A SMALL BIT , EVERY DAY !!!!!!!!!!!

If only, we are sincere to bring that small bit of improvement in our mind, about our fellow human beings , we can start thinking of equality !!!

Proper understanding of the gender behavior , brings such a joy that we would love to live longer !!!!

COMPLEX MIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We are complex by nature........victims of ambiance ........but with a little awareness and willingness , we can change that into simplicity !!!

Simplicity allows free flow and processing of information, which will help to feel an equal fellow person of the humanity !!!! 

TREATING WITH DUE RESPECT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Respect is the key in any relationship !

We would achieve perfection , almost, when we reach the mental level, where we would be able to give respect to others , regardless of the gender, color and age differences !!!!!!!!!!!!!

WHEN WILL THAT HAPPEN, EQUALITY ??????

When are we going to see the real equality all over the world ?

The earlier the better would be !

Teaching self esteem to all is the only hope, we have !!!

BORN UNEQUAL, MAY BE, BUT LIVE EQUAL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People may think that there are inequalities , when we were all born ..............may be , at least for the sake !!!!!!!!!!!!!

But, the biggest challenge and thrill are in finding the way to live on equal terms.....................possible, if we train ourselves !!!!

THANK U '' !!!!!!!

Thank u soooo much for the continued support and encouragement .......... may not be appropriate to communicate through blogs, like in the case of emails !

But, any ways, such things are inspiring and encourage to brainstorm..................end of the day, that is what we want in public domain...........things that are useful to many , if not all !!!

TRUE, ACHIEVING EQUALITY IN REAL SENSE !!!!!!

Achieving equality between men and women may take many more centuries !!!

Many talk about 'equality', they boast about their countries having this concept, but in reality , it is not happening !!!!

Many may dispute, but then facts are for disputes !!!!!!!

TRUE, ACHIEVING EQUALITY IN REAL SENSE !!!!!!

Achieving equality between men and women may take many more centuries !!!

Many talk about 'equality', they boast about their countries having this concept, but in reality , it is not happening !!!!

Many may dispute, but then facts are for disputes !!!!!!!

NO NEED TO BE PERFECT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We all shall try to improve and progress..........it's a long journey !!

There are many people , who try to make their spouse perfect ...correcting all the time ............happens more with women , who try to correct their partner !!!

We being human beings , imperfection is part of life......may excuse and accept !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CORRECTING , PARTNER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There are many , who have this urge to correct their partners !

They do such things , even in the presence of others !!!

This is a major cause for crisis in relationships !!!!

This creates the feeling of some inadequacy and inferiority complex , in the partner, who is subjected to corrections !!!!!!!!!

DOING THINGS TOGETHER BREAKS THE ' ICE ' !!!!!!!!!!

When we do things together for fun, we break the 'ice' in relationships !

Frequent such things will help cement the relationships, however bad it may seem...........sure to happen for the best !!!!

MAGIC OF GETTING TOGETHER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Frequent getting together , with fun situations work wonders to avoid negatives creeping into social relationships .

Community harmony has to be the order of the day , for creating happy environments ............. environments for the young generations !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FEELING THE NEED TO COVER UP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There are many , who doubt their partner's ability ! In such cases, they think that their partners are to be covered up !!!

This insecurity leads to complications in relationships ...every time partner opens up , the other develop cold feet !!!

UNKNOWN TO NEW RESPONSE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People with low self esteem do not want to change themselves, for better !!!

Change will bring in new situations and new personalities !!

People are worried about , how others will respond to the new personalities and hence , are not comfortable to change !!!!

JUST USING OTHERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There are many , who use others ........... they do not like to have any relationship............they get a kick by doing so !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

These people do not think that they will end up in an empty world of can and will have to live the rest of life 

GREEDY HAVE NO LOYALTY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Greedy people have no loyalty.  They keep on changing goals and hence they keep on changing people , for their benefit !

They do not have any permanent relationships. They are happy to change people so as to use them to the utmost !!!!

The best qualities required of a human being are missing from such people !!!!!!

BEAUTY OF LIFE IS , MASTERING THE ARTICULATION OF MIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Getting to the mastery and articulating our mind according to our choice is really beautiful............nothing can match the pleasure that we get from this !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Need a lot of consistent positive practice and awareness !!!

RIGHT TONIC AT RIGHT TIME FOR HUSBANDS !!!!

Right word for right communication is the right tonic for husbands , besides right food and spicy  xxx  !!!!!!!!!!!!

Intelligent usage of the above ingredients make relationship stronger !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LEARNED TO WALK AFTER MANY FALLS BU, NOT AGAIN ??????????????????

We all learned to walk , after soooooo many falls  !!

But, after we became conscious and ego took over, we are afraid 

to get up and walk again ............ funny way of growing up !!!

SMART WIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Smart wife is the one , who highlights the positives of her husband !
Smart is the one , who criticize her husband less ....giving enough time to herself to patiently , positively bringing positive changes where change is necessary   !!

