SCARED TO COMMUNICATE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Even in 21st century, people are scared to open up and communicate.................... in the communication age, where we can achieve/become any thing with communication alone !!!!

Opening up is the key to life ...........................happy life, I mean !

NOT POSSIBLE !!

commends without email cannot be answered !!!

It is not possible to access many websites, sorry.....not that there is no will to answer  ...........................................

MOMENTUM IN LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Positive momentum in life is very important.  The momentum has to be maintained through out !

Once broken, it takes time to get back to it .......... like discontinuing exercises and then restart becomes difficult !

Keep the positive momentum going ................

WEAKNESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People exploit the 'weak'.

Weakness is due to ignorance.......ignorance is due to unwillingness to improve.......improvements need some work..........work need the enthusiasm and willingness to get out of the lazy state !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Be strong, or be exploited !

WITH THE HELP OF A COMPANY !!!!!

It is usually the pattern, that exploiters use another weak person as a tool to boast about the boss !

This sort of weak people play the danger game for facilitating !

Such people too will be exploited in the end !!!!

HOPE, '' A BAIT '' !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

'Hope' , is used as a bait by the exploiters !!!!!

They know very well that , people will fall for it because, hope is a motivation for human beings.............. beware , when the bait comes your way !!!

BEWARE OF EXPLOITERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I

It is very common to find, the exploiters in this world , beware...

These people give big hopes to the innocent and sincere people , thus trap them and exploit !!!

Beware, when hopes are thrown at you .............

EXPLOITATION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There are different ways , people are being exploited .

The exploited will feel lost and dry ... this extra ordinary feeling  lead to a situation of unhappiness !

Exploitation is one of the worst thing , that commonly happen now a days.......... beware !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

TOO MUCH OF COMPROMISE...DRYNESS !!!

The dry feeling many be due to too much of compromise........ every time compromise, means lowering of personal interest !

Personal interest is very important to feel all the emotions in balanced way .......... loss of balance may lead to dryness !!!!!!!!!!!

ASSERTIVENESS , MISTAKEN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many coach, people to be assertive. Continuous evolution force us to change our views . If we do not change accordingly, we will be left behind !

Trying to be assertive, is not a good move...this leads to dominance over others, who would not like it !

TOO MUCH OF COMPROMISE ........................

Too much and too many compromises will take a toll on self esteem .

This will cause dent in relationships !!!!!!!!

COMPROMISE , NOT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

''Relationship is all about 'compromises' '',many say !

Compromises won't take things to life long.......... one compromise , lead to another and another and so on............

One may expect the other to compromise all time !!!

Understanding person and situations only will help to maintain relationships !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

GET DEEP IN TO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If only  we can get deep in to the emotional state of others, we can make things happen !!!

Often , we float around and never try to practice !!!

LIVING WITH TRUE COLOR !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We , human beings hide our true color and we lead in to many relationships !

When true color come out ,that ends the relationships .... inevitable ...can't hide for long time !!!

Living with true color is the greatest put on  !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BREAK THROUGH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

To feel light and free, we need to break through our over-protective shell............ must break away from biased and prejudiced feelings !

Need to walk with a mindset of 'can do ' any thing in life !!!!!!

ANY THING AT ANY AGE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Our body and mind has the power to perform many things as long as we practice............ unbelievable, many performances can be better with age !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Toning up of body and mind is necessary for this !!!!!!!!!!!!

Age is just a number ...............

JOY OF COMPANIONSHIP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

After initial attraction, one has to find the joy in the company of the other person !

If that doesn't happen, the relationship won't last long...........it will end with the end of attractive aspect !!!

In order to make the companionship joyful, we need to add values and interest on a continuing way !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Can't take things for granted ...............

CLEANSING MIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We are all brain washed by many , even when we were in the womb !!!!!!!!!!!!!

We need to know the bias, prejudices and superstitions , we are programmed with ...........

We need to cleanse all those and start ourselves, a new life with our own mind !!!

ADD SOME NEW FRAGRANCE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We can add some new thing to our life,  if we are positive ......... freshness is the key to attraction !!!

With experience, we can always add some thing interesting to our personalities, which will make up for the losing freshness due to aging ...............

Want to be attracted, need to work on ,  not that difficult !!

Need to be on the look out for positively !

WHY, MOST OF THE RELATIONSHIPS BREAK ?

Human beings are attracted to attractive / beautiful things .

Every body likes rose , at any age ...... rose is rose for any one at any age....... the beauty attracts a person towards the flower !

