''HOPE'', AS BAIT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hope is used as bait .................. beware !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BOILING WITHIN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People, low on confidence boil themselves within.....they are frequently fighting with themselves to prove some thing to others, which is the biggest folly one can carry on !!!!!!!!!!!!

HELP NOT ???????????????

Help some one, invite enmity !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The helped feel uncomfortable after receiving it due to ego ........

TO ALL THOSE WHO VISIT ME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Merry X'mas !!!

CALM MIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Successful people are successful due to their ability to take their mind to calm state whenever decisions are to be taken !!!!!!!!!!!

BEING WEIRD, SHORT TERM ATTRACTION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Acting weird gets attention, though negative....but short term !

People may not be showing their actual response outwardly !!

INTERNAL INSECURITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Internal insecurity is what prevents people from doing many positive things !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NERVOUS ENERG;Y !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nervousness produce a lot of energy.....if we can save it and channelize in to positive zones, we can be very successful !!!!

Nervous energy is due to negative mindset ..... keep away from negativity !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LESS GOSSIP, MORE PRODUCTIVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Maximum energy is wasted on gossips !!!!!!!! If we can avoid this, we can do whatever we want to do for our improvement !!!

SAD, YOU CAN'T TEACH YOUR OWN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

However good you are , you can't teach your own people.....emotions are involved and own people won't take things as things, matter as matter..........

OTHERS ARE OUR REFLECTIONS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If you are disgusted with others, it is time for you to check the way you behave...................others' react to your responses.......they are almost your mirror image !!!!!!!!!

LET THEM BE FREE TO THINK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Unfortunate that we do not let  youngsters to  develop thinking habits ......................we restrict this development by giving too many restrictive instructions !!!!

Explain without bias and force and let others brood over the stuff, which will bring the best fruits !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FIT MIND , PREREQUISITE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Physical fitness is prerequisite for physical performances....fittest mind is the most important aspect for all performances........positive attitude is the one thing that creates the path to healthy, sharp mind  !!!

BEING CHILDISH.....VERY CONVENIENT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Not wanting to grow up is the most convenient way of avoiding responsibility.............

OVERCOMING ADVERSE CIRCUMSTANCES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Those who want to live with excuses use their circumstances through out their life and thus become fools !!!

By the time they realize their folly, they would be nearing the end of every thing !!

Those who own up  RESPONSIBILITY - have the guts to be responsible will overcome as early as possible !!

Lazy goose will never get up ............................

WHEN WE DON'T FOLLOW POSITIVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If we do not follow positive behaviour, negatives automatically follow us................negatives know that there is a vacuum and is to be filled !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

AN EYE ON KNOWLEDGE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

By seeking knowledge, we can destroy our negativity too ... a by-product ............

It is wonderful to develop many skills that will fetch good income too !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ACTION THAT SPEAKS VOLUMES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Positive actions and behavior are more important than giving speeches about it ..............actions speak volumes !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PSYCHOLOGY UPDATE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Psychology is to be updated on an ongoing basis......human beings can do lots and lots, if such a good work is done .....people are confused in all walks of life and thus chaos , inefficiency and negativity !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NO READING HABITS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

More and more people are losing the reading habits !!!

Unfortunate, many do not read any thing at all...........still , these people act as if they know every thing and are smarter than others !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NEGATIVITY AND HEALTH PROBLEMS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Negativity is one of the main factors for all health problems....including obesity !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

RESPECT HAS NO CONDITIONS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Respect is one quality every one has to carry all through regardless of situations.......it cannot be conditional  !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ACCUMULATING REGRETS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Playing victim game is a sure way of accumulating regrets...........people like to live thus, ha ha haa !!!!!!

OWN FALSE IMAGE AT THE COST OF !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People are more worried about self and thus they try to acquire impressive image for themselves ................often costing the lives of their own beloved ones !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

EGO DESTROYS THE INTELLECT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ego is the one factor that destroys our intellectual faculty....
.........it's choice that we have, we want to keep our ego intact or not !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

REWIND AND RECTIFY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Rewind daily happenings to find out what we need to rectify !!!!

PLAYING PEOPLE AGAINST PEOPLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is what people do for pleasure........such people do not get involved in any constructive work !!!

EASY TO TRAIN ANIMALS BUT, !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It is much easier to train animals  !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

They are keen to learn and have the spark in them when they are being trained !!!!!!!!!!!!

But............................

DON'T HAVE ENOUGH TIME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Positive people find it difficult to provide enough time for whatever they want to do................they always have more to do than  time available.....happy people !!!!!!!!!!!!!

OBSERVE AND LEARN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We are very lazy and leave out important things happening in our lives !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WEARING NEGATIVITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What happens when we wear dark glasses ?

We distort the color of whatever we see............same with negativity !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IMMENSE POTENTIAL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We are able to perform many things to our own surprise ....our potential is immense, but wasted by negativity only !!!!!!

UNIVERSAL MIND SET !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If we can think like a person of the universe rather than of a particular country or group, we can take our lives to any level of success !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

UNSUNG HEROES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Achievers are known to the world...........but, the facilitators of their achievements are unknown to the world !!!!!!!!!!!!

The real heroes are in the back room..............

WHO WANTS TO BE ASSERTIVE ?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Assertive way of behaving is a clear sign of internal weakness..............people on low confidence make extra efforts to conquer !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BEING ASSERTIVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Assertiveness is being misunderstood..............being independent is enough and there is no need for being more than that !!!

UNCOMFORTABLE WITH OTHERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

......................., uncomfortable within  !!!!!!!!!!!

GAMES WITHIN THE FAMILY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Insecure people play games within their own families !!!!

This is the reason for families being broken up !!!

Need to teach every new born , self esteem !!!!!!!!!!!

