FLEXIBILITY IN HABITS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Habits are rigid, programmed behavior !!!

Need of the time is flexibility............able to do things according to priorities and not according to 'what is learned.'

WANTING OTHERS TO FAIL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People , feeling inadequate , want others failure !!!

They can't think of their own progress and success !!!!

CERTAIN BIOLOGICAL CHANGE & INADEQUACY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Certain biological changes lead to the feeling of being inadequate !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This feeling leads to all negative emotions against the most beloved ones !!!

This is a tricky situation, where, one wants others to fail ..... thus will try to portray others as stupid !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

EGO. THE ROAD BLOCK TO PROGRESSIVE CHANGE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ego is the hindering factor .......................... it is the one thing that prevents us from making progress........... progress is mistaken as change and ego wouldn't allow it !!!

EQUALITY IS A STATE OF MIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Equality is a state of mind , which is to be achieved by training the mind..............no one else can make all equal..............all that we want has to be achieved in mind !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IF ONLY, WE THINK BEYOND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If only we think outside us and beyond selfish needs, we can have peace and prosperity......... in family, society , nation and the world !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

THE MOST DIFFICULT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Being completely positive for ever is the most difficult thing for the majority............ in fact , this is the easiest thing to do in life !

BIOLOGICAL DIFFERENCES MATTER ???/

Biological differences definitely lead to communication differences................. the styles of communication and their effect !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

GENDER RELATED ???????????????

At times , it seems that , listening is a problem more with a particular gender !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FARCE COMMUNICATION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We waste most of our lives in destructive/negative ways.......... unwanted communication is one such thing !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

GREAT V/S SMART !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Great people sell great dreams and they remain in history as greats................. their dreams too remain as dreams for ever!!!!

Smart people do not sell dreams, they realize the dreams in their life time !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BAD , DUE TO IGNORANCE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We all are born without any labels !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Labels become our part, due to ignorance !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IGNORANCE, THE ROOT CAUSE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ignorance is the root cause of all negative emotions and actions!

People take advantage of such situations to promotes themselves!

INDIVIDUALISM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The concept of 'family' is dying for sure !!!!!  Sad ............

The economic culture has created 'individualism'...bit selfish !!!!

WHEN GREED TAKES OVER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When greed takes over our thinking faculty, we lose sight and direction in life !!!

BE STRONG, OR BE EXPLOITED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's exploitation all the way !!!

Strong exploits the weak any where and every where !!!

Be strong or get ready to get exploited by others !!!!!!!!!!

High self esteem......................... the way away from such dirt !!

NOT KNOWING REAL PURPOSE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Not knowing the real purpose of own life is the reason for the confusions !!!!!!!!!

Set the purpose right to get the right way of life !!!!!!!

TAMPERING WITH OWN SELF !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Two opposite things can't go together, harmoniously !!!

When we keep negativity , we are keeping two opposite things....negative feelings and positive feelings ..... many positives are born with !!!

Unless and until we remove our negativity completely, we are tampering with own self !!.............. confusions all the way !!!!

WISE MEN SHARPEN THEIR TOOLS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When tools are sharp, efficiency is many fold !!!!

When we perfect our personality, we can function at our peak !!

EXPERTS IN HIDING THE REAL ONE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many are living with totally two different personalities !!!

These people are experts in hiding the real feelings !!!

But, in the long run, they will find a vacuum for all insincere living like this !!!!

COMPLICATIONS GIVE PLEASURE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many get a kick , when they complicate their lives !!!!

No wonder, the lives, instead of keeping simple, are complicated !!!!!..... some thing to complain about always and to have pleasure !!!

IT'S ALWAYS SIMPLE THINGS THAT MAKES DIFFERENCE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Every human being should know a bit of psychology, to be happy !!!

It's always the simplest things that matter but, many do not get impressed by simple things !!

People like complications in life .....the more complicated , the more valuable, that is the way things are for many !!!!!!!

ONE WORD LESS IS BETTER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People use unwanted words in communication !

Extra words bring extra emotions !

For better relations, one word less may be better !!!

CAN'T TEACH OWN PEOPLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The sad reality is that, no one can teach his own people.......... own peoples' ego is a road block to progress !!!