But, flower too age, and the attraction for the aged flower diminishes and finally stops !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

New rose comes out and attraction for rose, the new one is the same for an old human being...................................................................................................!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NEED TO MAINTAIN THE ATTRACTION QUOTIENT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For continuing relationship, we need to maintain the attraction quotient ........... they are different, but must have !!

Can't lose in oneself at any point of life !!!

IMPOSSIBLE TO PULL DOWN !!!!!!!!!!!

Insecure people try to pull down others.....easy way to match/catch up or even overtake !

It  is impossible to bring down a person of integrity/calibre !

Only foolish people think that they can do so !

THE BEST GIFT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Real , maximum education is the best gift any parents can give to their children...........

Ignorance is the biggest problem, even in this century !!!!!!!!!!

Remove ignorance, remove prejudices !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

THE BEST ASSET !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Credibility is the most valuable asset, one can have ..that should be held with us through out our life time !

Many lose this , when they exchange this for a short term benefit/pleasure !!

Once lost, it never comes back !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LIVING AS GENUINE HUMAN BEING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Genuine human beings have the balance and reasoning.........

they only will have the open mind to accept , without conditions, which is the very basic for living on equal terms !!!

Living with double personalities won't take us any where near happiness !

NEED GUTS , FOR FEELING EQUAL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

One must have the moral guts to feel equal and to see others equal !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WHEN WE TRY TO OUTSMART OTHERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There are many , who wait for some opportunities in life.


When they are offered good opportunities by well-wishers, they try to outsmart them!!!!!!!!!

This very act amounts to rubbing on the negative side of the well-wishers............. thus amounts to doom !!!!!!!!!!!

Idea of outsmarting is not a good idea !!!

TRUE EQUALITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

True equality is achieved, when we all can accept others irrespective the differences in color, language, age, food habits, religion and cultures ...........

that is a world without boundaries........ this can happen only in the minds and hence, we need to take our minds to so open, high levels......................possible !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

KICK THOSE NEGATIVES OUT, FOR EVER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Take a bold resolution, to kick every negative emotions out of our system............
need this , if we want to improve and feel positively happy...........

sadists won't like this idea, because they feel happy any way from negatives !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

EMOTIONAL INSECURITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Emotional insecurity is an inborn thing in us ............. when, a child observes the attention his/her new born sibling gets from others, the elder child feel insecure............ because, now all attention goes to the new born !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is insecurity and not jealousy.... but , if not rectified , may soon turn out to be jealousy !!!

Envy/jealousy is a very unhealthy emotion !!!!!!!!!!!!

KEEP ON LIVING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We should not stop living any moment.............. do not mean to die ............. mean, make use of all resources and opportunities in positive, happy ways !!!

Need to know the purpose of living.....must select a positive purpose to move on and on...................................

FAKE US NOT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Only human beings can fake their feelings.............not animals !!!

But, when faking becomes a habit , we lose touch with our real emotions..............this lead to disaster ..........better be genuine !!!

POOR EDUCATION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Schools and Universities teach to be literate . They help to develop skills to earn for our living ...........

real education is missing....... we need to get it from other sources ............ internet, the services provided by google, google+ etc. are helping the world a lot towards this !!!

The interactive facilities of google+ is really amazing .......

appreciate it !!!!!!!!! 

Today any one can be available for face to face interaction and learn................. hope to be better educated !

IMAGINE THE POWER OF TRUE LOVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The appreciation and the small bit of love, for the work, even from the remotest places and unknown people , brings a lot of joy in to my life................

imagine, what a true love can do to any one !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WHO AM I TO CRITICIZE ??????????????????

We have this habit of criticizing others, negatively !!

Who are we to criticize others ?

When we are not perfect , it is not appropriate to criticize others........let us leave others to do what they want......thus, let others breath the freedom !!!!!!!!!!!

POSITIVE , CLEAN MIND CAN DO ANY THING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Clean, positive mind takes you to the right places at right time !

We may not know the reasons that moves us to the right directions !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is not a magic or any fantasy  !!

But, to happen things , we need to keep our mind very , very clean, unbiased................ set to help people, the helping mindset... a happy life goal !!!!!!!!!!!

OVERWHELMED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Positively, overwhelmed by many sincere appreciations , here I received !!

Unfortunately, not able to thank individually......... all comments are received as anonymous, so can't say thank you individually !

