
SHAMING AS A TOOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
People try to shame others ......... this technique is used to generate fear in other person.
This fear psychology doesn't work any more in to-day's world because the world has moved a lot towards positives.
Positive psychology only bring good results. let's be positive!
This fear psychology doesn't work any more in to-day's world because the world has moved a lot towards positives.
Positive psychology only bring good results. let's be positive!
PROVOCATIONS !!!!!!!!!!!
knowingly or unknowingly we all provoke others, at times.
Negative people do it deliberately to gain some points , which they want to use it over a long time as excuse !
Unknowingly, we might provoke people....... this means , all are equally responsible for break up in any relationships.
If all the parties accept this responsibility , we can always patch up and be happy!
Negative people do it deliberately to gain some points , which they want to use it over a long time as excuse !
Unknowingly, we might provoke people....... this means , all are equally responsible for break up in any relationships.
If all the parties accept this responsibility , we can always patch up and be happy!
LISTENING DOE'SN'T MEAN............
Some times people complain,'' you are not listening.''
What they mean is '' you are not agreeing with the other person."
People mistake the meaning of listening to be in agreement with them!!!!! They want the other person to agree to whatever they say !
Listening doesn't mean to be in agreement with !
What they mean is '' you are not agreeing with the other person."
People mistake the meaning of listening to be in agreement with them!!!!! They want the other person to agree to whatever they say !
Listening doesn't mean to be in agreement with !
YOU ARE NOT LISTENING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
During discussions, people say,' you are not listening'.
We do not listen when we are not fully fit. When we feel tired, our senses may not work to the maximum efficiency.
We do not listen when we are not fully fit. When we feel tired, our senses may not work to the maximum efficiency.
PHYSICAL FITNESS ................
When we think of exercises , we relate it with toned muscles, good looks etc.
We should be concentrating on simple exercises, that makes us healthy and truly FIT.
When we are fit , we will be in a floating mood always, which in turn makes us attractive.
We should be concentrating on simple exercises, that makes us healthy and truly FIT.
When we are fit , we will be in a floating mood always, which in turn makes us attractive.
MOOD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We have an easy escape route.... I am not in a mood !
Students.... not in a mood to study
Employed...... not in a mood to go to work.
HONEY, not to-night....... not in mood !!!
If we are physically fit, we always will be in a exciting mood to do any thing any time !!!
Students.... not in a mood to study
Employed...... not in a mood to go to work.
HONEY, not to-night....... not in mood !!!
If we are physically fit, we always will be in a exciting mood to do any thing any time !!!
CONFIDENCE TO ACCEPT APPRECIATION !!!!
Some times, people don't have the willingness and courage to accept appreciation.
There is no one in the world, who is never appreciated by any one.
The fact is that we often resist to accept appreciations!
There is no one in the world, who is never appreciated by any one.
The fact is that we often resist to accept appreciations!
SOME ONE APPRECIATES US !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Appreciation is like a tonic to our life. Every one looks for it.
We are being appreciated by some one always but , we may not be aware of it.
Every one has a unique quality within and that is being noticed by some one else............ unfortunately , we being poor observers don't see it !
We are being appreciated by some one always but , we may not be aware of it.
Every one has a unique quality within and that is being noticed by some one else............ unfortunately , we being poor observers don't see it !
HUMOUR v/s JOKES !!!
We all enjoy humour. It is a very important ingredient of our life.
Jokes,yes ! But, when we take every thing as joke,when we approach every thing as a joke, we are creating road blocks. These road blocks delay improvement in our life!
Our tone of conversation have to be according to the context and there is no room for jokes in all sorts of conversation !
Jokes,yes ! But, when we take every thing as joke,when we approach every thing as a joke, we are creating road blocks. These road blocks delay improvement in our life!
Our tone of conversation have to be according to the context and there is no room for jokes in all sorts of conversation !
MIXING NEGATIVES WITH POSITIVES !
It is not possible to have a mixed mindset , mix of negatives and positives.The mix creates confusions.
This is a positive world and it is always rewarding to be positive.
We should not think about the negative reactions of others, when we are positive, with patience and perseverance , we will have a world of our dream........... happy world.
This is a positive world and it is always rewarding to be positive.
We should not think about the negative reactions of others, when we are positive, with patience and perseverance , we will have a world of our dream........... happy world.
WHAT CAN WE CHANGE ?
Every day ,we should ask a question, like we do our daily routines, 'What we need to change?' for self improvement.
A better way to do is by writing the question before we go to bed !
But, this should be done like we brush our teeth , daily !
A better way to do is by writing the question before we go to bed !