SOME TIMES , YES...SOME TIMES, NO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many parents confuse their children by saying yes and no to the same thing..........depending on their own convenience !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LET OTHERS USE THEIR THINKING FACULTY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Possessive people don't let their people use their mental faculty.... this way they are not protecting, rather harming them !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

RESTRICTING MENTAL HORIZON ...PARENTS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Too much of guidance restrict the mental horizon of the growing children....let them find out the world themselves as much possible !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IRRITATING CHARACTER AMONG CHILDREN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There are many parents, especially mothers who give direction after direction to their children......they don't allow their children to mature......this creates irritation in their system !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LIFE, NOT INFLUENCED BY OTHERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Imagine a world where we were not influenced by people or circumstances...........born and lived with pure thoughts !!!

INJUSTICE TO THE REAL PEOPLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is a world where publicity works.... those who know how to self promote get the credit for things that do not actually belong to them.......... unfair to the real heroes !!!!!!!!!!!!

IT'S THE POWER OF PURE MIND & NOT TELEPATHY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Pure mind can see things in advance, people call it telepathy......a mind without any negative thought at all can work wonders... people call it miracle !!!!!!!!!!!!

UNCOMFORTABLE WITHIN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Not feeling good about self ? , it's a signal to improve on self esteem !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

GLAMOUR, AN ADDICTION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Everybody loves glamour. Nobody wants to leave it .

When it is not possible, people go in to low , imagine the hollowness !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

GOSSIP, A WAY OF LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Gossip is a way of life for many.....gives a lot of pleasure and thus healthy for them !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NOTHING LIKE LEARNING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Learning new new things gives more and more pleasure and no other pleasure can beat this one !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

EVER SUSPECTING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Suspicion is an incurable illness !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People suspect others for no reason.....a sign of low in confidence !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NOT WANTING TO BE COMFORTABLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There are those who do not want to be comfortable with others....sure sign of low self esteem !!!!

KNOWLEDGE IS THE NEW DIAMOND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Knowledge had always been the diamond............it is now , especially , due to ever changing volatile values of other things !

FEEL,'' NOT GOOD ENOUGH'' !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's not a good situation !!

It changes our direction in life !!!

NEED TO BE SYMPATHETIC !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lack of confidence is a major problem . People low on confidence do not know where to project themselves !

Such people need to be handled sympathetically !!!

HARD SKILLS OVER EDUCATION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Education is taking a back seat now a days !!!

Money value persuade people to give importance to hard skills !

Hard skills get preference over education and thus quality of life suffers !

HALLUCINATION, A COMMON THING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Excepting a minor percentage of people, every one hallucinates often and is not in touch with the realities !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HELP ! ,TO MANIPULATE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Imagine, the urgency to help a person to get him back in relationship !

There are so many instances like this .... waiting for some thing bad to happen to others and rush the help ...... help, woh !

UNAPPRECIATIVE OF OTHERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Success of any one is as a result of many contributions by others !!!

When people become successful, many such people do not even realize the contributions of others !!!!

BREAKING ICE IS AN ART !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Often, relationships freeze !!!

But, then there are opportunities to break the ice, if we want to do it sincerely ...........it is an art one has to master !!!

LONG, LONG, LONG WAY TO GO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We , the human beings have a long,long way to go .......

We are not at all broad minded yet...... shame that we do not open up our mind enough !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Life is wonderful and ultra beautiful when we take our mind to such high level !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CORRECTION OF BASE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Without proper base, nothing works ! First, the base is to be checked and if necessary proper correction is to be done .

The  same is applicable to our character if we want to be happy !

NOTHING TO COMPLAIN ABOUT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People with negative mindset love to grumble about some thing...when they don't have opportunities to do so, they feel bad about it !!!

IT'S A GOOD SITUATION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If we have some thing to do in life, it is a good situation !!!

Not having to do is not at all good !!!!!!!!!!

SLEDGING TO DISTRACT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Distracting is a way to bring others down....sledging is a tool !!!!

KNOWLEDGE IS SCARY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Knowledge scare many, it reveals truth and truth is not comforting many !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OTHERS ARE NON-EXISTING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many don't want to recognize others' existence !!!

Co-existence is almost like impossible for such selfish people !!

DON'T KNOW OUR WORLD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sad that people do not try to understand the world they are living in !!!!!!!!!!!

Unaware of the beauty of the universe takes away the charm !!!

WILL DO ANYTHING FOR EGO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

To satisfy ego, one may do any thing; even the most difficult !!!

OPPORTUNITIES ALL OVER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is a world of opportunities for those who are willing to update and work for it !!

NOT THAT EASY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Easy to copy , but not that easy to explain;  need to get in to depth , possible only with a lot of experienced research !!!!

THERE IS NO SHORT CUT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Being lazy, people look for short cuts to every thing....there are no short cuts to happiness ...have to work for it !!!!!!

MERE COPYING WON'T HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People using information, without knowing the innermost meaning are doing more harm than good to others !!!!!!!!!!!

Strange, copycats use information to promote their sites on TV !

MORE EGOISTIC !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So called spiritual gurus are more egoistic than any other ordinary human beings!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

They want the people to follow them rather than be independent..........they make others dependent on them !!!!

WHY TO BE FOLLOWERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why should any one be a follower of any other ?

This is due to low self esteem and hence need to feel secured !!!

Following is easier than doing some thing for self !!

THE MORE SPIRITUAL THE MORE DETESTING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It is quite unbelievable that the so searching spiritual people are unable to accept others !!!!!!!!!!!

They can accept only those who are in the same path as followers !!

Ego !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WHY KEEP ON REPENTING ?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Repentance ok, but why keep on brooding !!!

This way , we forget the present and later we have to repent about what we didn't do at the present !!!

Don't miss the present !!!!!!!!!!!

NOT IN REAL WORLD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Almost all are living in their own world, created in their mind.......not in the real world....hence the disconnect !!!!!!!!!!!!

COMPATIBILITY IS A BIG ISSUE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Getting along becomes a big problem because of zero compatibility !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ENCOURAGING COMMENTS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you all who had given encouraging comments here ...they energize me to keep moving on ... unfortunately , without emails , can't  personally reply !!!!!!!!!!