It's like , a  doctor can't operate on himself !!!!!!!!!!

FRUSTRATION , A PRODUCT OF MISS-COMMUNICATION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ineffective communication leads to frustration !!!!!!!!!!

When we face difficulty in communicating appropriately, we become frustrated...... may turn to silence  !! that too is a sort of frustration !!

Frustrations lead to depression !!!!

ZERO COMMUNICATION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Communication is the biggest problem, we face today !!!

Do not think that people are able to get across to others in real sense !

Proper communication in families can add to the peace, happiness and that can even extend the life span !!!

People die earlier, due to feeling low /depressed ........ caused by negative feelings, caused by wrong communications !!!!

SURVIVAL AND NOT LOVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For self survival, people may express their love !!!

'Love' is often, used as a weapon for getting what is wanted !!!

DENYING BENEFITS TO OTHERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There are many who, deny good things/benefits to others, since these are coming from others !!!

The ego of middle people, deny such good acts !!!!

MAKING THINGS HAPPEN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If we can horn our interest in any field, with positive energy, we can make any thing happen !!!

Smooth interest and 100% positiveness are the requisites !!!

GETTING WHAT WE WANT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Life is all about sales..........selling oneself...........this means , we need to be the product, what others want to hire !!!

So, try to be the best product available to others ....... educate self, invest in self !!!!

WASTING HUMAN LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Majority do the same thing over and over again .......... very small percentage of people try reading some thing to improve their mind, the human mind is a resource that cannot be wasted !!!

AVERSE TO KNOWLEDGE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many people are averse to knowledge,because,for them knowledge is scary ..........knowledge will make them work...work is burden !

DUAL PERSONALITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many are experts in projecting the sweetest side to outside world !

These people dupe others .... and that is where they find pleasure !!

The real one is unknown to outside world....the cruel side !!!

POSITIVELY CLEAR MIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

A very clear mind with positive energy take us to success....... this feeling of breakthrough happens , at highest level of mind.....any one can get it, with practice !!!

RESTRICTED LIVING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Majority don't bother to go into the universe .........they restrict their lives to their homes and neighbor hoods !!

These restricted living causes the ignorance and that leads to frictions and tensions !!!!!!!!!!!!!

''FORGIVE THE IGNORANCE'',MAKES SENSE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

All negatives and evils are due to ignorance.........nobody is bad as such...........all the negatives are the products of ignorance !

Hence, it makes sense to forgive those , for all their negative deeds !!! 

 Reactions create a chain of further negatives , hence the best option is to forgive, to give a chance for positives !!!

THE UNBELIEVABLE LAW OF MONEY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Money comes to us , when we don't work for it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When we chase money , it becomes difficult to reach it !!!!!!!!!!!

WHY ARE WE ANGRY ???

Why should any one be angry with others ?

We are angry because, we do not want to recognize the freedom of others to disagree !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HELPING OTHERS MAY TURN OUT TO BE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Help may turn out to be an invitation of animosity !

Help creates a sense of low feeling in the others and this will cause the animosity !!!!

ALLERGIC TO NEW WAYS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People are unwilling to new suggestions , they live in comfort zones !!!

It would sound almost like, they are allergic to new ways !!!

Such people do not have the patience to even listen to any new !!

URGE TO PROVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Every human being , with low self esteem, has this strong urge to prove some thing to others ............. waste of energy !!!!

BENEFIT ORIENTED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

All relationships lead to 'benefit oriented', what do we get from this sort !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No wonder, we have more separations than coming together !!!!

SELFISHNESS ALL THE WAY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

High self esteem is the only way to unselfishness !!!

Unfortunate that, no schools are teaching the realities of human lives !!!

Earning, eating, drinking and gossiping are not all that a human being can do in his/her life time...............................more can be done for the generations to come !!!

LOVE MARRIAGES, USING THE OTHER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's very, very rare to find the innocence , now a days , to claim to be in true love !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Without owning an innocent mindset, no one can love the other completely and in complete unison !!

This leads to the fear, that people are using others for their own varied reasons !!!

ARRANGED MARRIAGES, WAYS OF EXPLOITATION ?????

