NEED TO GO BY NEW WAYS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Psychology is not updated for long... we need to go by new, which is matching with our new world and new life style !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NO ONE ELSE CAN CHANGE MINDSET, BUT SELF !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Changing mindset/rather flexibility in attitude is the key to progress.
But no one else can do it for us...we need to do it ourselves !!!

CAN'T STOP FEEDING THE MIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People do feed their body and let it grow , every one wants it !!

When it comes to growth in mind, people don't feed their mind and thus stop growing in mind !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Poverty in mind causes decayed life !!!!

UNHAPPINESS IS IN THE MIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Feeling unhappy?  It is self created by ignoring positive processing of what are available to us in this world !!

LIFE UNCONDITIONAL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If only we conduct ourselves without conditions, we can enjoy our freedom and satisfaction in life !!!

Our happiness and satisfaction are in our hands/minds !!!!

HUMAN BEINGS SUBSTITUTED BY MACHINES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

More than irritation, it is a pain talking and dealing with machines for normal human needs !!!!!!!!!

Imagine a computer giving company in your bedroom !!!!!!!

USE IT OR LOSE IT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If we don't use our faculties , we may lose their sharpness !!!!!

This is especially true with our intelligence.....the more we use, the sharper it becomes.

COMPULSIVE COMMENTARIES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It is almost like a disorder with the people , low on self confidence, that they must comment on each and every thing and person !!!

They feel uncomfortable till they come out with comments......however stupid those comments may be ....they can't remain silent because, they think that their silence may be seen by others as ignorant !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PERSONALITY WITHOUT CONDITIONS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Our responses are depending on conditions......

Conditional responses become reactions ......they take away the opportunities to bring improvements in others !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MEN AND MULTIPLE , OH, YEAH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's possible ..........................

LOVE HAS NO CONDITIONS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Love means , love and there are no rooms for questions and conditions............ doesn't mean, that things are taken for granted !!!

WHEN DO FEEL , LIFE BORING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When we do not have  energy............. do something about it/rather every thing about it .....fuel the energy , that is the secret to avoid boredom !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

INTENTION , THE TORCH LIGHT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Intentions are the things that lead us in our lives .......... they are like the torch lights, which help us to move forward !!!

Hence, we need to be aware of the color of our intentions....awareness is important !!!!

THE MOST BEAUTIFUL PERSON IN THE WORLD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Must be the one :

Who is the most broad minded 

Who is the one with the best knowledge about life 

Who lives the life as an open book 

Who listens and respects others without conditions 

Whose presence makes others feel secure 

Whose presence sends out the ecstatic feelings of love 

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MUST EARN HAPPINESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Happiness doesn't happen, it has to be earned..........it can be earned, if only we desire it !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Persistence with positive route is the way to earn it !!!!!!!

MIND SPA !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We have 'spa', for every thing.............good business too !!!!!

Unfortunate , we don't have a spa for mind !!!!!!!!!!!!

May be , people think, it is a serious thing.......... am sure , that would be the funniest and useful , big thing next !!!!!!!!!!!!

EQUALITY IS ACHIEVED IF ONLY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We need to understand the differences, caused by biological differences, if we want to achieve the real equality !!!

Without understanding the root causes for natural / existing differences , no one can achieve a win-win situation, in any walks of life !!!!!!!!!!!!!

An unconditional / unbiased mindset is to be created within us !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

EGO IS A COMMON FACTOR !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Imagine, if we can think/do any thing without ego !!!!!!!!!

That's where we create the sure path to success and happiness !!

NON-VERBAL , BETTER OFTEN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When people refuse to listen to conversation, non-verbal can be used to bring better effect ........... one should master this, else, it will have unexpected results !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WONDERFUL WAYS , WE LOOK AT LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Old age is a problem for any one !!!!!!!!!!!

When, children's turn comes to look after and take care of their parents, children feel the burden !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! many feel, that they are doing a favor  and openly proclaim it !!!

The same children, often must have said, 'it is your duty to look after us, since you gave us the birth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  ''

BEING POSSESSIVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Insecurity is the reason for over-possessiveness............need to work on self esteem !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BEYOND HOLINESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Life is beyond holiness and holy books ............ there is a very higher level, one should go in mind !

People use other things as cover to be lazy and lead passive , easy life !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Responsible human beings take their lives to higher levels, so as to be helpful beyond their lives too !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PASSIVE LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many lead a passive life, in the name of spirituality  !!!

Spirituality can go along with normal life .... spirituality should not be an excuse from shedding responsibility !!!!!!!!!!!!!

NO CONTROL OVER LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Since you don't have any control over your life span, you should surrender yourselves to the powers...unknown !!!

You may surrender all that you have made during your life time for charity too....... and lead a simple life !!!

Good !!! 

The people who say this, are among the richest, powerful without any of their efforts and contributions... sheer exploitation of weak minds !!!!!!!!!!

IGNORING IGNORANCE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ignorant are ignorant about their ignorance .......... pardon them, if you want peace !!!!!!!!!!!

Even when these people know about their ignorance, they won't want to change it, change is a big NO , for them..... knowledge is scary.....they would think that, that would add more responsible living !!!!!!!!!!!!!