NOT FOR OTHERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many live for themselves, they are the least bothered about the universe around them....... and so they are the unhappiest too !!!

INCONSISTENT BEHAVIOR !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The inconsistency in the behavior of any one is due to the lack of confidence .....

Confident mind only can process information in a systematic way !!!!!!!!!!!

DEPENDS ON WHAT WE STAND FOR !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Quality , happiness and satisfaction depend on what we stand for in our life !!!!!

FOUNTAIN OF NEGATIVITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Weak mind is the fountain of all negative feelings.......lack of self confidence creates these feelings within !!!!!!!!!!!!

LET OTHERS NOT LIVE, I AM UNCOMFORTABLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When people are not comfortable with/within themselves, they take on others and make their lives miserable !!!!!!!!!!!!!

These behavior pattern is the first sign of inferiority complex !!!

UNWILLING TO GROW UP & SPLIT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Imagine the sad situation, where one is not willing to grow up and thus causing split in relationship !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

TOO MUCH MEDITATION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Meditating beyond a minimum will make a person passive ...

those who meditate too much lead passive life....waste of human 

resource !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IF ONLY WE MAKE IT ONGOING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If only we take ourselves in to an ongoing world of knowledge, we can get into any subject easily ..... can't study/learn in bits and pieces !!!!!!!!!!!!

TEMPTATIONS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

They are big distractions............need to convert those in to normal needs in approach !!!!!!!!!!!!!

DREAM IN TO HALLUCINATION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many go in to hallucinate state, when they do not know about dreams !!!

Better look for positive living, the best for oneself, than going around with wrong idea about dreams !

KILLING EMOTIONS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Over indulgence takes away our positive emotions ...............

thus kills our enthusiasm in life !!!!

HELP INVITES ENMITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When we help, we are touching the weak side of the other person, though positively !

But, for the person it is still the weakness and will turn around with an opportunity to get back !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NEED TO GO BY NEW WAYS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Psychology is not updated for long... we need to go by new, which is matching with our new world and new life style !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NO ONE ELSE CAN CHANGE MINDSET, BUT SELF !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Changing mindset/rather flexibility in attitude is the key to progress.
But no one else can do it for us...we need to do it ourselves !!!

CAN'T STOP FEEDING THE MIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People do feed their body and let it grow , every one wants it !!

When it comes to growth in mind, people don't feed their mind and thus stop growing in mind !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Poverty in mind causes decayed life !!!!

UNHAPPINESS IS IN THE MIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Feeling unhappy?  It is self created by ignoring positive processing of what are available to us in this world !!

LIFE UNCONDITIONAL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If only we conduct ourselves without conditions, we can enjoy our freedom and satisfaction in life !!!

Our happiness and satisfaction are in our hands/minds !!!!

HUMAN BEINGS SUBSTITUTED BY MACHINES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

More than irritation, it is a pain talking and dealing with machines for normal human needs !!!!!!!!!

Imagine a computer giving company in your bedroom !!!!!!!

USE IT OR LOSE IT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If we don't use our faculties , we may lose their sharpness !!!!!

This is especially true with our intelligence.....the more we use, the sharper it becomes.

COMPULSIVE COMMENTARIES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It is almost like a disorder with the people , low on self confidence, that they must comment on each and every thing and person !!!

They feel uncomfortable till they come out with comments......however stupid those comments may be ....they can't remain silent because, they think that their silence may be seen by others as ignorant !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PERSONALITY WITHOUT CONDITIONS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Our responses are depending on conditions......

Conditional responses become reactions ......they take away the opportunities to bring improvements in others !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MEN AND MULTIPLE , OH, YEAH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's possible ..........................

LOVE HAS NO CONDITIONS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Love means , love and there are no rooms for questions and conditions............ doesn't mean, that things are taken for granted !!!

WHEN DO FEEL , LIFE BORING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When we do not have  energy............. do something about it/rather every thing about it .....fuel the energy , that is the secret to avoid boredom !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

INTENTION , THE TORCH LIGHT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Intentions are the things that lead us in our lives .......... they are like the torch lights, which help us to move forward !!!

Hence, we need to be aware of the color of our intentions....awareness is important !!!!

THE MOST BEAUTIFUL PERSON IN THE WORLD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Must be the one :

Who is the most broad minded 

Who is the one with the best knowledge about life 

Who lives the life as an open book 

Who listens and respects others without conditions 

Whose presence makes others feel secure 

Whose presence sends out the ecstatic feelings of love 

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MUST EARN HAPPINESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Happiness doesn't happen, it has to be earned..........it can be earned, if only we desire it !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Persistence with positive route is the way to earn it !!!!!!!

MIND SPA !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We have 'spa', for every thing.............good business too !!!!!

Unfortunate , we don't have a spa for mind !!!!!!!!!!!!

May be , people think, it is a serious thing.......... am sure , that would be the funniest and useful , big thing next !!!!!!!!!!!!

EQUALITY IS ACHIEVED IF ONLY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We need to understand the differences, caused by biological differences, if we want to achieve the real equality !!!

Without understanding the root causes for natural / existing differences , no one can achieve a win-win situation, in any walks of life !!!!!!!!!!!!!

An unconditional / unbiased mindset is to be created within us !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

EGO IS A COMMON FACTOR !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Imagine, if we can think/do any thing without ego !!!!!!!!!

That's where we create the sure path to success and happiness !!

NON-VERBAL , BETTER OFTEN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When people refuse to listen to conversation, non-verbal can be used to bring better effect ........... one should master this, else, it will have unexpected results !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WONDERFUL WAYS , WE LOOK AT LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Old age is a problem for any one !!!!!!!!!!!

When, children's turn comes to look after and take care of their parents, children feel the burden !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! many feel, that they are doing a favor  and openly proclaim it !!!

The same children, often must have said, 'it is your duty to look after us, since you gave us the birth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  ''

BEING POSSESSIVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Insecurity is the reason for over-possessiveness............need to work on self esteem !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BEYOND HOLINESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Life is beyond holiness and holy books ............ there is a very higher level, one should go in mind !

