BEING NATURAL IS THE MOST IMPRESSIVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There is a strong urge in every one to impress others on each and every occasion !

Why should we try and work hard for this ............ yes , we need to improve our skills , manners etc.

Beyond all these , we need to be sincere !!

When we incorporate ' good qualities ', naturally, that becomes

the most impressive, rather than being insincerely sophisticated !!!

HAPPY FRAME OF MIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We are programmed to be happy.............happiness has different meaning for different people !!!!

Cheerful mind set is the one that has to be attached to the real happiness and this cheerful mind set is the one that makes us the most constructive, positive way !!

Be  cheerful     !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PERSONALISING EVERY THING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many people personalise every thing they hear and see !!!

Personalising things lead to judgements !

Judgements are the coloured meanings !

These colours and spices lead to sensitivity !!

Sensitivity leads to strong reactions !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PLAYING, SMALL BABY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Some people do not want to grow up..............they find baby hood very convenient, doesn't matter it is irritating for the beloved ones and well wishers !!!!

Growing up is responsible living.............scary for selfish !!!

NOT WORTH ..............SACRIFICES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Sacrifices are not worth.................

No one understands what and why or who have done it ..........

the real sacrificer doesn't announce it  and the selfish people 

won't realise  it ,  even if they realise , they won't appreciate it !!!

Sacrifice for the entire universe is fine, not for an individual !!!!!  

PATTERN TO PROVE AND IMPRESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People with inferiority complex has this pattern behaviour to prove things to others............

their only goal is to impress others and not doing things with self satisfaction.....

they get irritated when others don't pay attention and this leads them to irritate others..............thus they get some attention!!!!!!!! 

PROBLEM WITH READING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many points of discussion may look the same and repeat, till they are read in relation to the right context !!

Minute analysis is necessary to get the grasp of topics , we read !

Today's education doesn't test the reasoning powers and logistics of students, and thus many end up with qualifications and without competence !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Blogs may look similar , but the inside meanings are different !!!  

INFERIORITY AND EXCUSES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Excuses are the products of inferiority complex.

People with inferiority complex , never admit their falls !!!

Working on self esteem is the only way to get out of this mess !! 

URGE TO PROVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People with inferiority complex has this urge to prove some thing to others .

This strong urge to prove , takes away the focus from the work /conversation etc. takes away the focus and thus become inefficient.................. opposite happens to the very intention !!!

This inefficiency causes inferiority again ....... vicious circle !

GREAT , WHEN WE ARE IGNORANT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ignorance is not a bliss, but ..................

We feel always alright about every convenient thing, when we are ignorant !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

May be for this reason, many do not want to remove ignorance............want to live with ignorance due to the great feeling it brings !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

" HOBBIES " ALL THE WAY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If hobbies bring joy and satisfaction, why can't we take every thing that we do as hobbies ?

Great/successful people do it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  For them , work is hobby and they can't think of keeping away from it !!!!!!!!!!

PROBLEM EITHER WAY , HELP OR NOT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If you help a person, that person becomes a bit uncomfortable !

If you don't help , then too it is a problem...........

either way, there is a problem..............this happens due to lack

of self esteem on the part of the one who asked/received help,

in particular ............

WHEN WE HELP OTHERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When we help others, very often, we are creating people of who feel obliged !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This happens when people are not at high level of self esteem.

This obligatory feeling generates feeling of uncomfortable..........

So, it is essential to create a feeling of trust and confidence in the receivers of health so as to make the situation good !!!!!!!!!!!

EGO DOESN'T ALLOW US !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ego doesn't allow us to learn from mistakes or deviate from wrong channels !!!!!!!!!!

Ego is like a possessive spouse......... doesn't allow us to have a glance at other directions .............................................................................ego keep on nagging us  and nagging is the cause of all illness !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

DIVIDE FOR SURVIVAL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Survival is our basic instinct and necessity...............for this we do any thing, go to any extent !!

People try to divide people for their own survival.

In today's world , in fact , this is not necessary because the world has space and opportunities enough for all .

Even competitions is not necessary .............high self esteem people do not compete, they try to cooperate or operate independently in their harmless ways.

