MIND TO MIND POWER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When pure minds look for positive things, the mind that has some useful information, automatically reaches the inquisitive minds !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That much is for the powers of minds, which travels in the same ,pure directions  !!!!

Sincere appreciations help mind to explore new areas of worthy knowledge......................thank you all for true appreciations !

Hope , the mind will come out with newer and more useful information !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SELF CREATED ISSUES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Most of the issues that we face in life are the self creations...........we create them by adding negative color , while processing information !!!!!!!!!!!

Prejudgments create biased analysis of information and people, thus leading to issues for ever !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

DIVERTING MIND WON'T HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Diverting mind, from issues won't help us in any way 1

Very short period, it may be okey, but if we want to feel good , we must address the issue positively !!!

WINNING IS NOT NECESSARY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We have made this world so competitive that every one wants to win every time !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This competitiveness brings stress into every one every minute !

Participating and cooperating are the most important things !

Living life according to our own values give more  pleasure than winning in any thing !!!!

HARD WORK & INTEREST !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When we put in hard work, we slowly develop interest in the job, we do............................exactly like we develop sincere love in arranged marriage ............love after marriage !!!

Like interest after hard work !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

AVOIDING THINGS DUE TO FEAR !!!!!!!!!

Fear causes avoidance, avoidance of good things even !!!

Patient analysis with positive mind only can help...........but the fear of being positive is the biggest mental block for the negative people !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Negativity is for selfish reasons !!!

IMPROVEMENT BLOCKED BY FEAR OF CHANGE !!!!!

Due to fear of change, people do not make improvements !

Improvement in life is mistaken for change and change is scary for many !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ESCAPISM , THE COMMON PROBLEM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Escapism is very common, among any people of any age, for any different reasons !!!

When people feel , responsibility is a burden, they use the escape route ................. they find apt excuses to be away from responsibilities !!!!!!!!!!!

COMPLETELY AWAY FROM NEGATIVES !!!!!!!!!

It sounds easy, but not !!!

If only we are completely away/free from negatives , we can expect to do, whatever we want to the expectations !!!!!!!

''A GOOD HEART '', IS A MINIMUM REQUIREMENT !!!!!!!!

In this world of abundance, we miss abundance of happiness !!!!!!
We miss happiness, because we are not in touch with our heart as much as we are supposed to be !

Our head work overtime to grab things and that much time is not available for our hearts !!!!

Like good coffee beans make good  coffee, good hearts make happy people !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

THANK YOU ONCE AGAIN ......................

Thank you all for the encouraging feed back.........will continue good effort to make this site more informative !!!!!!!!!!!!!

THANK YOU ONCE AGAIN ......................

Thank you all for the encouraging feed back.........will continue good effort to make this site more informative !!!!!!!!!!!!!

WANT TO BE PLEASING /PLEASANT ????

If we want to have a pleasant life , we should be completely positive,non-judgemental and self accepting ..........and looking for internal growth !!!!!!

SHIFTING BLAME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Shifting blame on others means, not accepting self !!!!!!!!!!!!

This will not help us to be comfortable and happy ever , because, guilty feeling will bother any one for ever !!!

Accepting and owning responsibility is the only way to release oneself from this .............this will have immediate happy result !!

WHEN WE TRY TO FOOL OTHERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When we think we are smart, it is okey , to certain extent !!

But, when we think others are fools, or when we try to make others stupid, we only are becoming fools.

We miss opportunities of the talents of the people , who we try to make fools !!!!

REAL COMPANIONSHIP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Real companionship is real motivation............but should know how to maintain, and grow in it !!!!!!

If only growth happens inside, the companionship flourish !!!

Growth is the most important thing in life  !!!!

GROWING UP IS SCARY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111

For some people , growing up is scary because growing up means , responsible living  !!!!

Lazy ones do not want to take up responsibilities and so they opt out of it.............. they want to live like kids , wonderful way of living...........

They develop special skills to slip out of it !!!!

CHARITY ''WONDERFUL'' .NOT AT HOME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

A man who made '' old age homes '' and got a lot of appreciation and fame, had his own mother inside one of his such homes !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
New age , '' charity begins NOT at home ''!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Kudos to the people, who exposed the great child !!!     