Nevertheless, thank you all.............. your appreciations are the never ending fuel for me to come here regularly !!!!!!!!

If my posts can help, even a bit , I am satisfied in my life .......
satisfaction is the most important driving force.

The most wonderful thing, here , is that all feel equal , regardless of the difference in nationalities, age, gender, culture etc..

Let us all keep things like that and try to change the world positively..................................

thank you all once again........ cheers !

BEING 'THE BEST' , NOT ACCEPTABLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wonder, why you are not acceptable being the best ! ???

Others, who are low on self confidence, cannot stand / match you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hence , the best to escape from situation is to reject you !!!!!!!!!!!

smart, ha haa  ........

NO ONE IS TOTALLY FREE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No one is totally free in this world........... every body wants to control others !!!

When every body wants to control others, obviously no body can be totally free, the paradox of freedom !!!!!!!!!!!!!

DEEPLY TOUCHED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Must express my deep feelings here, for all good appreciations flowing from many , from many countries !!!

Thank you all !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OPPORTUNITIES ARE CREATED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Positive people , know that they have to create opportunities and they create it !

Negatives think , the opportunities come by luck and they have to be used...............when they come, may not even accept them !

Energy in life is necessary to make life beautiful ..............

so too , need to remove prejudgements !!!!  

CANNOT CHAIN THE TALENTED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There are vested interests in chaining the talented people, without giving their due enough !!!!

Unscrupulous people will try to weigh them down for their own selfish interest .

But, it is impossible to chain the talented for long time !!!

DO NOT ATTACK ALL OUT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Some people go all out attacking others , personally !!

They do this due to their own ego !

Thereafter , when they want to patch up, it becomes impossible because, they have not left any room for bouncing back !!!

Must leave enough space between relationships !!!!!

NON ENTITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For many people, others do not exist in this world !!!

They think, they own this world and they can do any thing ....

they are the least bothered about fellow citizens !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This causes a lot of problems at homes and in society !!!!

NAG, IF YOU WANT TO KILL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People always have suggestions and advice !!!

So many are very loving and caring , while giving their views !

But, often repeated suggestions with authoritative tone, will amount to nagging and, nagging has the worst effect on any human being...............

Nag , if you want to kill a person ...........................

IT IS SO SIMPLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The love and care for others make our lives beautiful , it is so simple as that !!!!!!!!!!!

Say for example, '' I never was confident about the blogs to continue for such long time.....more than a year now ''.

This was made possible by the people , who I never met, from all over the world.................their positive encouragement !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Now , I like it ....... thoughts flow..................

.......................thanks a million to all those who made this possible with their appreciation !!!!

Wish, these thoughts could be helpful in small way ..............   

Wish every one , every where , do care others !!!  

LOOK INSIDE , BEFORE CORRECTING OTHERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There are many, who is always wanting to correct others !!!

On the same points of behavior, the same people are equally bad !!!
Before correcting others, these people should correct self , which will be the biggest favour to others !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FOR BETTER WORLD, THE MIND SHOULD INITIATE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

One should see/create a beautiful world , inside of one's own mind !
If we create it , it would be so for ever !
It is like rehearsing...........life in a beautiful world !!!!!!!!!!!!

THE BEST FOLLOWS THE WORST !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Often, it happens so, that the best follows after the worst incident in life !!!

When we are extremely positive, the worst incident may be happening, as a force, to divert us to the best !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That is why, very often, people say that ,''whatever happens may be for our good !!!!!!!!!!!!! ''

IN TOUCH WITH THE WORLD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Every day , we find a new world !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Communicating with the world is an ongoing , interesting thing!

Being in touch with the world , makes all the difference in our life ............... let us make the world more and more beautiful, day by day !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sending out positives is every ones' job !!!!!!!!!!!!

SUSTAINING INTEREST ....CRUCIAL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People lose interest in life at certain stage......they become stagnant ........... lose track of , what they are living for !!!!!!

This happens, when interests are not sustained !

It is very important to find more and more interesting fields in life....... or interest in making daily progress in the field chosen !

VANISHING..........PERSONAL RELATIONS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

With economic independence, people , no more need others for own survival .... no one is at any body's mercy !

Independence is very good..... it is nice that , people don't have to depend on others !

But, on the other side, every one becomes casual about every thing and hence , nothing is sustainable for long................. the victim is,''personal relationships.'' 

UNDER ESTIMATE AT OWN RISK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

A basic decency is to respect others !

There are people , who under estimate others .......... amounts to disrespect !

