Monday 31 December 2012

PERFECT TIME TO LEAVE THE PAST BEHIND !!!!

Knowing , how to leave the past behind is a skill .

Lot many do not know this and they suffer from the past.

As the New Year began, we should know how to put 

the past behind , to move ahead..........life is in the ' ahead' ,

not in the past !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BREAK FREE IN TO POSITIVE SHELL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Let us take this new day , the very first day of the year in to a new path...............the positive path !

Let us break the negative shells that we are living in and move on to the new positive shell !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This will lead us to a very happy and prosperous New Year !

'' Happy, Prosperous and Peaceful New Year !!!''

LESS TIME FOR LEARNING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People have time for  T V, gossip and all sorts of things............

they don't have time for exercise and for learning !!!!!!!!!!!

Learning may change mindset, and new mindset will lead to 

broad mindedness and so on...................

People don't want this , because they are comfortable, where 

they are and don't want to move from there !!!!

LET US ALL MOVE TO A BETTER POSITIVE MINDSET

IN 2013 !!!

'' HAPPY AND PEACEFUL NEW YEAR ''TO ALL THOSE WHO FOLLOW THIS SITE !!!

SHARING HAPPINESS IS THE MOST SATISFYING THING!

NEVER WANTING TO LEARN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Unwilling to learn is a common thing with people, who are low 

in confidence.

For these people, the learning lead to change and changing

self is like loss of face !!!

Loss of face is the biggest problem with the people with 

lack of confidence !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!     ..........  false prestige !

Sunday 30 December 2012

SUSPICIOUS ALL THE WAY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People with low self esteem are always suspicious of others !!!

They do not focus on what they have to do...........miss the 

opportunities thus .

They keep a check on others activities..........they think , others

are enemies sort............sad !!!!

Saturday 29 December 2012

NEGATIVE LAYERS IN THE MIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Many people don't learn, from their own mistakes even !

This is because , they have as many layers in the mind , which 


block their thinking faculty.  

These negative layers blind the people all the way , thus leading

to miseries  in life !!!

Just a few minute introspection will help them in such situations  !

CONTROL FREAK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There are people , who want to control every one else !

This is due to acute selfishness .

Selfishness is as a result of low self esteem.

Need to work on self esteem in such cases !!!!

Friday 28 December 2012

ONE WAY ( ALL THE WAY ) RELATIONSHIP !!!!!!!!!!!

For many, the relationship is only,''one way-their way only.''

These people do not care about the others in relationship......they just want to use others as tools to satisfy their own needs.......and their needs are unlimited and unquestionable too !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Any discord , the other party is at fault and is usually abused !

We may go in to so many New Years and 22nd/23rd etc. centuries, but our mindset remain the same or even worse, may travel backward !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

'' May this New Year bring , New Positive Mindset to all .''

FEELINGS , FEELINGS AND MORE FEELINGS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many people live by their feelings...........feelings are good, we the human beings have to feel !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

But, when we are taken over by our feelings and the feelings do not allow us to think logically, things may go wrong !

I mean, there are many , who do not use their intelligence and thinking faculty before they talk and take decisions.............these people become slaves to their feelings !

We should know how to control and channelise our feelings in  positive spirit, if we want to succeed and be happy !! 

BE POSITIVE TO GET POSITIVE RESPONSE !!!!

We can't change any one............no need to change too !

But, if we are patiently positive enough, we can get positive 

response and thus can have happy ambiance .

Thursday 27 December 2012

OTHERS ARE FOOLS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The people , who think others are fools and themselves to be smartest, are the real fools.  

Met many who are extremely talented and capable of doing wonderful things, but failed miserably in life due to this illusion !!!!!!!!!!!

Instead of focusing on what to do, these people try to boast about themselves !

ASSERTIVENESS MISTAKEN FOR CONFIDENCE !!!!!

Confident people are natural and every thing comes to them

naturally..........communication, conduct etc.

People ,who are not confident try many things...........they learn

in many places , to be assertive, persuasive etc.

These things do not work in any relationship................on the 

contrary, they will spoil things !!!

''WISH YOU ALL, WHO FOLLOW THIS SITE WITH POSITIVE SUGGESTIONS, THE BEST OF ALL NEW YEARS !!!!!!!!