People use other things as cover to be lazy and lead passive , easy life !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Responsible human beings take their lives to higher levels, so as to be helpful beyond their lives too !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PASSIVE LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many lead a passive life, in the name of spirituality  !!!

Spirituality can go along with normal life .... spirituality should not be an excuse from shedding responsibility !!!!!!!!!!!!!

NO CONTROL OVER LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Since you don't have any control over your life span, you should surrender yourselves to the powers...unknown !!!

You may surrender all that you have made during your life time for charity too....... and lead a simple life !!!

Good !!! 

The people who say this, are among the richest, powerful without any of their efforts and contributions... sheer exploitation of weak minds !!!!!!!!!!

IGNORING IGNORANCE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ignorant are ignorant about their ignorance .......... pardon them, if you want peace !!!!!!!!!!!

Even when these people know about their ignorance, they won't want to change it, change is a big NO , for them..... knowledge is scary.....they would think that, that would add more responsible living !!!!!!!!!!!!!

These people love leading stupid life....popping all over like butterflies and making stupid comments !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LETTING OTHERS KNOW !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People, low on confidence want to let others know their negligible success !!!

Confident people don't bother about recognition of their achievements by others ..... they look forward to do more !!!!!!!!!

ALL NEGATIVE WORDS GENERATE PRESSURE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Every negative word adds pressure to both the parties involved !!!................. take care !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hence, no one gets any benefit !!!!!!!!!!!!

NEED TO SCAN OUR MIND FOR NEGATIVE VIRUSES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We scan our computers and remove viruses, that block our systems !!!!!

Why don't we do the same with our minds !!!!!!!!!!!

If we do this , we can lead a fruitful happy life !!

Just bringing awareness is enough for this scan, thus inexpensive !!

NO NEED TO BE SHREWD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Some teach, to be shrewd........some parents tell their children to be shrewd........they think , this is a way to success !!!!!!!!!!!

No way !!!!!!!!!!!   short term, ok ........this will lead to disillusionment in the long run,,,,,,

NOT NECESSARY TO ANSWER ALL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It is not necessary to answer all questions.........no one knows every thing...........but, the so called spiritual teachers try to be an exception, cutting sorry figure !!!!!!!!!!!

They can't say, 'no', lest they lose business !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

INFERIORITY COMPLEX WILL DO MORE HARM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People with inferiority complex will do more harm than insincere people !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It would be very dangerous to rub on the wrong side of such people ........... they never forget being let down by others, even unintentional reference !!!!

IF, ASKED TO SURRENDER SELF !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Surrendering own self is the worst that one can do to own self esteem !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Imagine, surrendering in the name of spirituality !!!!!!!!!!!!

Being harmoniously among the human beings, keeping self identity is what can be called, 'win win' situation !!!!!!!!!!!!!

DON'T HANG ON TO ANY ONE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Free mind is what gives us the happiness ...... to be free , one needs to have the highest self esteem.......... this only will help any one to be independent !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hanging on to unknown, weird teaching and people, for emotional security is not the path to happiness !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Want to be happy, be self sufficient in all aspects ... of course, we can take guidance and help...but not submission !!!!!!!!!!!

WORLD OF PUBLICITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nothing works without publicity ......... definitely not the real stuff !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  There may be many , very useful sites, but doesn't reach the world !!!!!!!!!!!

Hence, even the so-called spiritual people go for the ultra modern advertisements !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

THE BEAUTY OF BEING , REAL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People create some fake images around them ....... this leads to dual personalities !!!!!!!!!!!

People with high confidence live without fake images, thus are not confused !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NEVER CRITICIZE MY FRIEND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People don't like their friends being criticized..........often people may accept criticism on themselves , but will be vengeful, if it is directed against people, who they depend for emotional security !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People , low on self confidence want some figures to boast about ................. these high rated figures are their emotional security !

EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People with low self esteem depend on others for emotional support ............................. millions submit themselves to unknown entities for this reason !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NOT BOTHERED ABOUT CONSEQUENCES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People just talk and do things without thinking about the consequences of their actions !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WHENEVER YOU FEEL LAZY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Whenever people feel lazy and don't want to work , they find this noble excuse, '' I am on a self realization trip "

This concept is being taught by whom ?

The ones, who accumulate wealth , doing nothing ..... exploiting others' weakness !!!

WANTING TO KNOW ,'' WHO AM I ?''

This is the best way to lead an easy life !

This is the stupidest thing , that some one has given to the lazy guys, who want to live like parasites !

Stupid things are what millions accept for convenience !!!!

SEEKING WITHOUT AN IDEA/NON-EXISTENT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Positive people seek improvements !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lazy people seek ' things which are non-existent' !!!!!!!!!!!! time pass !!!!!!!!!

SEEKERS OF .................................................................................

Easiest excuse in life is, using the phrase.'' i am seeking...something, something''.
The seekers know for sure one thing, this is an ongoing nonsense, and thus can lead a lazy life for ever and ever !!!

Good luck !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LIFE IS ,WAY BEYOND RELIGION AND COMMUNITIES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Human life is way beyond religion, communities and such limited things !
Only when we take it to much higher levels, we will feel fulfilled !!!!!!!!!!
Think beyond every thing that is limiting our activities !!!!!

SUBMISSION , WHEN WE ARE WEAK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Weak minds submit themselves to unknown, untested things !

Processing of mind, thoughts can't be done away with any time in life !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WELL, IT'S A GOOD IDEA TO HAVE INTERACTIONS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Interactions on different useful points about life is a good idea, thanks for suggestions from some of the users here !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NOT AWARE OF ALTERNATIVES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People do not update things...........live the same life over and over again...........not willing to improve on knowledge and finding progress !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Happy with the same easy route !!!!!!!!!!

WHO IS SCARED OF COMPETITION ????????????

People on low self esteem are the only ones, who are scared of competition !

People with high self esteem mind their own perfection.....not bothered to look sideways !