It seems so, the stronger family exploits the other , for their convenience..........................

FRUSTRATIONS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

They are all in the mind and not a reality !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

COMMUNICATION , THE SPICE OF XXX !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Those who master the real communication can take things to ecstasy , very easily ............. it is the spice of xxx life !!!

NOT NECESSARY TO HAVE OPINIONS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many poke their nose, in to every matter, the matters , which are not familiar with too !!!!

These people think, that it is compulsory to have opinions of their own, in all matters..........height of stupidity, and this stupidity leads to unnecessary problems !!!!

GOOD INTENTIONS ARE NOT ENOUGH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Good intentions without appropriate knowledge and means won't help any !!!

This is why we face the dilemma in life often !!!

STEPPING STONES TO SUCCESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many ' tries ' are stepping stones to success............

Heard people saying, 'many failures are stepping stones to success.'....

If so, then many sins may be stepping stones to heaven !!!!!!!!!!!!!

LEAVING OTHERS BEHIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People with better communication skills, evolve faster, leaving others behind ........... need to catch up ? , better learn !!!!

JUDGEMENT BEFORE THE BEGINNING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Even before the beginning of any conversation , people make judgement about the topic and the other person !!!

How do we get across to such people ?

WANT TO BE HAPPY, MASTER ...................

If we want to be happy, we need to master the art of communication............. the first step one should learn is,''how to give positive response to the speaker'' !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!,

NOT BETTER THAN ANIMALS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Human beings are no better communicators than animals !

Nobody knows the art of communication......we are good in, creating all sorts of problems and confusions while communicating !!!!! 

DIRECTING OTHERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Often, many have already decided the direction of their conversation with others and, want others to follow the line ..... or else , they close the conversation ... woh, what a way to converse with others !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NOT ALLOWING OTHERS TO TALK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Even before a conversation is started, the one who initiated,might have made up the mind, and thus, won't let the other to open his/her mouth...... communication is dead even before it is started !!!!!!!!!!!!!

IMPOSSIBLE TO COMMUNICATE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People , who just talk and withdraw are difficult to be communicated ...... these people talk their stupid mind out and shut themselves, not allowing others to respond !!!!!

POSITIVE THINKING, A HABIT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For, things to happen nice way, one has to develop a habit of positive thinking........... a real habit !!!

Thinking in bits and pieces, positively won't work !!!

THE REAL CONTROL OVER BODY AND MIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When we are able to take our body and mind to a standstill, and to direct them by the necessary energy , whenever we want, wherever necessary, we achieve the real control...........this ability will help us to be free of all illness and unhappy situations !!!

COMPULSIVE CRITICISM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People , low on confidence run around to find some thing to talk and criticize about others...............this way they find satisfaction, much to the irritation of others !!!!!!!!!!!!

RECEIVING HELP, OBLIGATION ?

It's very difficult for people to receive help with respect ..........

this causes internal conflict and damages self respect and leads to letting the helper down  !!!!

USING MORE OF OUR BRAIN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

''Even Einstein might have used only 3% of his brain'', that's what people say !

Imagine, some one could use more of it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's possible..........need to wait , that's going to happen !!!!!!!!!!!

FAKE WORLD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We are living in a world, where every one fakes about every thing................main reason for not finding happiness !!!

If only we come down to the real world !!!!!!!!!!!!

BREADTH OF KNOWLEDGE AS IMPORTANT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Breadth of knowledge is more important for progress and self satisfaction, which leads to happiness !!!

In depth knowledge help us to reach places !!

MIND AS LABORATORY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Positive people can use their mind as a laboratory / workshop !!

Negativity distracts normal minds.........the reason for lack of concentration !!!!!

INEQUALITY IS CONVENIENT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Not being equal is a convenient situation ....... convenient to dominate and exploit others ....................

so too, playing victim and living with excuses for ever !!!!!!!!!!!!

COMPETING WITH IMAGINARY PEOPLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People with inferiority complex are always in competition with some imagined contestants !!!

They feel that the entire world is leaving them behind !!!

CHANNELIZING POSITIVE ENERGY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Channelizing positive energy to the line of direction is necessary for achieving our vision...........can't have any glance to negativity in the side !!!!