But, this should be done like we brush our teeth , daily !
SELF RESISTENCE TO CHANGE !!!
People resist to change because of the fear , the fear about the new situation.
People hang on to some security triggers and as long as they continue to be so , the progress will be slow !
People hang on to some security triggers and as long as they continue to be so , the progress will be slow !
CHARACTER, GOOD / BAD !!!!!!!!!!
We judge people by their character.
But, the character/behaviour of a person is as result of the perceptions of the person.
Means , no body is bad or good !
People may change perceptions with age,experience etc.
Some may take more time to evolve, some take less.
But, the character/behaviour of a person is as result of the perceptions of the person.
Means , no body is bad or good !
People may change perceptions with age,experience etc.
Some may take more time to evolve, some take less.
SAVING TIME IN LIFE .......... THE EASIEST WAY !!
We don't have time for doing many things. This is only an excuse !
With confidence, I can say that the easiest way to save time is by being phisically fit.... means we need to do any thing needed to be fit.
When we are physically fit , we are able to concentrate and finish any job in much,much less time........... very often in half the time of what we take , when we are not physically fit.
Physical fitness set the right mood in our brain................ this knowledge is a perfect gift for those who follow this blog!!!
With confidence, I can say that the easiest way to save time is by being phisically fit.... means we need to do any thing needed to be fit.
When we are physically fit , we are able to concentrate and finish any job in much,much less time........... very often in half the time of what we take , when we are not physically fit.
Physical fitness set the right mood in our brain................ this knowledge is a perfect gift for those who follow this blog!!!
TOO BUSY !!!!!!!!!!!!
We are too busy that we don't have time to do exercise.
We are too busy that we do not have time to read/study/update our mind !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We have hours and hours to be infront of a mirror.......... want to update our looks!
We are too busy that we do not have time to read/study/update our mind !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We have hours and hours to be infront of a mirror.......... want to update our looks!
WE END UP WITH SUCCESS ALWAYS !!!!!!
We always succeed in life ,if we are sincere in our approach.
When we get into the process of any thing that we intend to do , we succeed in gaining valuable experience which will be helpful through out our life time.
Let's us not think success only in terms of end result !
When we get into the process of any thing that we intend to do , we succeed in gaining valuable experience which will be helpful through out our life time.
Let's us not think success only in terms of end result !
IGNORANCE IS NOT A BLISS !!!
We have so much opportunities in to day's world if only we look around.
Means, knowledge acquiring is what one has to do to be happy.
Crying about ignorance is not acceptable any more in the society.
Need to update about our life !
Means, knowledge acquiring is what one has to do to be happy.
Crying about ignorance is not acceptable any more in the society.
Need to update about our life !
PLAYING STUPID IS CONVENIENT !!!
Those who play the role of stupid are smart enough to understand that it is convenient to be so.
The label 'stupid', gives an easy escape route.
Father while tutoring his son used to call his son 'stupid' out of frustration.
After initial resistence, son took it as a convenient weapon ,' i am stupid, so , I don't want to study'.
The label 'stupid', gives an easy escape route.
Father while tutoring his son used to call his son 'stupid' out of frustration.
After initial resistence, son took it as a convenient weapon ,' i am stupid, so , I don't want to study'.
HIDE AND SEEK GAMES IN RELATIONSHIPS !!!
We hide many things from the others, many a time. This happens, when one party is not feeling comfortable/confident to be in conversation.
This situation happens between couple, between parents and children , between boss and subordinate etc.
Need to address the situation , by setting our mind in a positive mode.
This situation happens between couple, between parents and children , between boss and subordinate etc.
Need to address the situation , by setting our mind in a positive mode.
TO ACHIEVE SOME THING, NEED TO SACRIFICE !!!!
Many a time , people say ,' to achieve some thing, we need to sacrifice some thing'.
We don't have to sacrifice any thing. All that one has to do is to have a positive mind set to look out for the opportunities and how to go about it sincerely.
We don't have to sacrifice any thing. All that one has to do is to have a positive mind set to look out for the opportunities and how to go about it sincerely.
PAIN - PLEASURE PSYCHOLOGY !!!!!!!!!!
Ask women, what do many men ( immatured ) stupidly ask after.... '' did it pain a lot?''
These people relate pleasure to pain........ the more the pain the more the pleasure!!
These people relate pleasure to pain........ the more the pain the more the pleasure!!
GIVING PAIN IS A PLEASURE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Giving pain to other people brings pleasure to negative people.
They try to give as much pain to others as possible , especially to their beloveds, to escape from their own guilt.
This is a shrewd way of covering one's own mistakes............. easy route to escapism!