NEED LIFE COACHES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is a very busy and fast world with innumerable information !
It is difficult to tackle things in a calm and smooth ways !
This is why there is need for life coach for almost every one...............but, many life coaches themselves are incompetent !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ALLERGIC TO POSITIVE THINGS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sadists like negative things, they get easy and strong pleasure from giving pain to others !!!!!!!!!!!!

These people are thus allergic to positive attitude !!!!!!!!!!

WHEN HELP IS NOT HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Person of the same level can be helped...........

Help for a person, who feels low, will turn out to be an invitation for enmity .......... inferiority complex plays the villain role in this !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

RELATIONSHIPS CAN NEVER BE LIKE BEFORE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People are aware and bothered too much about individual needs and are selfish to the utmost...........this means, there won't be any solid relationships !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HONEST MIND THAT WORKS FOR US !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's not any tricks and methods that works for us.

It is the honest mind, a mind with complete positive attitude that works wonders in life for us !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FAME OVER FAMILY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Stupid people boast about their family connections, and forget to pass on the right values to their young generations, thus creating confusions in the family !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Education counts !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ACCEPTANCE OVER SUBSTANCE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People do things to get accepted rather than do things , which are of substance and useful !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LEARNING FOR THE DAY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People want to learn minimum things, just to live for the moment...........lazy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Learning to put knoledge in to use is very pleasurable thing !!!

TRUE PERSON !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

True person is the one , who can receive 'no', with courage and the one , who can say , 'no', with courage !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CONVENIENCE OVER HAPPINESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We live by convenience, easy ways !!!!!!!!!!!!

Happiness is sacrificed thus, for happiness we need to work....work, many won't like !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LIVING IN FOOLS' PARADISE, EASIER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It is much easier to be in fools' paradise, as a fool by self, than teaching the fools, 'how to be smart and intelligent. '

It is definitely, very painful to surrender own intelligence !!!!!

IT IS WISE TO BE A FOOL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What are our options , when we are to live among fools ?

1. Teach the fools ,how to raise their ability to think and improve ..........

2. Be a fool and enjoy the rest of  life , without hassles .................., easy , oh yeah !!!!!!!!!!!!! 

INTERNAL STRENGTH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Capabilities can be enhanced only through internal strength !!!

We focus more on the external !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

VALUES AT WRONG PLACE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If we place our values at wrong place, we won't feel happy !!!

We are too busy to prioritize things in orderly ways !!!

LAZIEST FOR USEFUL KNOWLEDGE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Very few look for useful knowledge............ majority are lazy about it , because, they think them to be nuisances !!!!

SOFTNESS/KINDHEARTEDNESS , SEEN AS WEAKNESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People, who are completely positive do not weigh soft / strong things .......... they just live and let others live happily !!!

This kind, smooth attitude is often mistaken as weakness, and ultra smartness of others, who are smart only because of the providers !!!!!!!!!!!!!

RIGHTS AND NO RESPONSIBILITIES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Not bothered about responsibilities, but yes, rights !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Rights at the wrong places!!!!!!!!!!!!

DON'T DIRECT OTHERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We have this habit of directing others, which is the worst put off !!!!!

Women , especially do this to men ..............men hate this !!!!!!

Those wanting good relationship have to avoid this !!!!!!!!!!!

CONSEQUENCES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People do not have the patience and intelligence to think about the consequences of their actions !!!!!!!!!!!!

If , consequences are weighed , of all our actions, we may be better of often !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

TRAGEDY OF HUMAN LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Not using the reasoning faculty  is the biggest tragedy of human life !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Living a life like animals, with the ability to talk is all that we do in general ........... maximum time is wasted on silly egoistic things !!!!!!!!!!!

TRUE COLOUR OF A PERSON !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Want to know the true color of a person,'watch the person, after denying some thing to that person !'

From polite to rude state of mind, one turns , after being denied !!!!!!

CORRECTION OF LANGUAGE , WE USE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The language we use in our daily lives , shapes our destiny !!!

If we want peace, happiness and prosperity , we need to correct our ways from negatives to complete positives !!!!!!!!!

WHEN LIFE IS ALL ABOUT USING OTHERS AND SELF MARKETING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lives are all about using others and selling self , for many !!!

RAISING LEVEL OF MIND, PREVENTS SEPARATION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If we want to avoid separations, we need to raise the level of our mind......................

Not using our head is the cause for divorce..... women, with high self esteem know how to prevent things !!!!!!!!!

MOTIVATION PROBLEM ??????????????????????

Self motivation is the biggest problem , people face !!!

Self education is the best way to self motivate !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

INSECURITY MAKES US VULNERABLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's the most difficult thing to predict the behavior of insecure people !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This feeling may lead to hurting own well-wishers too !!!

HAPPY STATE OF MIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For every thing, we need to put a solid foundation !

If we want to succeed , we need to have a 'happy state of mind', as the foundation !!!

WANTING TO BE HAPPY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Real desire is the mother of all inventions !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The real need to be happy is the mother of all roads to happiness !!!!!!!!!!!!

We need to open the path in the mind ............ rest will be taken care by our mind !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CLARITY ABOUT HAPPINESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If only we give the clear idea about 'happiness' to our mind, we can feel happy !!

Often , we are confused or do not know the concept of happiness !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FLEXIBILITY IN HABITS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Habits are rigid, programmed behavior !!!

Need of the time is flexibility............able to do things according to priorities and not according to 'what is learned.'

WANTING OTHERS TO FAIL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People , feeling inadequate , want others failure !!!

They can't think of their own progress and success !!!!

CERTAIN BIOLOGICAL CHANGE & INADEQUACY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Certain biological changes lead to the feeling of being inadequate !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This feeling leads to all negative emotions against the most beloved ones !!!

This is a tricky situation, where, one wants others to fail ..... thus will try to portray others as stupid !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

EGO. THE ROAD BLOCK TO PROGRESSIVE CHANGE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ego is the hindering factor .......................... it is the one thing that prevents us from making progress........... progress is mistaken as change and ego wouldn't allow it !!!