SMART PARENTS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Smart parents will pay/give attention to the right things of their children.

Right attention at the right time will enhance the confidence of children !!!

Attention denied, will lead to seeking it in any ways ..........may be the weird way !!!!

LIVING BY ,'' WHAT WE GET ''. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wonder why people often side with 'the wrong ones' ?

People, by nature, want to survive......and some at any cost !!!!!!!

This desire to survive, takes away the logical mind and people 

go by 'what they get'.

For survival , getting some thing always is necessary.........do not

be shocked when extreme cases happens this way !!!!!!!!!

ABILITY OVERSHADOWED BY PURPOSE !!!!!!!!!!!!

However able  one may be, end  of the day the purpose is what matters the most !!!

If our purpose is not dignified and specified, all our efforts go waste and this leads to disappointments !!

Must have a check on ' purposes ' !!!

TRUSTING MINDS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It is important to trust our mind, so too, we should give a chance to others' mind too.

Other people too have their own mind and we should recognize that they too can think for themselves !!!

Some people take it for granted that others are unable to think for themselves and try to dominate/fool others !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

In reality , the ones trying to fool others become fools !

DEFYING RULES AND ETHICS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Extreme defiance of rule and ethics are simple signs of extreme selfishness and greediness .

Such people do not think about others' existence !!!

If we want to make good progress , we need to be good listeners and should always have 'control check' about the best values of life !!!!!!!!!!!!

SELF DENIAL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Selfish and greedy are always in denial mode..........the greed and selfishness make them blind and deaf to the realities.

All that they know is that their goals to be achieved........such sharpened focus do not allow them to analyse things and think about the consequences........they cut themselves off !!!!!

ABLE BUT, GREEDY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People with great ability spoil themselves by being greedy through out their lives !

They misuse their inborn abilities for short term goals.......without bothering about the means by which they are achieved.

Short term goals are fine, but the means have to be pure and worthy !!!!!!!!!!

LEAST BOTHERED ABOUT SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Greedy have no time to think about social responsibilities........they focus only on what they can achieve and how fast !
Methods of achieving things are not important........only goals are important !!!

But, then more and more are becoming greedy and that's the whole problem , we are facing today !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

INSTANT STRATEGIST !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Greedy are quick in forming strategies.........their mind work with lightning speed !

Their mind work overtime and hence they are very sharp........they know , they have to catch their prey instantly, should not give enough time for the prey to change mind !!!

CHEATING AN ACCEPTED NORM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For greedy, cheating is a respectful, accepted norm. They get a kick, whenever they achieve this way !!!

They take things to the extreme ends...........thus inviting unrepairable situations !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Things take shape to the extent they look unfit to think !!!!

LESS AND LESS EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Too much of academic competition lead the young to be more like robots and this leads them to be less emotionally intelligent !!!!

MIND CAN BE POWERED,

It seems possible to activate extra mental powers by appropriate exercises............hope some one can highlight on it !

Some exercises have direct effect on mind ...........a good research is worth !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

USING OTHERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Greedy use other peoples' innocence and reputation to their advantage !!!
They develop social intelligence to their advantage the most.

They have no intention of having long term relationship with any one !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

GREEDY , FOCUS ON NEW PREY !!!!!!!!

Greedy are on the look out for new and new preys !

They have a scheme all the way...........never get tired because , they focus on the quick pleasure they get, from their weird acts !

INTEGRITY IS NOT AN ISSUE FOR GREEDY !!!!!!!!!!!

Greedy are focused on goals...they are the least bothered about the integrity.
For them, the search is not satisfaction....it is , how much they score in life !
By the time they become aware of their folly, they usually are very late to rectify !!!

SILENT SUFFERINGS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People with low self esteem silently accept sufferings..........thus 
bringing a feeling of low.

They do not look for solutions , do not focus on solutions..instead they stay with the problems !!!!!!!!!!!

NOT IN TOUCH WITH REALITIES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many live their lives, without knowing where it is going.

These people are not in touch with realities !

Realities, they hate because of low self esteem !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MEANS NOT IMPORTANT FOR GREEDY !!!!!!!!!

Achieving goals at any cost is the most important thing for the greedy !!!

They are the least bothered about the ways (means), by which they achieve goals !

They are the least bothered about the moral values or principles......achievement is the only focus !!!

CLOSED MIND IS A SIGN OF WEAKNESS !!!!!!!

Closing mind, some thing is a show of strength.  In reality, it is the first sign of weakness !!!

Weakness, because, closing allows a person to be indifferent so that no effort is needed to understand the right perspective !!!!

STRONG MIND HAS BALANCE !!!!!!!!!

Balance is the main characteristic of strong mind.

Strong mind will be very open and always processing 

information logically !!!

Obstinacy should not be confused with Strong mind...it is exactly

opposite !!!

WHY WE NEED TO BE MENTALLY STRONG ???

We have this continuous evolution happening, even when we are  not aware of it !