This disrespect may invite back lash , which may turn out to be very heavy in all respect !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FEELING OF REJECTION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Rejection is one of the worst feelings , one face often !

Those , who can handle this feeling ..........not indifferent...... can

handle any thing in life !!

SEARCHING OUTSIDE , WHEN IT IS INSIDE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We , often forget what all qualities and abilities , we have ...

When things, people are available in front of us, we do not take notice of them and search for them outside ........... living unaware ......... not giving importance, where it should be !!!!

FIRST LOVE, IS THE ONLY REAL ONE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Love , without long list of items , happens only once .........that is the first time.................

This is a spontaneous emotion, without any calculations...........hence, it is the only sweet one , which happens only one time ............

That's why , many want to go back to those times often !!!!!!!!!!

IF ONLY, I DON'T LOSE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People maintain rrelationship till, they have this feeling of loss, if discontinued ...........

When a situation arrives, where in, nothing to lose, they discontinue relationship !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Relationship has become commercial........ no more love !!!!!!!!!!

WHAT CAN I ''G E T'' ?

Every time a person meets another , the internal talk is ,"what can I get", from this person !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sounds unbelievable , but, it is shockingly/surprisingly true !!!!

If any one finds an exceptional person, would like to know !!!!!!! 

EXPLOITATION ALL THE WAY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

May not believe, but, it is true that almost every human being is trying to exploit the other ......... some are sophisticated , some ruthless, that is the only difference !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If we remove this inhumane agenda from our system, the world would be happy and rich enough for every one !

Poor are better in this respect !!!!!!!!!!!

INSTANT CHANGE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many ask, '' is it really possible to have instant positive change ?''

Why not?. If we can have instant negative change, we can do the same the other way round.............positive change !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HONESTY OVER SHREWDNESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Being shrewd can help achieving more, some , think !!!!!!!!

Shrewdness, will be exposed one day or the other and, then that will be the beginning of the slide down !!

Honesty takes us slowly to the top, but, that will always be steady and consistent !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SURVIVAL, THEN AND SURVIVAL , NOW !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Survival against all odds and difficult times were a bear necessity, in olden days !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hence, all had  to hold on to good values , like , cooperation , love etc.

Today , survival is for pleasure and ego........... survival with show and maximum every thing..... for that , people kill the values , which helped us to survive difficulties !!!!!!!!!!!! 

USE AND THROW OUT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Greedy needs every body till extracting the maximum possible...

They use others to their advantage , the best ..........

Once they know, that others are no more useful, they throw the used people out !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This process , they continue till their end !!!!!!!!!!!!  

VALUES & SURVIVAL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Good values helped us to survive the difficult times ..........

The development , we see in this world is due to the values , we followed ...........

Now, we are breaking almost all values for survival !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IMPOSSIBLE IS , '' ALMOST NOTHING '' !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Self belief , self positive feeding and regular practice can make almost every thing possible !!!!!!!!!!!

It is nice to watch new generation doing many things, which we thought were almost impossible !

There are a few exercises, that can take us a few years back , in all respects .................. amazing !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NEED NEW LANGUAGE AND NEW STRATEGIES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Unless we update language and psychology for the new century, we will not be able to get across to any one effectively !!!!!!!!!!

Still using old things, that are taught over the centuries and living in old centuries !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CONTROL FREAK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Some people want to take over all conversations and places , they come across !!

They have this urge to be in control of every thing / every one !!

This happens , usually, with the ones, who are not at all filled with self esteem !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PARASITES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There are many , who live on others ........... hence , they feel unfulfilled and lack confidence !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

These people try to cover up, by doing a lot of running around to beat bushes and shout loud  !!!

They think, all their hollowness can be covered by loud noises !!

MOTHERS IN-LAW , WHY SO ??????????????????????????????????????/

This is just a view  !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Every body has his / her own territory !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Every one is feared of losing it, whenever new entity enters in it ..............................if not losing the whole territory, at least , a bit of control and freedom !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The one, who feels the ownership of the territory would not like any other possible threat...................

This threatening, internal feeling, may be the reason for mothers in-law to be as they are !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!    

NULLIFY THE NEGATIVITIES BY POSITIVES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We need to nullify the negativity by using positives , with lots of positives .................the only way to bring effective changes in any one  !

Nothing can grow, unless we create favourable conditions !!!

Do not create favourable conditions for negative breeding !!! 