LIVING IN CONFUSION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When it becomes a habit of saying excuses for every thing, the excuses contradict between them.............these contradictions create confusions all the way in life.

Many have a policy of living with excuses, rather than helping themselves ............ willingness and open mind to discuss with experienced, only is the way out of such situations !!!

People who, care matters and not the ones who act as,' well wishers and the know all' !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LAZY LIVING.... A CAUSE FOR FEELING LOW !!!!!

We feel low, but don't know the reasons !!!

Those who lead active , responsible life do not feel low/depressed !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Laziness cause feeling low.............

ANNOYING WAYS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There are people , who want to bring their stamp and authority in every conversation, taking away the conversation, much to the annoyance of others !

These people take the conversation points away from others, to suit their intention of being knowledgeable , much to the annoyance of the original participants !!!!!!

WHO AM I ? ,SEARCH..LAME EXCUSE !!!!!!!!!

It has become a fag that , many are searching for themselves !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There is no other better way to escape from leading an active life !

Those who want to lead a lazy, passive life come out with the noble idea of , wanting to know who they are !!!!!!!

These people do not want to bring a bit of awareness into their lives !!!.............. awareness will lead to work, which they do not want to do.

It is easy to have a cover by acting and thinking weird so that they can escape responsibilities !!!!

NOTHING LIKE SELF EDUCATION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Self education is the best motivation in life !!!

When we stop educating self, thinking that we had had enough in schools, we start deteriorating in mind ..............mind should be refreshed on an ongoing basis , without much vacuum !!!!

Lethargic mind brings lethargic life style !!!!

BASIC DECENCY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Giving time , just a minute , may be, is a basic decency, every one should follow, however busy, one may be !!!

Avoiding people, saying that one is busy is not an ideal way of living in this world of communication and equality !!!!

IT'S YOUR POINT OF VIEW AND IT'S MY POINT OF VIEW !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many people use this, new technique to cut the conversation !!!!

People with little / half knowledge about a particular topic, cuts the other person, saying, ''it's your point of view and it's my point of view. ''

Thus they leave discussions, without losing face, because, for such people , every discussion is an argument and they have to win every argument !!!!!!

LOW LEVEL OF MIND AND ABUSE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People at low level of mind has this tendency to abuse those who , they seem to be at higher levels and won't be able to catch up!!!

This way they vent their frustrations !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LOWERING GOALS IS EASIER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lazy people want to compete with others to prove that they are not lazy !!!!

When they know that , it is not easy, they try to bring others down............this way , their goals become easier !!

SUCCESSFUL PARENTS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When children feel, that their parents are successful, they may have a tendency to follow them as their role models .

But, when children feel that they cannot be as successful as their parents, they may feel a bit uncomfortable.

This leads to  internal conflicts !

It is normal for human beings to think negatively, and try to bring their own role models, so as to feel comfortable............they try to underplay the success subconsciously.

Bringing down others, will help to feel, a sense of achievement ...............................easiest way of bettering others feet!

When self achievements seem to be difficult, people take the other route to feel comfortable ...............by bringing others down !!

There is no need for such competition.......cooperation is the way to achieve !

SINGLE POINT AGENDA !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Often , many live with one point desire , which lead to single point agenda in the mind !!!

When the life is based on single point program , people become blind to other things in the world !!!!!!!!!!!

This leads to unhappiness and frustrations......................

NOT GOOD ENOUGH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

''Not good enough'',is ,one word, we may use often  !!!

This doesn't help any one to feel better because, it does stop us from making another try in life !

Repeated usage of this , would form a sort of escape route from the need to work.....................leads to laziness !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BREAKING VALUES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Breaking values is one of the worst terrible thing , one can do in life...........because , it bothers the person for long time !!!!!!!!!!!

FEELING TERRIBLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When we feel that , we are not in the flow...........not part of the world around us, we feel terrible !

We need to update and be aware of whatever about the world around us, to take us forward , feeling great !!!!!

TOTAL EQUALITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Total equality may send those , who enjoy privileges into depression................because, they will lose those control over the unequal !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many young men already go through this low feelings due to the new age thinking of women !!