PERMANENT COMPANION LET'S DOWN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Our ego is our permanent companion...........doesn't leave us in our life time...........but, this companion is the one that let us down through out our  life time !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Just leave it on trial basis for some time and see the difference...................entire world opens to us ........the possessive companion doesn't want us to have other companions and hence it never allows us to be with other companions !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

COOPERATION SCARES SELFISH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Cooperation is scary for selfish people.......... for them , it means,

losing of importance and inconvenience in their lives !!!!!!!!!

For selfish, cooperation is like sacrifice !!!!!!!!!!!

Sacrifices are impossible for selfish and morally weak !!!!!!!!!!!!!

LIVING BY PATTERNS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Our lives are controlled by patterns !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This makes our life easy...................... if we follow patters , which makes us worthy people, we can lead satisfying life !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

TRAINING THE MIND IS ESSENTIAL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Our minds are automatically programmed to do many things, without our consciousness too !!

If train our mind to follow satistying things, we can lead a satisfying life !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

THANK U ALL, BUT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you all for very encouraging comments but, sorry I am not able to respond back.............

Comments are coming without email id and hence , not possible to correspond and say thank you personally !!

If they come with email, promise to respond each every with care !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

IMPOSSIBLE TO DENY HAPPINESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The reality is that,no one can remain unhappy ever !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sounds stupid but, .................... any thing that we do, including

the act of denial of happiness, is because we feel that way !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

Any thing any human being does is either to avoid pain or to have pleasure !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Avoiding pain is to feel happy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hence denial of happiness is to feel happy....................mind you , to certain extent all are sadists.....................sadists feel happy by denying it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So too any act is .............. though we may call them silly/stupid ! 

NOT WANTING TO BE HAPPY IS A STATE OF HAPPINESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Happiness has different interpretations............it means different things to different people !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When people say that they don't feel happy, they mean they are happy that way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

By expressing themselves to be in miserable state , they feel they have achieved some thing and thus they feel happy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Bringing miseries and letting the world know about it is a peculiar way of feeling happy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

RELATIONSHIP PROBLEM ?

One major reason for relationship problem is the differences in the level at which the parties are using their intellignce !!!

Difference in usage/operating level is the cause...........

Intelligent people can be lazy to operate at the levels required or may be even tired to do so, at times !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Total health/ fitness is a requirement to use resources to the full !!!!!!

 

BEST MOTIVATION COMES FROM LIKE MINDED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Encouraging support and comments are the best motivation for any human being, to do any thing in life 

THANK YOU ALL  !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LIVING BY RULES EASIER THAN BY CHOICES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Life becomes complicated when we have maximum choices , with which to live on !!!

Life is easier , when we have to follow the set rules !!!

But, life is juicy and spicey , when we have choices !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Spices may hurt at times, but hopefully better than without it !!

................ at least for the ones, who are used to it !  

WORLD IS UNITED ON , ''HAPPINESS ''

 It is unbelievable that the comments from all over the world sound the same.....................happiness is the same for all and all want to be happy..........

The differences are in the means by which people want to achieve it ..................

Positive way is the one and the only way to be happy !!!!!!!!!!

POSITIVES ATTRACT POSITIVES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Positive vibes travel fast !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Negatives think , they can achieve by being shrewd...........

shrewd days are over........... it is sincere and positive , good 

hearted approach that brings success...........positive success !!

WHO IS NOT HAPPY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Every one in this world is happy.....................happy in their own way, that's all !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Not wanting to be happy , brings happiness to such people .

Not wanting to be happy is their way to happiness !!!!!!!!!!!

Sadists are happy too............................

Well, very few are positively happy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HAPPY AND THANK YOU !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Happy to receive many encouraging comments !!!

Thank you all for the kind suggestions ........... know that people 

would like more and detailed ones ....... a matter of time !

World would be much better this way, when people share things

--- doesn't matter, which part of world we belong......... our job 

is to make the world smaller by exchanging views and breaking

differences, which make us remain different .

Not an expert on computer , so many have some compatibility 

problems, which i don't know what to suggest.......

sharing writing.....yes  !!

IN SEARCH OF HAPPINESS, BUT LESS TIME WE DEVOTE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The real happiness is easily possible....... it lies in our interest of pursuing knowledge in any field !!!!!!

But, we devote less time in pursuing knowledge !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We mistake pleasure for happiness !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Pleasures are quick and short term and hence , we won't feel the kind of happy state of living...............