I decided to wish all those who encouraged me to do this on a daily basis,  ''Very, Very Happy & Prosperous New year.''

This I hope , will help the people to read and respond, before they get lost in the celebrations !!!

Let us all hope and wish that the New Year will bring only the positive things like , sincere love and sharing of joy and peace !!!

SWEET V/S HONEST !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Honest comes to the point without any sophistication or flattery !!!
These people are reliable .

Sweet are sweet because, they have some thing to hide and hidden agenda is the one they pursue , beware !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IGNORANCE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No body can claim to be a master of every thing..........we all do not know many things......that is perfect !!!

Not knowing is not exactly be termed as, 'ignorance' !

Ignorance is when people refuse to learn, and act as if  they know  the unknown !!!

These people bring an iron curtain in their mind and block the flow of knowledge due to big ego and laziness........................this is ignorance !!!

Wednesday 26 December 2012

IS IT SO DIFFICULT TO SEE THE REALITY ???

Met many, who would not like to accept reality !

Used to think , it was difficult to accept.

But, some time , I wonder if it is difficult to see the reality !!!

Closing eyes to avoid the reality lead to self destruction .

Tuesday 25 December 2012

SAFETY IS WHAT MEANT BY ..'' DON'T '', YOUNG SHOULD REALIZE !!!!!!!!

If youngsters give confidence about their safety, by playing the safety rules, parents won't give too much of instructions , which sound to be negative for the ears !

Safety/Security are the primary concerns of any guardian/parent.....................play appropriate in life !!!!!!!!!!!

EMOTIONAL CHARITY , HOW ABOUT IT ?????????

There are some , very few people , who are giving 10% of their

income as charity.

But, the same people are not willing to give any thing as 

emotional charity !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

They are not willing to set a part of their positive emotions 

for others .................this does not bring any fame , may be !!!!!!!

We may set aside a part of our lives for others well being too !

MOTIVATING FACTOR IS NOT ALWAYS THE SAME !!!!

We may have many motivating factors within us !!!

The most difficult job is to find out, what is the right one for

different occasion .

It differs from person to person................ so too, within a person

occasion to occasion................................................................

You may brainstorm..........................

NO TIME TO THINK...........THINK ABOUT CONSEQUENCES !!!!!!!!

Surprising that, people don't have the time and patience to pause for a second to think about the consequences of their actions, yet to be taken ...................

People jump in to the act and then repent !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why can't think about the consequences of each and every action, before acting upon impulse ?

NOT COMMERCIAL, JUST MAKING USEFUL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This site is not being viewed , because of commercial beautification !

This site is usually recommended by the viewers to their friends , as a site giving useful tips for self improvement !

Publicity is not the motto...........publicity has to come with word of mouth and recommendations !

Recommendations happen, when people find some thing is useful for their friends and families .

Thank you guys for your positive suggestions to make this site more attractive........................................

Monday 24 December 2012

TOO NOISY ........................................

There are people , who talk too much about themselves.........they try to impress others with whatever !

They waste their lives , boasting about nothing !

They think others to be stupid and not worth listening !

May god bless on this auspicious day !!!

Sunday 23 December 2012

THANK YOU GUYS, PROMISE,'THE GOOD WORK WILL CONTINUE WITH YOUR SOLID SUPPORT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you all for the solid support by giving positive feed back !

I am sure to feed materials on this site , which will be useful for those wanting to know a bit about human beings !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

With the kind of positive comments, am motivated to continue the research............thank you all, once again, for motivating me to work harder with more responsibility !!!!!!!!!

Merry Xmas and Happy New year to all , who visit this site to encourage me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

REFUSING TO ACCEPT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People with low self esteem refuse to accept realities........they do not find any reason to do so 1

These people create their own fairy world, where every thing
is in their favour and think that , no one can challenge them !

By the time they open their eyes , they are late !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

REALITY, PEOPLE TRYING TO RUN AWAY FROM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We cannot run away from reality, just because , the reality is not what we desire.

People with low self esteem shut their eyes and pretend that the world is different and flow with their desirous intentions.

Living in such situation leads to failure................