CHILDREN BECOME PAWN IN THE GAME OF EGO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When feud over ego happens between spouses , the children unknowingly become pawns............ this has the worst effect !!!

Some deliberately use their children as pawns, just to have security in future ........... damaging the young ones, for ego games is the worst thing that can happen to any one family !!!!

URGE TO DOMINATE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People, low on self confidence has this urge to dominate !!!

Those, who have this strong urge are on low self esteem !

They feel themselves to be doing a favour....stupidity at the highest !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

POISONING THE MINDS OF CHILDREN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The fights between parents lead to the worst consequences !!

Children, unknowingly pick up wrong ideas about their own parents ...................... is it worth fighting for own ego purpose ?

Which family is what, is always a big issue.........it starts with the one , who has low self esteem !!!

NOT REVEALING TYPE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many people do not reveal their mind !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

They hold back many things............such irritating characters !!!

LIVING TOGETHER MAKES BIG DIFFERENCE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Living together makes a big difference !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Living together gives a chance to know , at least a bit about other .

IS IT REALLY TRUE ????????????????

Read somewhere that our thinking power and intelligence are shrinking !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It looks like that often, when the human behavior is analysed ,of late !

In depth thinking seems to be missing in many........may be life is easier due to globalization !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When things are easy, no need to think !!!!!!!!!!!!

ENTERTAINING TOO MANY THOUGHTS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many try to entertain many thoughts in the mind, simultaneously !!!!!!!!!!!  they think , they can multitask and be smarter than others !!!!     So many clogs the mind and confusion is the only result and the pressure  !!!!  

 

 

NO WHERE TO HIDE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Cheating cannot be continued........... it is not possible to continue the journey this way !!!

It won't be possible for such people to hide any where , the world is very small now !!!!!!!!!!!!!

NOT ADVISABLE TO FORCE DISCIPLINE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

After a stage, it is better to leave each and every alone and free ..............no point in trying to guide the physically grown up, but mentally not !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Still better to leave such people alone , so that they will improve, may be later than the usual time !!!!!!!!!

Later ,quality improvement is better than the forced one !!!!!!!!!

CHILDREN CAUGHT BETWEEN FAMILY EGO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ego is one single worst enemy of any human being !

When ego takes centre stage, the relationships take the worst beat !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When ego of two families surface, children are the ones , suffering the worst !!

But, children too have responsibility to grow up and do well in life rather than saying excuses all the way through !!!!!!!!!!

Every one is responsible for their own making ...........................

ONE PARENT AGAINST ANOTHER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

In many cases, one parent and his/her family makes the other and his/her family small in front of their children............

This usually happens, where inferiority complex rules the head !!

When people do not have any thing to show case about themselves, they feel insecure, and they do not think about the consequences !!!!!!!!!!!

Immature children do not know their own responsibility !!!!

ALL GOOD ARE OUR/ MINE & BAD YOURS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

After honey moon and family arrival,  bickering starts !!!

All good qualities of children are from my family and from me !!!!!

Any thing wrong with the children is from your family and from you !!!

Wonderful rule ................................ 

Whose rule is it any way ?.............. the one who feels inferiority complex !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!     because, there is nothing to show case concretely, about the highness !!!

STRANGE REFUSAL TO GET EDUCATED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There are many, who do not want to be educated ............strange !!!

And the same people pretend themselves to be the most educated , shouting and screaming without occasion !!!!

Juniors , at times prefer to follow them ......easy life !!!!!!!

THE LEAST EDUCATED, THE MOST OUT SPOKEN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The feeling of not being educated , makes many uncomfortable.

To make up/cover up the feeling, such people shout their judgements about others !!!

These people try to paint others in bad taste !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

They have opinions and judgements about every other person ,

on every thing and every occasion !!!! 

NO NEED TO CATCH UP WITH OTHERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We should try for our improvements .

Our resources are different from those of others .

There is no need to feel to catch up with others !!!

Instead, if we try to be best  in our own way, we will 

be more efficient and happy !!!!!

JEALOUSY BRINGS A LOT OF STRESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People envy others !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why should any one envy others ?

There is no need to be jealous of others, this world has enough

space for every one to be happy and live well !!!

Jealousy makes a person stressful and stress brings all illness !!

LAZIEST TO LEARN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Human beings, to day have enough resources to learn from.

But, unfortunately , many other things which gives easy pleasure prevents them to learn and have long term and continuous pleasure ...............