Pleasures are must and inevitable and we must have as much too........................ but happiness is holistic !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PEOPLE ORIENTED ...............................

People with low self esteem carry other people in their mind .

Thus , they are never independent and never think for their own improvement........... they are worried about what others will think............

............ or they may be totally indifferent...........still worse..........

balance is missing always .......................

THE ART OF REEIVING HELP , GRACIOUSLY !!!!!!!!!

People ,after receiving help from some one , feel uncomfortable and obligated !!!

Much worse is that they feel inferior because, they were in such a situation to ask for help.................. what will be the status in the eyes of the giver/helper .................

This insecurity and inferiority lead to bad blood and thus lead to spoiling of relationships .............. this is why people say, ''nobody should be helped''  !!! 

Unless we are confident about ourselves as to our own status in the eyes of the other , we should not take help !!!

..............should know how to receive help graciously and continue with the relationship...................

MUST ACCEPT THE FACT THAT, EVERY ONE NEEDS HELP , SOME TIME OR THE OTHER IN LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!   

IF ONLY WE COMMUNICATE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Open communication brings joy............

It takes away the mistrust...............

It breaks the fear factor.............

Let us use the communication, which is easy now due to the Internet and other facilities........to keep this world as ONE !!

DESIRE TO ENJOY ALL ASPECTS ..............................

Laziness is the root cause of all unhappiness and depression !!!!

Like, stress is the root cause of all illness............

Lazy mind brings stress too............ laziness bring stress more often than the busy life !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LEVEL OF MIND DECIDES BEHAVIOR/CHARACTER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The way people behave depends on the level of their mind...........

mind level plays the most important part in forming character !

The decency, reliability and trust worthiness depend on the level at which minds operate..............

Qualifications have no bearing on this......................

MOTHER TONGUE FOR BETTER THINKING !!!!!!!

For better thinking and intelligence, mother tongue is the best ........... in any language , which is not comfortable , thinking is hindered !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

One may be fluent in writing and reading, but when it comes to developing sharp thinking, mother tongue is the best !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

INTELLIGENT ARE LIFE TIME STUDENTS !!!!!!!!!!!!!

How can any one improve intelligence ? 

.............. only by being a continuous learner 

.............. student of life time

............. never take discussion to arguments 

............ enjoy debates to feed the hungry mind !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

................................... forget EGO ..................

LEARN BEFORE TEACHING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Imagine, many are eager to teach before they acquire enough knowledge.................

There are people, who read a para or here and there of a book or may here bits and pieces from some one and try to teach ...

Who do they try to teach ? ........... the people, who are like libraries !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

May come across with so many stupids in life !!!

NEED TO RECYCLE OUR LANGUAGE SERIOUSLY FOR A BETTER WORLD, HAPPY WORLD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The main reason for the mental blocks with guys , is the old phrases and languages being used in this world too.............

If change all those negatives into positives, every one can survive happily , without competing and cutting one another !!!

Educators need to weed out , old, stupid and destructive phrases from their teachings...............

............it's not philosophy any more.......... it's practical concepts that works for a better world, happy world ............................. 

DOING REMARKABLY USEFUL THINGS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Imagine , every human being wants to do some remarkable things, useful to other human beings !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Not necessarily big things, small things but remarkable !!!!!!!

Life of the one who does will be great , so too others !!!!!!!!!!!!

What a way to use time , remarkable & useful..............................................................................................................

SADISTS, WHOSE AIM IS UNHAPPINESS FOR OTHERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sadists focus on others and that too others should not be happy, because of their actions !!!!

They don't want to do any thing that makes them happy, if the same makes their people happy too !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Repent late, so late that things go beyond repairable stage !!!

BEING HUMAN....COOPERATIVE ATTITUDE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Cooperative attitude is the minimum that one has to have to be 'human' !

There are many , who do not have this concept of attitude at all !!!

And, such are the people, who expect the same from others !!!

Being human  is  sooooooooooo much difficult for many , ha haa !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ARTICLE WRITING IS A FANTASTIC IDEA, THANK U !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Article are fun and are useful to others.........

It's a matter of time.... good idea/suggestion..... may consider in a while.............time constraint though....

Sharing views and suggestions from like minded people are motivating factor and are good feelings,,,,,,,,,,

Thank you !!!