FAST EVOLUTION OF WOMEN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Women evolved much faster than men , in the last many decades   !!!

This has caused many difficulties for the men , who are not confident  ............... difficulties in adjusting with the new women !!!

Men need to work on their self esteem to cope up with this and feel happy.......... equality is happiness, provided all have the high self esteem ........... or else , uncomfortable !!!!!!

EQUALITY TAKES AWAY THE IMPORTANCE !!!!!!

Men would not like the concept of equality because, it takes away their importance in relationships !

They would like to hold on to their importance for selfish reasons !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HURDLE TO EQUALITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Inferiority complex is the biggest blocking factor to treating others as equal !!!

We lose our importance, when we see others as equal.........need a lot of self confidence to treat others on equal footing !!!!!!!!

JUST FLOATING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Passive life is like a leave floating in the sea !!!

The leave doesn't know the destination.........

Life without direction and purpose does not give any satisfaction !!!!

NOT PART OF THE SOCIETY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We often live as if we are not part of the society, world !

This definitely is not what expected of being , human beings !!!

A sense of belonging and responsibility is to be attached to our living............this only will make our lives wholesome !!!!

EDUCATORS, .'''.NOT SELF EDUCATED ''' !!!!!!!!!!!

Shocking reality is that , many expected 'educators' have very closed minds and do not seem to be well educated !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Imagine the plight of the pupils under them !!!!!!

BEING ANXIOUS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anxiety does not take us any where ! Rather that makes us immobile !!!
Moving on with simple steps is the way to get out of this situation !!!!

ABILITY TO ADAPT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The world is fast changing !

If we want to survive happily , we have to have the ability to adapt quickly , without being irritated !!!

Maximum awareness is the only way to achieve this !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SMART LEARNING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Learning from others' mistakes is smarter than waiting to learn from one's own mistakes................this way , one can avoid committing mistakes !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

ON THE LEARNING PATH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Non-stop learning process is the key to keep moving in life, with smoothness.................this helps us to update and adjust and move forward with pleasure  !!!!!!

UNABLE TO LOVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If we do not love ourselves, we won't be able to love others.

We have to be comfortable within first, if we want to love others !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

UNWILLING TO FIT INTO THE REAL WORLD !!!!!!!!!!

Many are unwilling to accept realities and hence are unwilling to fit into the real world .

These people turn their back to the world and are adamant .

This is convenient, because , they can remain lazy through out their life !!!!!!

GOSSIP, THE ONLY '' FOOD '' !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many in the world are just living on, '' gossip '', the only feed they give it to their mind !!!

It is so sad that these people do not read any materials, nor have any feel for even the slightest improvement of their mind..........just keep on with gossip, some times damaging way   !!

PREVENTING NEGATIVES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Preventing negatives entering into our mind is the most important thing that ,we need to do in life !

Negatives , however small, are more powerful than the positives and, they take away the focus from what we have to do  !!!!!

UNHAPPY ???????????????????

We feel unhappy often , why ?

Because, we do not update our thinking process !

Ability to think is the only one that makes us happy, but when we do not update that ability , the processing become cloudy ...........leads to unhappiness !!!!!

ULTIMATE HUMANITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We achieve the ultimate humanity , only when we can see things, people without any bias !!!

Raising mind to that level is the need of the hour and is the responsibility of all , regardless of the place , gender and age !!!

DOING A BIT TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Drops of water make river ........... a drop by a small person is a big contribution towards that making !!!!!!!!!!!

Wish all small people try to add one ' drop ', which can make a huge difference !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It  is easy to do so sitting home , in this world of communication age !!!

WOMEN'S EQUALITY RIGHTS' DAY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We have , 'women's day', 'liberation day etc. ...have not achieved as much as expected !!!

Should have a specific ' goal '.............''complete equality''!

May try to organize a special equality day and frequent events ..... very regularly without breaking the chain !!!! 

EQUALITY IS NOT CONVENIENT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When others are equal to us, we lose our importance !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We won't be in a position to dominate others, if we treat them on equal footing !!!

So, it is in self interest that people do not want to see others equal !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!