Saturday 22 December 2012

ARROGANCE IS THE FIRST STEP TO DOOM !!!!!!!!!!!!

There are people with a lot of talents and resources , but big failures !!!!!!

These failures of such people are due to arrogance !

They mistake arrogance for confidence and thus carry on with stupid things, blindly.

They become blind to all positive things.........ignoring reasoning and thus step in to doom, self destruction !!!

Friday 21 December 2012

PARTICULAR TASTE THAT CANNOT BE CHANGED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

A taste, once liked is difficult to be changed...............

once we like some ways of behaviour , we don't want to change 

it for fear of loosing the pleasure !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CHEATING PATTERN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Cheats do have a pattern..............it is very difficult for them 

to clear themselves off the pattern.

The pattern works in a cycle.........this habit never dies easily !

It is like a sort of addiction, they find pleasure in doing so !!!

Thursday 20 December 2012

OVER- CONFIDENCE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People who are not confident, shows themselves to be above every thing and every one !!!

These people , with a shade of some thing of minor importance , try to prove it to the world that they are extremely talented and smart ..............thus bringing themselves down !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Wednesday 19 December 2012

CONTROL OVER DESIRES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Our desires decide our character and behaviour !!!

If only, we have a control over our desires, we can change our

habits.

Habits come back to satisfy our desires !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Tuesday 18 December 2012

SELF RIGHTEOUS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There are people , who think themselves to be right always.

They think, they can't be wrong............they think , they can

manage others, can do, better than others.

They think , they know more than others !!!

This way they invite their own down-fall !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

REAL MOTIVATION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Fulfilment and self satisfaction are the real self motivating factor for any one !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Whatever gives full satisfaction motivates us.............find it !!! 

Monday 17 December 2012

NOT DOING A FAVOUR !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Treating others with respect is not a favour , we are doing .

Some people think themselves doing a favour, when they

give respect to others !

Every human being is to be respected , every one has a right

to be respected !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PLAYING THE GAME OF '' VICTIM '' !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Those who look for sympathy play the game of being ' victim '

!!!!!!

They do this by an easy way..............not willing to listen to the 

other people..............they know, if they listen,  they won't 

have a chance to be a victim !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sunday 16 December 2012

PERFECT MATCH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Perfect matching is possible .....with great effort, but in a funny way and not serious way !

Matching of mind is the priority here...........levels have to be on the same lines.............needs to work with lots of fun !!!

HABITS ARE HABITS, CHANGING NEEDS LOTS OF EFFORT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Habits, once formed is difficult to be changed.......it needs lots of efforts........effort is not comfortable for normal human beings..........people hate making efforts !!!!!!!!!!!1

Habits , changed temporarily comes back........because, that's where the people are comfortable !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111

Saturday 15 December 2012

LOVE WITHOUT TRUST !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We want to love people but, we can't...........this situation happens with many of us, often !

We are unable to love others because, the base and ingredients of love are missing !

When we don't trust the people, who , we want to love, love becomes impossible !

Trust is a basic requirement for loving the other person !!

Friday 14 December 2012

LIVING IN SHELLS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We all live in our own shells, created and coloured by us !!!

Some give black , some white etc.....

Black, say , negatives want to break it at different points of

time, but are scared to do so for fear of insecurity.

Let us know that the positive shell is better and reliable 

security for any human being !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NAGGING, THE WORST THING ONE CAN DO TO OTHERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We should not nag even the worst of enemies !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nagging is the worst thing any one can do to any other fellow human being...............it is equivalent to killing another , inch by inch !!!

Thursday 13 December 2012

HONOUR COMES TO THE DESERVING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The honour comes to the deserving, automatically.

No body has to be in search of honour , it comes to those who

deserve

Deserving talents cannot be hidden by any one , for long !!!!

Wednesday 12 December 2012

BLIND BY SELF INTEREST !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Our motivation is our self interest.

Any thing, that does not serve our self interest, we refuse !

We are blind to all other aspects and people, when they are 

not in line with our self interests !!!

We don't want to hear the suggestions by others, even when

such suggestions are very beneficial for us............we act 

deaf to them, because we feel that such suggestions will

derail our self interest !!!!

THE WORST ENEMY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Refusal to education is the worst enemy !