FAKING WON'T WORK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many fake their feelings.............. faking take us to low !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Honesty and sincerity only will work in the long run !!!!

EASY TO SAY, BUT YES, WE CAN ENJOY EVERY MOMENT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Basic problem with us is that , we do not know what and how we can enjoy ?

In fact a little effort to know as to how we can lead our lives, will take care of our lives ...........

.............. can enjoy every moment..............

LIFE, ALL ABOUT KNOWING ENJOYMENT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Knowing how to enjoy, the real enjoyment is the key to life !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

DAILY QUESTION, ANSWERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Daily cleansing of mind is necessary for moving forward !!!

If the questions can be answered, as and when they come into the mind, the mind can feel the calm, and thus move forward !!!

This is possible  .................................................

HELPLESS PARENTS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Over exposure at very young age to every thing leads to confused minds !!!

Young minds have little experience to chew all that they are offered !!

Exposure takes them to strong desires, desires without logic and reasoning !!!

When in trouble, these cowards will blame parents for not having guided them properly..............cowards  

ADDICTED TO NEGATIVITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Negative traits are very strong that it is very difficult to leave them.............

.............difficult to leave them because, they give a sense of false security............... false security is often mistaken for confidence ..

Why should any one leave the  CONFIDENT  state of mind ?

Think of these immature minds .................................with little education because of lazy reading habits !!!!!! 

NOTHING MUCH , THAT PARENTS CAN DO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Generation after generation, the young ones think that, they know all and are smarter than their parents !!!

Just because, they can operate computer and are on the net, they feel that they have more knowledge about every thing than their parents .

But, whenever they are in trouble, they have this smartness to blame it on parents.................smart, very, ofcourse !!!

These people think that they can get knowledge without any reading or effort.............................good for them !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The role of peers and computers become more and more and the role of parents, less and less in their growing up ...............................................................parents are must as scapegoats !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   

IT'S ANY ONE'S CHOICE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Today, every one has his/her own choice...........circumstances and upbringing have less effect on human beings !!!

When choices go wrong, people blame it on parents and circumstance...............that itself is a choice of escape route !!!!

Owning up responsibility is not a good choice for people, without moral courage...............they shift blame on others !

Moral courage is all that one needs to cope up with the world !!!

REVERSE THINKING............................

It would be interesting, sometimes to write the opposite of all our thoughts.....................and analyse them !!!!

These opposites of all our thoughts may give us an option to see various aspects and views with many dimensions !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FAMILY EGOS'

After honeymoon, the ego starts creeping in to the relationships.

Individual's ego lead to families ego and thus the beginning of the end of charm in relationships !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ego is one of the worst enemies, one can have in life ................

DISORGANIZED THOUGHT PROCESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many can't organize the thoughts in an orderly manner..............

this is a sign of immaturity........and escapism  !!!!

People may have been to university and may be holding all certificates, but, they are not aware of the life............there is no university that teaches,'how to live ' !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

MOVING ON WITH THE PROCESS IS THE WAY TO ADDRESS FEAR !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Fear, is when we do not have processes in our lives......... if we set our eyes on positive processes, we do not get stuck !!!

This , looking ahead and backing up with process , is the only way to address fear.....................keep away fear, the only way !!!

FEAR, WE NOT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Fear about our survival, is the problem for trust deficit in all walks of life ............

The fear is the result of lack of self esteem.......................

THANK U !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Without motivation from you all , these would not have been possible................ a year passed, since i started blogging !!!

.............................non-stop ,except for couple of days, due to unavoidable and technical reasons !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When we share our views and our happiness, regardless of the place, where we are in the universe, we feel happy........sharing happiness is a small secret of further happiness and longevity !!

Well , sharing problems too are necessary ........................

CARELESS LIVING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

The easy life has brought the carelessness in to our lives...............

Despite many problems we have today, we still live in unimaginably better world than what it was for our older generations !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We are not grateful to them for their contributions ............

COMPULSIVE JUDGEMENTS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There are many, who have to make judgements about every thing and especially about every one............that too, without taking enoughtime.

These people think, themselves to be right always............they are , because , they have their own agenda behind it..................

WASTING LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

People waste their time , thinking and talking bad about others..............thus , they waste their own lives !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Another way of wasting is , by looking for excuses and escape routes, through out their lives..............