EQUALITY IS A STATE OF MIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Equality is a state of mind , which is to be achieved by training the mind..............no one else can make all equal..............all that we want has to be achieved in mind !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IF ONLY, WE THINK BEYOND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If only we think outside us and beyond selfish needs, we can have peace and prosperity......... in family, society , nation and the world !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

THE MOST DIFFICULT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Being completely positive for ever is the most difficult thing for the majority............ in fact , this is the easiest thing to do in life !

BIOLOGICAL DIFFERENCES MATTER ???/

Biological differences definitely lead to communication differences................. the styles of communication and their effect !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

GENDER RELATED ???????????????

At times , it seems that , listening is a problem more with a particular gender !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FARCE COMMUNICATION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We waste most of our lives in destructive/negative ways.......... unwanted communication is one such thing !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

GREAT V/S SMART !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Great people sell great dreams and they remain in history as greats................. their dreams too remain as dreams for ever!!!!

Smart people do not sell dreams, they realize the dreams in their life time !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BAD , DUE TO IGNORANCE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We all are born without any labels !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Labels become our part, due to ignorance !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IGNORANCE, THE ROOT CAUSE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ignorance is the root cause of all negative emotions and actions!

People take advantage of such situations to promotes themselves!

INDIVIDUALISM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The concept of 'family' is dying for sure !!!!!  Sad ............

The economic culture has created 'individualism'...bit selfish !!!!

WHEN GREED TAKES OVER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When greed takes over our thinking faculty, we lose sight and direction in life !!!

BE STRONG, OR BE EXPLOITED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's exploitation all the way !!!

Strong exploits the weak any where and every where !!!

Be strong or get ready to get exploited by others !!!!!!!!!!

High self esteem......................... the way away from such dirt !!

NOT KNOWING REAL PURPOSE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Not knowing the real purpose of own life is the reason for the confusions !!!!!!!!!

Set the purpose right to get the right way of life !!!!!!!

TAMPERING WITH OWN SELF !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Two opposite things can't go together, harmoniously !!!

When we keep negativity , we are keeping two opposite things....negative feelings and positive feelings ..... many positives are born with !!!

Unless and until we remove our negativity completely, we are tampering with own self !!.............. confusions all the way !!!!

WISE MEN SHARPEN THEIR TOOLS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When tools are sharp, efficiency is many fold !!!!

When we perfect our personality, we can function at our peak !!

EXPERTS IN HIDING THE REAL ONE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many are living with totally two different personalities !!!

These people are experts in hiding the real feelings !!!

But, in the long run, they will find a vacuum for all insincere living like this !!!!

COMPLICATIONS GIVE PLEASURE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many get a kick , when they complicate their lives !!!!

No wonder, the lives, instead of keeping simple, are complicated !!!!!..... some thing to complain about always and to have pleasure !!!

IT'S ALWAYS SIMPLE THINGS THAT MAKES DIFFERENCE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Every human being should know a bit of psychology, to be happy !!!

It's always the simplest things that matter but, many do not get impressed by simple things !!

People like complications in life .....the more complicated , the more valuable, that is the way things are for many !!!!!!!

ONE WORD LESS IS BETTER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People use unwanted words in communication !

Extra words bring extra emotions !

For better relations, one word less may be better !!!

CAN'T TEACH OWN PEOPLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The sad reality is that, no one can teach his own people.......... own peoples' ego is a road block to progress !!!

It's like , a  doctor can't operate on himself !!!!!!!!!!

FRUSTRATION , A PRODUCT OF MISS-COMMUNICATION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ineffective communication leads to frustration !!!!!!!!!!

When we face difficulty in communicating appropriately, we become frustrated...... may turn to silence  !! that too is a sort of frustration !!

Frustrations lead to depression !!!!

ZERO COMMUNICATION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Communication is the biggest problem, we face today !!!

Do not think that people are able to get across to others in real sense !

Proper communication in families can add to the peace, happiness and that can even extend the life span !!!

People die earlier, due to feeling low /depressed ........ caused by negative feelings, caused by wrong communications !!!!

SURVIVAL AND NOT LOVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For self survival, people may express their love !!!

'Love' is often, used as a weapon for getting what is wanted !!!

DENYING BENEFITS TO OTHERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There are many who, deny good things/benefits to others, since these are coming from others !!!

The ego of middle people, deny such good acts !!!!

MAKING THINGS HAPPEN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If we can horn our interest in any field, with positive energy, we can make any thing happen !!!

Smooth interest and 100% positiveness are the requisites !!!

GETTING WHAT WE WANT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Life is all about sales..........selling oneself...........this means , we need to be the product, what others want to hire !!!

So, try to be the best product available to others ....... educate self, invest in self !!!!

WASTING HUMAN LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Majority do the same thing over and over again .......... very small percentage of people try reading some thing to improve their mind, the human mind is a resource that cannot be wasted !!!

AVERSE TO KNOWLEDGE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many people are averse to knowledge,because,for them knowledge is scary ..........knowledge will make them work...work is burden !

DUAL PERSONALITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many are experts in projecting the sweetest side to outside world !

These people dupe others .... and that is where they find pleasure !!

The real one is unknown to outside world....the cruel side !!!

POSITIVELY CLEAR MIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

A very clear mind with positive energy take us to success....... this feeling of breakthrough happens , at highest level of mind.....any one can get it, with practice !!!

RESTRICTED LIVING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Majority don't bother to go into the universe .........they restrict their lives to their homes and neighbor hoods !!

These restricted living causes the ignorance and that leads to frictions and tensions !!!!!!!!!!!!!

''FORGIVE THE IGNORANCE'',MAKES SENSE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

All negatives and evils are due to ignorance.........nobody is bad as such...........all the negatives are the products of ignorance !

Hence, it makes sense to forgive those , for all their negative deeds !!! 

 Reactions create a chain of further negatives , hence the best option is to forgive, to give a chance for positives !!!