These people love leading stupid life....popping all over like butterflies and making stupid comments !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LETTING OTHERS KNOW !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People, low on confidence want to let others know their negligible success !!!

Confident people don't bother about recognition of their achievements by others ..... they look forward to do more !!!!!!!!!

ALL NEGATIVE WORDS GENERATE PRESSURE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Every negative word adds pressure to both the parties involved !!!................. take care !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hence, no one gets any benefit !!!!!!!!!!!!

NEED TO SCAN OUR MIND FOR NEGATIVE VIRUSES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We scan our computers and remove viruses, that block our systems !!!!!

Why don't we do the same with our minds !!!!!!!!!!!

If we do this , we can lead a fruitful happy life !!

Just bringing awareness is enough for this scan, thus inexpensive !!

NO NEED TO BE SHREWD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Some teach, to be shrewd........some parents tell their children to be shrewd........they think , this is a way to success !!!!!!!!!!!

No way !!!!!!!!!!!   short term, ok ........this will lead to disillusionment in the long run,,,,,,

NOT NECESSARY TO ANSWER ALL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It is not necessary to answer all questions.........no one knows every thing...........but, the so called spiritual teachers try to be an exception, cutting sorry figure !!!!!!!!!!!

They can't say, 'no', lest they lose business !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

INFERIORITY COMPLEX WILL DO MORE HARM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People with inferiority complex will do more harm than insincere people !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It would be very dangerous to rub on the wrong side of such people ........... they never forget being let down by others, even unintentional reference !!!!

IF, ASKED TO SURRENDER SELF !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Surrendering own self is the worst that one can do to own self esteem !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Imagine, surrendering in the name of spirituality !!!!!!!!!!!!

Being harmoniously among the human beings, keeping self identity is what can be called, 'win win' situation !!!!!!!!!!!!!

DON'T HANG ON TO ANY ONE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Free mind is what gives us the happiness ...... to be free , one needs to have the highest self esteem.......... this only will help any one to be independent !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hanging on to unknown, weird teaching and people, for emotional security is not the path to happiness !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Want to be happy, be self sufficient in all aspects ... of course, we can take guidance and help...but not submission !!!!!!!!!!!

WORLD OF PUBLICITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nothing works without publicity ......... definitely not the real stuff !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  There may be many , very useful sites, but doesn't reach the world !!!!!!!!!!!

Hence, even the so-called spiritual people go for the ultra modern advertisements !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

THE BEAUTY OF BEING , REAL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People create some fake images around them ....... this leads to dual personalities !!!!!!!!!!!

People with high confidence live without fake images, thus are not confused !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NEVER CRITICIZE MY FRIEND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People don't like their friends being criticized..........often people may accept criticism on themselves , but will be vengeful, if it is directed against people, who they depend for emotional security !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People , low on self confidence want some figures to boast about ................. these high rated figures are their emotional security !

EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People with low self esteem depend on others for emotional support ............................. millions submit themselves to unknown entities for this reason !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NOT BOTHERED ABOUT CONSEQUENCES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People just talk and do things without thinking about the consequences of their actions !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WHENEVER YOU FEEL LAZY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Whenever people feel lazy and don't want to work , they find this noble excuse, '' I am on a self realization trip "

This concept is being taught by whom ?

The ones, who accumulate wealth , doing nothing ..... exploiting others' weakness !!!

WANTING TO KNOW ,'' WHO AM I ?''

This is the best way to lead an easy life !

This is the stupidest thing , that some one has given to the lazy guys, who want to live like parasites !

Stupid things are what millions accept for convenience !!!!

SEEKING WITHOUT AN IDEA/NON-EXISTENT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Positive people seek improvements !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lazy people seek ' things which are non-existent' !!!!!!!!!!!! time pass !!!!!!!!!

SEEKERS OF .................................................................................

Easiest excuse in life is, using the phrase.'' i am seeking...something, something''.
The seekers know for sure one thing, this is an ongoing nonsense, and thus can lead a lazy life for ever and ever !!!

Good luck !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LIFE IS ,WAY BEYOND RELIGION AND COMMUNITIES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Human life is way beyond religion, communities and such limited things !
Only when we take it to much higher levels, we will feel fulfilled !!!!!!!!!!
Think beyond every thing that is limiting our activities !!!!!

SUBMISSION , WHEN WE ARE WEAK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Weak minds submit themselves to unknown, untested things !

Processing of mind, thoughts can't be done away with any time in life !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WELL, IT'S A GOOD IDEA TO HAVE INTERACTIONS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Interactions on different useful points about life is a good idea, thanks for suggestions from some of the users here !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NOT AWARE OF ALTERNATIVES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People do not update things...........live the same life over and over again...........not willing to improve on knowledge and finding progress !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Happy with the same easy route !!!!!!!!!!

WHO IS SCARED OF COMPETITION ????????????

People on low self esteem are the only ones, who are scared of competition !

People with high self esteem mind their own perfection.....not bothered to look sideways !