They try to give as much pain to others as possible , especially to their beloveds, to escape from their own guilt.
This is a shrewd way of covering one's own mistakes............. easy route to escapism!
BEING NEGATIVE IS A SMART MOVE !!!!
Negativity is a smart approach to life. In negative mode, one is exempted from all sort of responsibilities.
Many people, after a period of experience find this approach as a matter of convenience.............. they can remain lazy and don't have to do any thing constructive.
Many people, after a period of experience find this approach as a matter of convenience.............. they can remain lazy and don't have to do any thing constructive.
PROUD OF BEING SELF-MADE !!!!
Heard many a time, ' I am a self- made person '. People have so big ego that they don't want to give credit to others. They become so blind that they don't realize the fact that they have used the resources of the society, made by others.
So, there is an indirect contribution for all that we are to-day.
Instead of being overly proud of what we are , let's acknowledge others role in our life and appreciate it!
So, there is an indirect contribution for all that we are to-day.
Instead of being overly proud of what we are , let's acknowledge others role in our life and appreciate it!
Thursday 17 May 2012
IT'S A GREAT FEELING !!!
Feel great to see that this blog is spreading to new countries and continents.
Feel great to see that there are very regulars to this blog.
Thank you all ! Will keep growing up and moving on !
Feel great to see that there are very regulars to this blog.
Thank you all ! Will keep growing up and moving on !
COME ON, WAKE UP !
Let's wake up to an entirely new positive world , every day.
Positive thinking is not ' one-time thing.'
We need to be positive on a continuous basis, the effor is worth our life!
Positive thinking is not ' one-time thing.'
We need to be positive on a continuous basis, the effor is worth our life!
MASTER KEY TO HAPPINESS !!!!!!!
There must be a master key for any thing, so too for happiness.
Sure to find out that all along this blog................ watch out !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sure to find out that all along this blog................ watch out !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WE NEED TO.....................
We can do so many wonderful things.
All that we need to do is to think that we need to do things, sincerely.
It's all about how we think, thinking ability is with every one.
We need to remind ourselves that we need to.....................
All that we need to do is to think that we need to do things, sincerely.
It's all about how we think, thinking ability is with every one.
We need to remind ourselves that we need to.....................
ROLE REVERSAL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Our parents goes through a lot of pain while bringing us up, over the years. But , they do not consider any thing as a pain.They live with a purpose.
When our turn comes to look after our parents in their old age, we try to avoid as much. We consider it a big pain for us.
If at all we do something we consider it as a duty,............ this is a general statement........ exceptions are always there
If we reverse our roles mentally , we will find a lot of satisfaction in caring about our parents!
When our turn comes to look after our parents in their old age, we try to avoid as much. We consider it a big pain for us.
If at all we do something we consider it as a duty,............ this is a general statement........ exceptions are always there
If we reverse our roles mentally , we will find a lot of satisfaction in caring about our parents!
NEGATIVITY AS A SOURCE OF PLEASURE !!!!!!!!!!!!
We all seek pleasure!
The easiest way to pleasure is being negative. This is so because, in this state we don't have to do any thing in life.
We can remain in denial mode , woh, what a pleasure!
The easiest way to pleasure is being negative. This is so because, in this state we don't have to do any thing in life.
We can remain in denial mode , woh, what a pleasure!
PLEASURE OF HURT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Many people like to hurt others, they get some pleasure from doing so.
It may be by words or deeds.
Children do this to their parents whenever they want some thing from their parents.
Some people hurt themselves. This brings pleasure because, playing victim brings attention !
It may be by words or deeds.
Children do this to their parents whenever they want some thing from their parents.
Some people hurt themselves. This brings pleasure because, playing victim brings attention !
BEING SUSPICIOUS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We all are suspicious on many occasions.
But, there are people who are suspicious to the extend that they always doubt about their spouse.
We suspect people on areas where we might have done some thing fishy/wrong. We see others in the same colour as we ourselves were in the same situation !
But, there are people who are suspicious to the extend that they always doubt about their spouse.
We suspect people on areas where we might have done some thing fishy/wrong. We see others in the same colour as we ourselves were in the same situation !
BEING IMMATURE IS CONVENIENT !!!!!!!!!!
Immaturity helps us to avoid responsibility in life.
We don't want to grow mentally when we are not prepared to own up responsibility.
Being responsible means, we are not in a position to shift blames on others.
We don't want to grow mentally when we are not prepared to own up responsibility.
Being responsible means, we are not in a position to shift blames on others.
CONFIDENCE IS THE KEY !!!!!!!!!
We won't be able to enjoy our life in full without being confident.
It's not difficult to be confident.