THE UNBELIEVABLE LAW OF MONEY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Money comes to us , when we don't work for it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When we chase money , it becomes difficult to reach it !!!!!!!!!!!

WHY ARE WE ANGRY ???

Why should any one be angry with others ?

We are angry because, we do not want to recognize the freedom of others to disagree !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HELPING OTHERS MAY TURN OUT TO BE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Help may turn out to be an invitation of animosity !

Help creates a sense of low feeling in the others and this will cause the animosity !!!!

ALLERGIC TO NEW WAYS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People are unwilling to new suggestions , they live in comfort zones !!!

It would sound almost like, they are allergic to new ways !!!

Such people do not have the patience to even listen to any new !!

URGE TO PROVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Every human being , with low self esteem, has this strong urge to prove some thing to others ............. waste of energy !!!!

BENEFIT ORIENTED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

All relationships lead to 'benefit oriented', what do we get from this sort !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No wonder, we have more separations than coming together !!!!

SELFISHNESS ALL THE WAY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

High self esteem is the only way to unselfishness !!!

Unfortunate that, no schools are teaching the realities of human lives !!!

Earning, eating, drinking and gossiping are not all that a human being can do in his/her life time...............................more can be done for the generations to come !!!

LOVE MARRIAGES, USING THE OTHER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's very, very rare to find the innocence , now a days , to claim to be in true love !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Without owning an innocent mindset, no one can love the other completely and in complete unison !!

This leads to the fear, that people are using others for their own varied reasons !!!

ARRANGED MARRIAGES, WAYS OF EXPLOITATION ?????

It seems so, the stronger family exploits the other , for their convenience..........................

FRUSTRATIONS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

They are all in the mind and not a reality !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

COMMUNICATION , THE SPICE OF XXX !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Those who master the real communication can take things to ecstasy , very easily ............. it is the spice of xxx life !!!

NOT NECESSARY TO HAVE OPINIONS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many poke their nose, in to every matter, the matters , which are not familiar with too !!!!

These people think, that it is compulsory to have opinions of their own, in all matters..........height of stupidity, and this stupidity leads to unnecessary problems !!!!

GOOD INTENTIONS ARE NOT ENOUGH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Good intentions without appropriate knowledge and means won't help any !!!

This is why we face the dilemma in life often !!!

STEPPING STONES TO SUCCESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many ' tries ' are stepping stones to success............

Heard people saying, 'many failures are stepping stones to success.'....

If so, then many sins may be stepping stones to heaven !!!!!!!!!!!!!

LEAVING OTHERS BEHIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People with better communication skills, evolve faster, leaving others behind ........... need to catch up ? , better learn !!!!

JUDGEMENT BEFORE THE BEGINNING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Even before the beginning of any conversation , people make judgement about the topic and the other person !!!

How do we get across to such people ?

WANT TO BE HAPPY, MASTER ...................

If we want to be happy, we need to master the art of communication............. the first step one should learn is,''how to give positive response to the speaker'' !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!,

NOT BETTER THAN ANIMALS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Human beings are no better communicators than animals !

Nobody knows the art of communication......we are good in, creating all sorts of problems and confusions while communicating !!!!! 

DIRECTING OTHERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Often, many have already decided the direction of their conversation with others and, want others to follow the line ..... or else , they close the conversation ... woh, what a way to converse with others !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NOT ALLOWING OTHERS TO TALK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Even before a conversation is started, the one who initiated,might have made up the mind, and thus, won't let the other to open his/her mouth...... communication is dead even before it is started !!!!!!!!!!!!!

IMPOSSIBLE TO COMMUNICATE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People , who just talk and withdraw are difficult to be communicated ...... these people talk their stupid mind out and shut themselves, not allowing others to respond !!!!!

POSITIVE THINKING, A HABIT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For, things to happen nice way, one has to develop a habit of positive thinking........... a real habit !!!

Thinking in bits and pieces, positively won't work !!!

THE REAL CONTROL OVER BODY AND MIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When we are able to take our body and mind to a standstill, and to direct them by the necessary energy , whenever we want, wherever necessary, we achieve the real control...........this ability will help us to be free of all illness and unhappy situations !!!

COMPULSIVE CRITICISM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People , low on confidence run around to find some thing to talk and criticize about others...............this way they find satisfaction, much to the irritation of others !!!!!!!!!!!!

RECEIVING HELP, OBLIGATION ?

It's very difficult for people to receive help with respect ..........

this causes internal conflict and damages self respect and leads to letting the helper down  !!!!

USING MORE OF OUR BRAIN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

''Even Einstein might have used only 3% of his brain'', that's what people say !

Imagine, some one could use more of it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's possible..........need to wait , that's going to happen !!!!!!!!!!!

FAKE WORLD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We are living in a world, where every one fakes about every thing................main reason for not finding happiness !!!

If only we come down to the real world !!!!!!!!!!!!

BREADTH OF KNOWLEDGE AS IMPORTANT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Breadth of knowledge is more important for progress and self satisfaction, which leads to happiness !!!

In depth knowledge help us to reach places !!

MIND AS LABORATORY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Positive people can use their mind as a laboratory / workshop !!

Negativity distracts normal minds.........the reason for lack of concentration !!!!!

INEQUALITY IS CONVENIENT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Not being equal is a convenient situation ....... convenient to dominate and exploit others ....................

so too, playing victim and living with excuses for ever !!!!!!!!!!!!

COMPETING WITH IMAGINARY PEOPLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People with inferiority complex are always in competition with some imagined contestants !!!

They feel that the entire world is leaving them behind !!!

CHANNELIZING POSITIVE ENERGY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Channelizing positive energy to the line of direction is necessary for achieving our vision...........can't have any glance to negativity in the side !!!!

MANY FAILURES BEFORE GREATNESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Achieving a goal is simple .......... can happen without any failure !!!

But , to be great, one has to go through so many failures !!!!!!!!!

NEVER FORGETTING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Negative people never forget their moments of loss of face .... those moments will come back to them often and disturb their peace !!