................................ what a way to waste lives.........sadists !!!! 

HOW DO WE USE OUR REMAINING , UNUSED BRAIN...97%?

IF ONLY , WE ARE 100% POSITIVE, WITHOUT ANY GAP 

OR BREAK  .........................   CAN WE?, IF WE CAN, THEN, 

'YES',COULD BE THE ANSWER

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ONE DAY,IF IT HAPPENS .........IMAGINE !!!

ENGAGING WITH NICE PEOPLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Regular engagement with maximum , nice and positive people is a way of life, that brings in lots of satisfaction.........

Satisfaction is the food for healthy heart .................................

NICE FEELING THAT THE WORLD IS COMING AROUND, CLOSER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Positive responses are encouraging, and it gives the feeling that the world is coming around, closer for good reasons !!!!

Knowledge about life, and not the general knowledge to get a job, is the one and the only important thing in the world............... for being happy !!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's a great feeling ,when people share knowledge and acknowledge the value , they gained ..........................

IMPOSSIBLE TO IMPROVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Carrying past and negatives in the mind, no one can make any progress in life, for sure !!!

But, many prefer to live with the past, which is very convenient cover ....................................

97 % OF THE BRAIN ARE NOT USED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If the information is true, it is definitely because, we are lazy !!

Of the 3% we use, we might be negative too .................

Imagine , we use all and all positive !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

UNABLE TO FORGET THE PAST, CHECK YOUR EGO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Forgetting past is very difficult for those having big stupid ego !!

False prestige and hollowness are preventing people from taking such a simple step .............................. 


Check your ego state, when you are unable to forget past !!!!

NEGATIVITY AND IMMATURITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Negativity is the criteria of immaturity ................

The degree to which  one is immature, can be measured by the degree of negativity carried by the person !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FORGETTING TO LIVE , OWN LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There are people, whose aim of living is, only to attack their imaginary enemies .........................the imaginary enemies are created by lazy mind........ and by inferiority complex !!!!!

As long as the situation continues , which happens through out such people's lives due to sadist reasons, they forget to live their own lives !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That much is about the inferiority complex !!!!!!!!!!!!

UNABLE TO THINK FORWARD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Unfortunate , many are not able to hold on to their thoughts and take it forward, in an organized manner !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The intentions of thinking are not positive, and often, they are meant to avoid and hide things from others .............thus the mind keeps on jumping , not knowing where to go !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

DESIRE TO ;BE HAPPY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People are in search of 'happiness'.

Unfortunately, these searchers are not having a desire to be so !

First and the most important requirement for being happy , is the desire to be happy !!!

Many want to inflict injuries to others and their focus is on such acts, in which case, the desire to be happy is missing ...............................in such cases, people give importance to the pleasure of sadism .........pleasure mistaken for happiness !!!!!!!!!!

M/S & MR. JUDGE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There are many , who are quick at judging things and people ...............stupidest thing to do.............. and stupid they become !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Such people have prejudgements too.........to their advantage !!

Basically, these are the lazy morones , who do not want to do any thing in life .......... judgements are excuses and nothing else !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

UNWILLING TO GROW UP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

One of the major reasons for break up of relationships is , one partner is unwilling to grow up !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Usually men do not grow up............... they want to remain as boys................. immature !

Don't know , if they take it as a matter of convenience or scared to grow up.............growing up means taking mind to higher levels and thereby owning up more responsibilities !!!

People do not want to grow up...............this is convenient to live weird way !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1  

BREAKING ICE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Negativity has to be broken for improvements !

Breaking ice between the relationships of any sort is an art...........opening the mind to the higher levels is necessary and this is not difficult................. all that one has to do is to forego the EGO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

EASIEST WAY TO MAKE ENEMITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ever thought ?, what happens , when we do not help a person begging for help ?

No help, no problem.......................

But , ever thought, what will happen , if we ask  that person, '' being healthy, why don't you take up some jobs ''?


For that person, we become the worst enemies of his life...........

Same, if a wife ask the same question to her husband, sister to brother,  mother to daughter ,  father to son and so on............................................................................................................  

OF COURSE, SOME ARE NOT INDISPENSABLE !!!