People are so lazy to give a thought to any thing new............

new knowledge..........ego and laziness do not allow them the

patience and willingness to self educate !

Tuesday 11 December 2012

CHANGING OTHERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We all feel like changing some habits of others , at some point of life !

There is no need to change others...............nobody likes changes.

People are resistant to changes , because , they are scared of new situations.

We can get good results , if only we try to understand others positively...........understanding others and accepting the way they are, is the most important thing.

Wanting to change has to come from within !  For this the people have to have high self esteem .

STRETCHABLE CAPABILITIES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

By intelligent, diligent, regular practice almost all our 

capabilities can be stretched beyond imagination !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

All that we have to do is, to think like 21st century human 

beings, for achieving these extended capabilities !!!!

Monday 10 December 2012

BORN CHILD, AND A CHILD THROUGH OUT !!!!!!!

Every is born as child and we retain a part of it through out !

There are people, who refuse to grow up and mature !!!

They remain as a child, in complete form through out their 

life time !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


OTHERS AS OUR MIRROR IMAGE !!!!!!!!!!!

We can see a major part of ourselves through others..........by observing others' reactions to our behaviour.

Our behaviour causes the reactions............therefore , others are like our mirror image, may not be very clear one !

Sunday 9 December 2012

WHEN WE LIVE TOGETHER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Only when we live together , we come to know the differences with the other person !

We come together for various reasons, which are the attractive factors .

Soon the attractive factors are overshadowed by realities.....

to know realities living together is a must !!!!


Saturday 8 December 2012

IT IS A HABIT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Inefficient and lazy people focus on others to find faults with them.

They can't live without talking bad about others !!!

The gossips  go round and round...................it becomes a habit for such people ........they become addicted to foul mouthing others !!!

Friday 7 December 2012

NO ONE ELSE CAN BE RIGHT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People with low self esteem do a lot of things to declare about it and seek praise !

They presume that , no one else can do those things as good as them !

They praise themselves and expect others to follow !

Thursday 6 December 2012

APPRECIATION, APPRECIATION, APPRECIATION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There are many , who do a lot of good things for the society.

But, very often the motivation to do such things are selfish......

they do it for getting appreciation from others.....in the process

such people do not reward their own people well !!!!

One side , it is charity, but to do so, they exploit others 

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  imagine the contradictions !

The very purpose of these people doing such things are self 

promotions and earning praise !

In reality the poor, exploited people are who, does good job..and

they don't get credit, because , they are not in the open !

Wednesday 5 December 2012

STUPIDITY AT THE HIGHEST LEVEL !!!!!!

People with low self esteem think themselves to know every thing..........they do every thing by themselves, without taking help,even when it is very essential !

Afterwards they pat themselves on their back for their performance, which may be the worst!!!

This is the major difference between confident and non-confident people.

Low in confidence declare themselves to be greats !!!

Tuesday 4 December 2012

LOVE WITHOUT RESPECT ??????????????????

There are many, who are sincere in loving others, but, the 

same people do not listen to the people , who they love !!! 

These people are just emotional and not logical at all.........

it is impossible make others feel loved without giving respect.

Respect is the base for all emotions !!!!!!!!!!!!!

GOOD INTENTIONS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We feel unhappy when we do not have any good intentions in life.

Blank mind too is of no use.

In order to be happy, it is a must to carry good intentions all along our journey ..............or else disaster is the result !

Sunday 2 December 2012

MIND AT DIFFERENT LEVELS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We have the capacity to take mind to different levels !

The higher we take it, the brighter we see the world !

If we can take it to a level , where there is no ego, we can 

have peak performances !!!

STUPIDITY OVERSHADOWS TALENTS !!!!!!!!

There are so many talented people in this world, but many are stupid in analysing things in a wrong way !

When stupidity overshadows talents, the talented becomes ineffective............talents are wasted this way !

Wish people live with a bit of self awareness !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Saturday 1 December 2012

WORLD'S EDUCATION DAY, MISSING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We have  :-

Mother's,

Fathers' day,

Friendship day,

Rose day,

Aids day  etc. etc............

But, no education day !!!!!!!!!!!!

If  we can have education day, there won't be any need for other days, because , all will be covered by education day !!!