In the process, they will try to get even with others on every occasion !!!

SECONDARY MOTTO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Negative people have this hidden agenda behind their all good intentions , projected outside !!!

They mean opposite to what they say !!!!

NEVER RECOGNIZED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People with inferiority complex are never satisfied ! They feel that they are not recognized by others !!!

Hence, they are always on the run to prove some thing or the other to others !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

EGO LEADS TO INFERIORITY COMPLEX !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Inferiority complex is a product of ego.........ego-free people will never feel this complex !!!!!!!!!!!!

TAKING NEGATIVE POSITIONS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many people take negative position/mode , even before the others begin to communicate !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This leads to disconnect and disrespect !!!!

SURVIVAL AT ANY COST !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Survival is the biggest issue for those who have no skills ! 

This helplessness leads to any negative steps .............

HIGHLIGHTING NEGATIVES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many have this habit of highlighting the negatives of others, whenever they get an opportunity..............this becomes a bad pattern and behavior............imagine this happens in a relationship !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ANSWERS FOR ALL QUESTIONS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There are appropriate answers for all questions and doubts , we have............ we confront with such questions daily .

Answers/solutions are there, but we do not seek seriously !!!

VARIETY IS THE SPICE OF LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Differences in people , some times irritating, but are the spice of life ......................  we may not enjoy too much of spice, but a bit is good !!!

UN-EQUAL = EQUAL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No two human beings have the same talents and capabilities.......people have interests and talents in different fields and thus , any two are different and unequal !!!

This unequal situation is called equality.... every one has some talents, which other doesn't have ......thus , comparison to find out superiority is not possible !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

UNLIMITED IS THE CAPABILITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1111

Our body and mind have unlimited capabilities, provided we have the patience to develop it over, time !!!!

CREDIBILITY, THE MOST IMPORTANT ASPECT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Credibility is one quality, that takes us a long way in life !!

Credibility lost, is life lost !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

UNABLE TO FEEL EQUAL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When people feel low in confidence, they are unable to feel equal to others !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

EQUALITY AND LOVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Only people, who feel equal to others, can feel and receive the real love !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

INSECURITY AND EQUALITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People feel insecure , when they think of treating others as equals !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

EQUALITY AND LOVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Feeling equal and giving love are in direct proportion to each other ...............
Those who feel, that they are treated on equal footing, would be generous and confident in giving love !!!

BLIND FAITH IN SO=CALLED CULTURE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People follow some thing called culture , without using their own thinking faculty !!!
In some culture, discrimination begins with the birth of people !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!............. now, what ?
Following such cultural values...........values, ha.... isn't it a joke !!!

EQUALITY WITH SELF EDUCATION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Education is the prevention and cure for all unwanted ailments!

Self education only will help us to take ourselves at higher levels to break the barriers and live in equality !!!

NON-JUDGMENTAL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Judgments make all the difference to our process of thinking............ability to be non-judgmental help us a  long way !!!

DIFFERENCE IN THOUGHT PROCESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Difference in processing information is the real reason for the conflicts !!!

A THOUGHT A DAY KEEPS THE DOCTORS AWAY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

New, fresh and positive thought a day keeps our worries away !!!

When we are able to keep our worries away, we are in a position to keep ourselves away from doctors.......the root cause of almost all illness is stress !!!!

A NEW THOUGHT A DAY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Our days would be fantastic, if we can have a new thought every new day !!!

EQUALITY BEGINS AT HOME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The concept of equality must begin at home ......... then neighborhood ,then community, society, nation and the whole world............ it cannot begin some where and end some where... this has to be an organised/continous process !!!

MIND CAN TAKE US TO ANY WHERE , POSITIVELY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

A positive mind has it's unbelievable ways to take us to the right places........... people may call it telepathy or intuition or some thing else............ in fact this power is beyond all that !!!

WRONG INTERPRETATIONS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

From what we read, see or hear , we may be picking up the wrong side of the subject !!!

Negative people see , only the negative side .... coin has two sides !!!

NEGATIVELY PEOPLE ORIENTED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Human beings are people oriented by nature but, unfortunately in a negative way !!!

This negative disposition is what we need to convert in to positive way !!!

CHANGING THOUGHTS, BUT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People have innumerable ideas and thoughts........... but, they keep on jumping from one to another !!!

The changing ideas, is a process by which they avoid acting upon things........... end result is , no change from original position !!!,

IMMATURITY COSTS US,' BIG WAY' !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Immaturity is the one major road block to progress ...... it costs us big way !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Success depends on our maturity level, at which we approach our lives !!

HOW TO LIVE ? !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is some thing , that is not ever taught in schools and that is a major concern, especially when children are exposed to all and sundry at immature age !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OPERATING FROM OUTSIDE BODY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

At highest level, one will be able to live his life , leaving the body away from the mind !!!
Working from outside of one's own image , is wonderful !!! 

NEGATIVE SEARCH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People , low on confidence, are always searching for the negative sides of others !!!

Such people want to pin point the weaknesses of others and highlight them ....... this way, they feel themselves to be better than others !!!!!!!!!!!!!

PLANET IS CREATED BY ALL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

All that good things we see are the creations by all and not by any one particular person!!!!!

Humanity is a team work and hence , we should know how to be a team man , rather than a boaster !!!!!!!!!!!!

TEAM WINS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's a team that wins a game and not an individual !!!!

Non-confident person may think, that the one who scores goal wins a game, and do not give importance to the role of others, who facilitate the goal scoring opportunity !!!

DOING FOR FAME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People , low on confidence do any thing, but, only for fame and not wanting to do !!!!

COMPETING WITH ''GHOST'' !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Non-confident people are restless to prove some thing to others and self !!
They have this urge to prove that they are better than others !!!

This strong urge to prove, leads them to be in competition always............ they assume some one is in competition with them....... they have an assumed person/ghost , who follows them !!!!!!

AVOIDABLE PRESSURE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Most of the people , most of the time get the pressure at home !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Pressure at homes are avoidable by living with awareness !!!