Learning takes time and we don' t have the patience , basically we are lazy to do some thing which takes time to have the result !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NEGATIVITY AS A SHIELD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Those who lack self esteem and confidence , use negativity as a protective cover .

It is difficult for them to come out of it, even if they want to , because of lack of confidence !!!

CHEATING AS '' ACHIEVEMENT ''!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Some people take cheating as achievement !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

They think , they are able to motivate people into unknown things, which is a major achievement !!

This mislead them to continue till they are caught with big humiliation !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PROJECTING '' WEIRD '' IMAGE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Some people , deliberately project , ' weird and stupid ' image in public  :

1. as shield , because they are not confident

2. for weird attention  

3. for weird pleasure !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

WHO SAYS, NEGATIVES DO NOT CHANGE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Every human being looks for change ......... and every one changes .!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Negatives make more changes !!!!!!!!!!!

They change back into their old comforts............ so there is change, it's not that ' change ' is impossible !!

Change , changes the tastes and that's what people don't want !!

NEGATIVE PEOPLE DISCONNECT WITH POSITIVES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

All negatives want to be positive !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

But, they are scared of losing their happiness, which they get

by being negative ........... happiness is in every source !!!!!!!!!!!

The fear of losing their way of happiness hold them back from

meeting positive people .........the moment they see positive 

people, they get the alarm bell of losing their way !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hence , there is disconnection with positives !!!!!!!!!!!  

PLEASURE IN CHEATING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For some, cheating gives an unchangeable pleasure..........

These people take this as an achievement with every cheating...

They get addicted to cheating till they are completely finished !

............ too late to recover !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

WHY '' CHANGE '' IS NOT NECESSARY ????????????????????

When we are happy, why should we change ...........

Every one is happy,  in his/her own way.......then why should 

one change ?

People do not want to change their taste as much as they do not

want to change their peculiar taste of happiness !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  

MATURITY MAKES THE WHOLE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN TWO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The main reason for the differences between two human beings is , maturity level !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Some people do not mature at all !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Talents are wasted by such people and thus get stuck in life !!!!!!

CAREER GIVES MORE SATISFACTION THAN XXX !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many men do not know that career progress gives more pleasure and satisfaction, though other aspect is equally important .......................

This ignorance lead to many break-up !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Support for progress is a big put on !!!!!!!!

WANTING TO REMAIN , .. CHILD '' !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It is advantageous to remain as a child..............

The big advantage is skipping responsibility................

A child for ever to one's parents..........every thing on platter !!!!

CAN'T DENY HAPPINESS TO ANY ONE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Happiness is the motivation..........

Since , happiness comes from different ways, it is difficult to 

direct people against it............

Directors do not seem to understand the way the other person 

derives happiness ..............  hence two minds never match !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

One should be prepared to expect the least expected/unexpected from the immaturity !!!!!!!!!!!

Such people want to lead childish lives , which they enjoy the most................ they do enjoy/ they are happy with it !!!!!!!!!!!!!

DIRECTIONS MEANS INSULT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Immature people take all directions/advices, given by others for good , as insults !!!!!!!!!!!

Ego doesn't allow them to accept those directions ..........

they will let others know that they already knew it ............

'' I know it '' is a common shout by these childish people !!!!!  

DON'T GET IRRITATED, LET THE OTHER EMPTY THE MIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It is good when people empty their mind rather than holding their anger inside !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So, encourage people to take out the venom rather than getting irritated and stopping others from their act !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We need empty cylinders to fill it with positives !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

KNOWLEDGE IS THE LEAST SOUGHT AFTER

The irony of the modern world is , though we have the conveniences and resources plenty, we do not seek knowledge !!

Knowledge about life, not talking about science or field like that !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ENCOURAGING COMMENTS ARE THE '' FUEL '' !!

Sincere, encouraging comments are like ,'fuel' !!!

The brain engine never stops with enough flow of fuel !!!!!!!!!!!

PATIENCE IS NECESSARY FOR TRUE LOVE !!!!!!!

No body is perfect..........so every thing , every time is not to our liking !!!

If we want to let others know , how much we love , the basic requirement is lots and lots of patience.............without patience, things won't work out !!

LETTING OTHERS EXPRESS THEIR FEELINGS !!!!!

We should let others express their feelings in full, if we want to maintain good relationship and love !!!!!!!!!!!!!

At times , we may feel horrible to survive the strong negativity of people . 

But, the fact is that every one is different and this has to be kept in mind !!!!!!!!!!!!

Free expressions only will help long term love !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!