Evolution is necessary for the survival and the fittest survive !

With the passage of time, our evolution takes different roots and the time has come , perhaps that people are doing a sort of mental wars to survive.........could be some sort of mental laser wars, every one is involved !!!

Unless we program our mental computer with the proper waves(soft ware ) survival could be pathetic !!!

Be programmed always with updates !!!

GREEDY HAVE SHORT TERM GOALS !!!!!!!!!!!!

Greedy have no patience and hence , they set short term goals.

They want to achieve things fast and immediately....... they get 

the pleasure from such things.........thus spoiling in the long run !

GREED GOES DEEP-ROOTED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Once greed comes in to our system , it takes the deep root !!!!

It becomes very difficult  to identify and remove it .

Greed creates an addiction within and it persuades a person

to do things blindly !!!

BEWARE, OTHERS CLOSE OUR MIND & WE LIVE WITH IT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If we don't bring awareness in to our mind, we may be living with our mind, closed and programmed by others !!

This leads to a sort of us living others' lives.......would we like it that way ?

WHEN '' GREED '' IS OUR GUIDING LIGHT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Often, greed take us over.........it becomes the guiding light for us.......our actions are guided by this !!!!!!!!!!

Here is the biggest danger.........we become slaves to our own greed...this make us blind and deaf.

We do not want to listen to the best of all advices, we do not see any logic in any thing !

BLOCKING OUR OWN CAPABILITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Our obstinacy blocks all our progress !

Human body and mind can expand the capacity like any thing.....unfortunately, we are not willing to do that and thus unhappy !!

To make things happen, we need to broad-band our mind and this need great effort and patience, which are uncommon !!

BEING LONELY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11

The higher we take our mind , the lonelier we may feel !

But, at the highest level, we can feel comfortable with our 

own company !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many do not want to climb the layers for fear of loneliness !!!

But, it is worth growing up and up !!!

JUST BEING LAZY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lazy !, yes, people are lazy and that is the main reason for all the negatives.

Laziness is the reason for , 'unwillingness to listen' to others !!!

Imagine, how much we miss out , not being a good listener ,..................listening does not mean, agreeing or saying yes to every thing !!!

There is a joke, '' some are so lazy that they would like to marry a pregnant woman  !!! ''

If we come out of this mode, we will really be able to see the light of the world !

CLIPPING THOUGHT WAVES !!!!!!!!!!!

People with low self esteem do not allow their thought waves to fly...........they clip them for fear of insecurity !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Clipping do not allow us to grow mentally...this is the reason for not growing accordingly.

Staying, where we are .......stagnation is of no use, if we want to be happy !

NOT LEAVING TO CIRCUMSTANCES !!!!!!!

We have a habit to leave things to circumstances...........this leads to us becoming slaves to circumstances !!!

We blame circumstances for failure, if any and take credit for ourselves for success , if any !!!

High self esteem help us to master circumstances !!!!!!!!!

ONE THING AT A TIME !!!!!

It is important to train our mind to pick one thing and work on it , without getting interfered by other thoughts.......it is difficult though !

Even the easiest / most pleasured thing , we won't be able to do with real impact, unless we do so..........even the most pleasurable thing, i repeat !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

REPENTANCE MAY BE TOO LATE !!!!!!

It would be foolish to commit mistakes even when it is obvious, only because  we don't want to surrender our ego/false prestige .
This leads to only one option, ie . repent when the time comes !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Prevention is always better !!!

FOOLING SELF !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When we are at our low self esteem , we try to fool ourselves by 

behaving in ways, what we are not !!!

We try to hide behind so many masks.........we try to convince 

ourselves , which we are not !

These playing games and running away ruins us !!!

WHEN SUCCESS BECOMES '' A BURDEN '' !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There are many , who are unable to handle success.........small

success goes into their head, and it becomes a burden...........

these people feel the weight of it so heavy, that they become 

vulnerable to each and every thing.

This vulnerability leads to disaster.......... and take them to 

rock bottom !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OTHERS ARE NON-EXISTENT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many have this attitude towards others, as if others are totally

non existing !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

These people don't want to recognise the importance of others !

They think , others have to do every thing for them and 

they have a birth right for the benefits !!!

WORLD IS BIG ENOUGH TO BE HAPPY FOR EVERY ONE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Those who have a good vision can see a whole large world !

The world is so big that , we do not need to cut others for 

our success !

There are enough grounds , where we can play enough to win ,

Without defeating or hurting any one !

Let us be on the look out for the vast world !!!

WITHOUT ETHICS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Making money without ethics is not success................it amounts

to cheating !!!

There are many who do things with short term goals...........

short term goals are fine , but achieving them without 

following ethics is not at all fine !!

Some confuse this with smartness !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

DIPLOMACY HELPS TO BUY TIME TO HEAL !!!!!

Patient diplomacy helps to bridge the relationship.

Engaging is better than confrontations !

A lot of patience and sincere efforts are necessary, rather 

than sophistication !!!!