The main problem is ' people don't want to be confident, many ' because with confidence come the added responsibility !.
Many don't want to lead a responsible life because they feel that responsibility is a burden !
It's not difficult to be confident.
The main problem is ' people don't want to be confident, many ' because with confidence come the added responsibility !.
Many don't want to lead a responsible life because they feel that responsibility is a burden !
Wednesday 16 May 2012
KEY TO HAPPINESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Moving on positively is the key to happiness !!!
We do not have enough time in our life to get stuck with negatives.
Once we know , somewhere we are getting stuck , we must try to make positive moves forward !!!
We do not have enough time in our life to get stuck with negatives.
Once we know , somewhere we are getting stuck , we must try to make positive moves forward !!!
CELEBRATING LIFE .. MISCONCEPTION !!!!
Many people think ' partying ' is the only way of celebrating life.
When we think/work towards our goals and purposes of life we feel good and thus celebrating life !!!
When we think/work towards our goals and purposes of life we feel good and thus celebrating life !!!
CONSISTANCY !!!!!!!!!!!
Personal growth should be on a consistant basis. Personal growth has to be made one of our prime goals in our life.
This alone can make a world of difference to our life.
This alone can make a world of difference to our life.
OPEN MIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Open mind is the key to happiness.
Open mind doesn't mean, agreeing to each and every.
Open mind takes away the biased feelings.
We can have connections with all human beings regardless of what culture, which country or what age people belong to .
Open mind doesn't mean, agreeing to each and every.
Open mind takes away the biased feelings.
We can have connections with all human beings regardless of what culture, which country or what age people belong to .
DON'T NEED A SCIENTIFIC BRAIN !!!!
We don't need a scientific brain to find purpose in life.
We may have any small purpose like, wanting to help our ageing parents and make them happy........... make our spouse happy or getting our children well educated etc......
We may have any small purpose like, wanting to help our ageing parents and make them happy........... make our spouse happy or getting our children well educated etc......
LIVING WITH PURPOSE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Very few people live with some purpose. These people never get bored in life !
Purpose , is the driving force of our life. It may be any small thing. But, as long as we have purpose in life , we feel motivated and driven in life. It brings all energy and happiness.
Purpose , is the driving force of our life. It may be any small thing. But, as long as we have purpose in life , we feel motivated and driven in life. It brings all energy and happiness.
FALSE PRESTIGE !!!!!!!!
False prestige is one of the worst enemies of human beings .
This peculiar feeling disconnects self from others.
False prestige is the product of low self esteem !
This peculiar feeling disconnects self from others.
False prestige is the product of low self esteem !
WE HAVE THE HOPE !!!!!!!!!!!!
If we focus on our own improvement , we have a big hope of having a happy life.
When we compare our improvement with others, we may feel low !.
When we compare our improvement with others, we may feel low !.
REVENGE MENTALITY !!!!!!!!!
We all have a tendency to take revenge. Revenge is no way to live with.
Revenge mentality brings all negative energy into us. This defocus us from our path............... it is very self destructive.
Even if one has to succeed this way, afterwards the same person will repent it .
So either way it is harmful !
Revenge mentality brings all negative energy into us. This defocus us from our path............... it is very self destructive.
Even if one has to succeed this way, afterwards the same person will repent it .
So either way it is harmful !
SELF ABUSE AND SELF ESTEEM !1
We often indulge in self abuse. Frustrations lead to this.
We may do this to get others' attention too.
People with high self esteem in free from all these.
Low self esteem leads to playing such games of self abuse.
We may give others an opportunity to abuse us when our self esteem is low !
We may do this to get others' attention too.
People with high self esteem in free from all these.
Low self esteem leads to playing such games of self abuse.
We may give others an opportunity to abuse us when our self esteem is low !
SCORING POINTS !!!!
We abuse others when we want to score points or to disconnect with others.
This happens when we are not comfortable within ourselves.
This happens when we are not comfortable within ourselves.
My Home: NO ONE IS BAD !!!!!
My Home: NO ONE IS BAD !!!!!: No one is bad ! We all are the product of our circumstances. We behave as a reaction to what we see/hear or feel. Yes, we should take car...
NO ONE IS BAD !!!!!
No one is bad !
We all are the product of our circumstances. We behave as a reaction to what we see/hear or feel.
Yes, we should take care of our reactions so that we bring appropriate reactions each time .
Experience plays important role as well as the knowlege.
We all are the product of our circumstances. We behave as a reaction to what we see/hear or feel.
Yes, we should take care of our reactions so that we bring appropriate reactions each time .
Experience plays important role as well as the knowlege.
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