NEED LIFE COACHES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is a very busy and fast world with innumerable information !
It is difficult to tackle things in a calm and smooth ways !
This is why there is need for life coach for almost every one...............but, many life coaches themselves are incompetent !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ALLERGIC TO POSITIVE THINGS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sadists like negative things, they get easy and strong pleasure from giving pain to others !!!!!!!!!!!!

These people are thus allergic to positive attitude !!!!!!!!!!

WHEN HELP IS NOT HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Person of the same level can be helped...........

Help for a person, who feels low, will turn out to be an invitation for enmity .......... inferiority complex plays the villain role in this !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

RELATIONSHIPS CAN NEVER BE LIKE BEFORE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People are aware and bothered too much about individual needs and are selfish to the utmost...........this means, there won't be any solid relationships !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HONEST MIND THAT WORKS FOR US !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's not any tricks and methods that works for us.

It is the honest mind, a mind with complete positive attitude that works wonders in life for us !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FAME OVER FAMILY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Stupid people boast about their family connections, and forget to pass on the right values to their young generations, thus creating confusions in the family !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Education counts !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ACCEPTANCE OVER SUBSTANCE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People do things to get accepted rather than do things , which are of substance and useful !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LEARNING FOR THE DAY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People want to learn minimum things, just to live for the moment...........lazy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Learning to put knoledge in to use is very pleasurable thing !!!

TRUE PERSON !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

True person is the one , who can receive 'no', with courage and the one , who can say , 'no', with courage !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CONVENIENCE OVER HAPPINESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We live by convenience, easy ways !!!!!!!!!!!!

Happiness is sacrificed thus, for happiness we need to work....work, many won't like !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LIVING IN FOOLS' PARADISE, EASIER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It is much easier to be in fools' paradise, as a fool by self, than teaching the fools, 'how to be smart and intelligent. '

It is definitely, very painful to surrender own intelligence !!!!!

IT IS WISE TO BE A FOOL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What are our options , when we are to live among fools ?

1. Teach the fools ,how to raise their ability to think and improve ..........

2. Be a fool and enjoy the rest of  life , without hassles .................., easy , oh yeah !!!!!!!!!!!!! 

INTERNAL STRENGTH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Capabilities can be enhanced only through internal strength !!!

We focus more on the external !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

VALUES AT WRONG PLACE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If we place our values at wrong place, we won't feel happy !!!

We are too busy to prioritize things in orderly ways !!!

LAZIEST FOR USEFUL KNOWLEDGE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Very few look for useful knowledge............ majority are lazy about it , because, they think them to be nuisances !!!!

SOFTNESS/KINDHEARTEDNESS , SEEN AS WEAKNESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People, who are completely positive do not weigh soft / strong things .......... they just live and let others live happily !!!

This kind, smooth attitude is often mistaken as weakness, and ultra smartness of others, who are smart only because of the providers !!!!!!!!!!!!!

RIGHTS AND NO RESPONSIBILITIES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Not bothered about responsibilities, but yes, rights !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Rights at the wrong places!!!!!!!!!!!!

DON'T DIRECT OTHERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We have this habit of directing others, which is the worst put off !!!!!

Women , especially do this to men ..............men hate this !!!!!!

Those wanting good relationship have to avoid this !!!!!!!!!!!

CONSEQUENCES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People do not have the patience and intelligence to think about the consequences of their actions !!!!!!!!!!!!

If , consequences are weighed , of all our actions, we may be better of often !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

TRAGEDY OF HUMAN LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Not using the reasoning faculty  is the biggest tragedy of human life !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Living a life like animals, with the ability to talk is all that we do in general ........... maximum time is wasted on silly egoistic things !!!!!!!!!!!

TRUE COLOUR OF A PERSON !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Want to know the true color of a person,'watch the person, after denying some thing to that person !'

From polite to rude state of mind, one turns , after being denied !!!!!!

CORRECTION OF LANGUAGE , WE USE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The language we use in our daily lives , shapes our destiny !!!

If we want peace, happiness and prosperity , we need to correct our ways from negatives to complete positives !!!!!!!!!

WHEN LIFE IS ALL ABOUT USING OTHERS AND SELF MARKETING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lives are all about using others and selling self , for many !!!

RAISING LEVEL OF MIND, PREVENTS SEPARATION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If we want to avoid separations, we need to raise the level of our mind......................

Not using our head is the cause for divorce..... women, with high self esteem know how to prevent things !!!!!!!!!

MOTIVATION PROBLEM ??????????????????????

Self motivation is the biggest problem , people face !!!

Self education is the best way to self motivate !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

INSECURITY MAKES US VULNERABLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's the most difficult thing to predict the behavior of insecure people !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This feeling may lead to hurting own well-wishers too !!!

HAPPY STATE OF MIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For every thing, we need to put a solid foundation !

If we want to succeed , we need to have a 'happy state of mind', as the foundation !!!

WANTING TO BE HAPPY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Real desire is the mother of all inventions !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The real need to be happy is the mother of all roads to happiness !!!!!!!!!!!!

We need to open the path in the mind ............ rest will be taken care by our mind !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CLARITY ABOUT HAPPINESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If only we give the clear idea about 'happiness' to our mind, we can feel happy !!

Often , we are confused or do not know the concept of happiness !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!