No one is indispensable, that's what the phrase is and people , say !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

But some are not indispensable, and we know this fact, only when we lose such people for ever !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

RAISING STANDARDS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If only , we try to raise standards of whatever we are doing, we will be motivated !

For continuous self motivation, we need to raise standards on regular basis !!!

Remaining in comfort zone will bring low feeling !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

REASSURANCE, VERY IMPORTANT !!!,, SO, HAPPY HAPPY , WOMEN'S DAY !!!!!!!

THE IMPORTANCE OF CELEBRATING DAYS, SUCH AS ''WOMEN'S DAY'', IS A SORT OF REASSURANCE, OR ELSE, OVER THE TIME, THINGS WILL BE FORGOTTEN !

SO, VERY VERY HAPPY WOMEN'S DAY..................ESPECIALLY THIS YEAR !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NEW , NEW CHALLENGES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If only, we have new, new challenges in life, we will be active and enthusiastic in life....................or else, life becomes boring, due to getting stuck in comfort zones !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We need to challenge ourselves on a regular basis with new and fresh things, without leaving the safety  !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Safety is important to experiment on a new thing !!!!!!!!!!11

NOT A PAID WRITING....PURELY OWN CREATION !!!

Thanks for the appreciations.............. these are as a result of the appreciations from all who visit this site !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

A lot of credit goes to all those , who extended support for the continued work here, an inspiration worth following !!!!

When ideas help many, more and more follows automatically, don't know how  

SLIPPING INTO COMFORT ZONES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We , ordinary people , have this habit of slipping into comfort zones ,often.................this is why we remain ordinary and time passers !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We need to come out of this zone, frequently checking as to when we fall into this, if we need to feel energetic and enthusiastic !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

STRONG FOUNDATION , THE KEY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For any thing that we want to build, we need to have strong foundation !!!

For constructing a beautiful life, strong foundation is unavoidable too !!

Peace of mind is one of the ingredients of strong foundation...............

Without peace of mind , we cannot function properly !!!  

RELAXATION FOR BETTER EFFECTS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Relaxed way of life, gives better effects in any walks of life............. learning to do with positive, relaxed style gives better focus .

HOW CAN I BE HAPPY ? SOME THING WRONG !!!

Negativity takes/goes to any extent .......... that is how the power of negativity.......... it is more powerful than positivity and that is why negative people prefer negativity !!!!!!!!!!!!!

It goes to any extent that the negative people believe, that they can never be happy.............. if they feel happy, they are scared and feel , that some thing is going  wwrong  some where within them !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

DISCONNECT WITH POSITIVE PEOPLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It is common with negative people to disconnect with positive people....................for fear of improvement happening .................improvements in the dictionary of negative people mean , change and change is scary for any one, especially the negative ones !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SENSE OF BELONGING , IMPORTANTLY MISSING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We are social animals, and we can never be totally individualistic....................... unless, of course, we are at the highest level of self esteem !!!

Many people , disconnect themselves from family culture, social culture and organisational culture , due to missing of, 'sense of belonging'    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

These people compare themselves , with others and find themselves , not enough to be in the groups , and feel inferiority complex .............................................................thus the disconnect !!!!

GIVING PAIN TO EXTRACT OWN NEEDS !!!!!!!!!!!!

Some people use pain and irritations to get what they want !!!

Giving pain to a beloved one is the shrewdest way to get whatever...................... these people know that unconditional love is a weakness of the beloved .............so exploit it !!!

At times kids do irritate their parents for getting attention and whatever they want !!!!!!!!!!

SADISM OVER HAPPINESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Some people prefer sadistic pleasure over their own happiness !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wonder why ?................... giving pain to others and feel good about the achievement is far easy than making effort to feel happy about self  !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

TAKING FOR GRANTED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nothing can be taken for granted !
People take , unconditional love for granted...........leading to disaster  !!!!

SELF ABUSE FOR SYMPATHY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Sympathetic attention is one thing , the people with low self esteem cherish !!

In order to get sympathetic treatment from others, such people go to any extent to abuse themselves............to project themselves to be in a pathetic situation !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ABUSE , A SHREWD WAY TO DIVERT MIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Abuse is a shrewd way to divert mind ....................from real issues 

Immature do it unknowingly !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Professional abusers know it and do it shrewdly !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!